ladies..how do you define a man's love for you

[Anarchist]

PS: As usual, when this matter is mentioned people like to point out the love for parents/religion/God etc. I am not talking about that one but the one said to be between partners and something along that line. Bullshit! Shit is based on interest and not solely & unselfishly on the so called love itself. It's either one is blindly & stupendously devoted to another (in my dictionary, extreme lust/infatuation) or it's just for some other selfish reasons.

Love kulahaa; sheekooy ku nacay!

Sxb, I don't think it makes any man less of a man if they admit love can exist. Nothing wrong with loving your spouse, it's essential & healthy. Love between spouses means a strong foundation for their marriage, for their home & for their future children. Not sure how one intends to raise children in a loveless marriage or survive in it for the long haul. In addition to shared interests, compatibility, mutual respect, commitment & trust - love is like the glue that binds it together is how I see it.

Most women either don't know how to deal with it or can't help taking it for granted. Very few women left in the world that deserve it. That's the issue.

[zulaika]

Believe in love?


In lust we trust.


PS: As usual, when this matter is mentioned people like to point out the love for parents/religion/God etc. I am not talking about that one but the one said to be between partners and something along that line. Bullshit! Shit is based on interest and not solely & unselfishly on the so called love itself. It's either one is blindly & stupendously devoted to another (in my dictionary, extreme lust/infatuation) or it's just for some other selfish reasons.

Love kulahaa; sheekooy ku nacay!

and since you mentioned God.. how about the love He put in hearts of married man and woman for one another? What say u on that? is thet also sheeko sheeko BS?

[zulaika]

is it the things he gives you, or what he says.

my cousin is married to a complete A-hole who at one point threaten to cause her harm if she ever left him cuz he loves her too much to see her with another man. to her this is deep love that compensates for all his other shortcomings.

love between man and a woman seems abstract in the eyes of women..but somehow before a woman enters into a relationship with a man, she's sold(to self,most of the time) a universal idea of a man's love. its a different ballgame when she's living with a man... love is redefined.

your thoughts my sisters, please and thank you!

As a man of actions, I would rather answer that question with actions; do you have another female cousin?



But just to give you a hint - I'm the opposite of AW

so u r a guy named Amal? waa ii kow

[SiennaEarth]

If he can put up with my crazy ass and bipolar mood swings and change of personality then yep he loves me.

[AmalJaber]

so u r a guy named Amal? waa ii kow

Yap



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[zulaika]

nothing can explain a man named Amal..i can't get past it

is there male name you'd prefer to be called..let me know and i will reply to u as so henceforth

[AmalJaber]

nothing can explain a man named Amal..i can't get past it

is there male name you'd prefer to be called..let me know and i will reply to u as so henceforth

Yes; I wanted to sign up with my real name but it was taken...so my new name is Small Simba Do you think there's a better name?

[ms.naliaa]

I have a funny story of what I (used to) think love is.

I was with (what I thought at the time) the man I was going to spend the rest of days (and nights) with. I was in school. He lived a couple of hours away.
He came for a surprise visit on a weekend. I was happy to see him and spend time with him but the day he was supposed to leave, he said he was going to stay one more day and spend it with me. I said he couldnt stay. I had a paper to write and exams to study for, he would just be a huge distraction. He said he wouldnt be and he would buckle down on his work too...I refused, got pissed at him for trying to derail me and told him to leave that instant (yes, I was a complete biatch that day). He just looked at me and said he just wanted to spend time with me and I was like "no you cant, I have my future to think about" he said fine then left.
After cooling down and replaying the scenario in my head a few times, I saw that I may have overreacted. I tried to call him and he didnt pick up. I thought he was probably pissed off at me and rightly so. 20 minutes ater he calls and with the sweetest tone says "hey babe, Im sorry I made you upset". And thats when I knew he really meant when said he loved me.

Im not so sure what I think love is now that Im a bit older and wiser.

[illuminatizz]

I cant help but agree with tuushi.Love doesnt exist in my dictionary,just living your life according your own hobbies,interests and future aspirations with out giving a damn care about people especially is how i get the ladies.so far it is working for me.

[zulaika]

I cant help but agree with tuushi.Love doesnt exist in my dictionary,just living your life according your own hobbies,interests and future aspirations with out giving a damn care about people especially is how i get the ladies.so far it is working for me.

Ok so you're incapable of loving someone but would u allow a woman to love u with all your dont giva damn approach?

[BlackVelvet]

People need permission to love?

[zulaika]

People need permission to love?

man: bv will u be my love? (permission request)
bv: yes( permission granted)

[BlackVelvet]

man: bv will u be my love? (permission request)
bv: what are you talking about? (confused)

[DisplacedDiraac]

I have a funny story of what I (used to) think love is.

I was with (what I thought at the time) the man I was going to spend the rest of days (and nights) with. I was in school. He lived a couple of hours away.
He came for a surprise visit on a weekend. I was happy to see him and spend time with him but the day he was supposed to leave, he said he was going to stay one more day and spend it with me. I said he couldnt stay. I had a paper to write and exams to study for, he would just be a huge distraction. He said he wouldnt be and he would buckle down on his work too...I refused, got pissed at him for trying to derail me and told him to leave that instant (yes, I was a complete biatch that day). He just looked at me and said he just wanted to spend time with me and I was like "no you cant, I have my future to think about" he said fine then left.
After cooling down and replaying the scenario in my head a few times, I saw that I may have overreacted. I tried to call him and he didnt pick up. I thought he was probably pissed off at me and rightly so. 20 minutes ater he calls and with the sweetest tone says "hey babe, Im sorry I made you upset". And thats when I knew he really meant when said he loved me.

Im not so sure what I think love is now that Im a bit older and wiser.

He should have offered to write your paper for you while you revised..
Now that's what I would've called borderline love..

[InaSamaale]

Percy Sledge described it best.