Arguments btw couples

[wiyeer]

One major problem that somalis hardly talk about (because of xishood) who's is probably behind 80% of divorces, is the lack of SEX.Laakin waa mushkilad aaney cidna ka hadlin karin...naagina aabahed ku odhan kari mayso marka la waydiiyo ninka maxaad ku dhacday "aabo xaga sariirta ninku kuma fiicna"...i mean just imagin the reactions...

how did you come up with this statistic?
adigu ma dumar lafureybaad wareysatay mise waa iska malahaaga. Malaa adigu markiiba odeyga waxaad odhan lahayd ha laysoo gole fadhiisiyo hadii habeen hurdo latagto lol

[salool]

^^Yup, females discuss this and men have no clue.

I will give an ex of an agrument...two couples i personally know always argue about money..both of them works fulltime and yet they argue about "money"...xitaa arintu ilaa iyo familga ayey so gaadhey.Mar kasto oy naagto ay so cabato waxay ka hadleysa lacag....hada waa naagta shaqaysa ee lacagto so gasho. ....so what do you think the issue is here?....dadkeena cidna kuma dhacdo inay sex ka hadlaan...waa forbidden subject so they turn their issue to somthing els...like money...ninku ima caawiya iyo bahaa bahaa meydhan.Once they divorce bey xaqiiqado so baxda.If this issue was adressed during their marriages many would have been saved.So wiyer gabadhaada qanciy.


Qaali, ma fududa walaalo...some women actually think sex is only for the man and thats how many been brought up...they feel ashamed about their desires and needs.Waayo wa wax laga dhaadhiciyey yaraantoodi...sexka waa wax xun ha sameenina.If you cant say what you want in bed and play dead every night you cant blame the man.Frustrationku marku ka bato hadhoona way iska furi ninka.The blame is not only on women though, the're men who doesnt give shit about their wives oo tooda uun ka fakara..mesha ma musqulba..hawalhaaga ka dhamayso oo isaga dhaqaaaq.

[QaaliDumar]

Qaali, ma fududa walaalo...some women actually think sex is only for the man and thats how many been brought up...they feel ashamed about their desires and needs.Waayo wa wax laga dhaadhiciyey yaraantoodi...sexka waa wax xun ha sameenina.If you cant say what you want in bed and play dead every night you cant blame the man.Frustrationku marku ka bato hadhoona way iska furi ninka.The blame is not only on women though, the're men who doesnt give shit about their wives oo tooda uun ka fakara..mesha ma musqulba..hawalhaaga ka dhamayso oo isaga dhaqaaaq.

Loooooool Salool, beentaa maahan.

[greenday]

WTF salool I couldn't imagine arguing about money or sex! Argument are usually minor things that build up.

[Xaawoley]

One major problem that somalis hardly talk about (because of xishood) who's is probably behind 80% of divorces, is the lack of SEX.Laakin waa mushkilad aaney cidna ka hadlin karin...naagina aabahed ku odhan kari mayso marka la waydiiyo ninka maxaad ku dhacday "aabo xaga sariirta ninku kuma fiicna"...i mean just imagin the reactions...

Gabar aabaheed soo hor fariisanaysa oo hadalkaa oranaysa majirto (unless uu aabo maskax furan yahay laakin adigaaba ka xishoon inaad waxaas ku hadashid) Walaalo kula dhashay ama ilmo adeero ku fahmaya oo aad isku da' tihiin ayaa loo sheegan karaa. Hadday timaado wax laga xishoodo maahan.

Salool, I don't believe this to be true. Somali women put up with a lot when it comes to ragooda, rag masuuliyadooda meel isga dhigay oo khat un ka shaqeeya and some who are even abusive and they do all that and more for caruurtooda mustaqbalkooda. So you mean to tell me a Somali woman is going to ask for a divorce cause she isn't getting smashed the right way or she isn't getting laid enough?

And Qaali please tell me why a grown a.s.s woman would go to her relatives and complain about not getting smashed enough? Her husband has seen her iyado mudh iyo gacan ah, why can't she tell HIM she has needs too?

The top issue in a marriage is money cause usually men waay gacan adag yihiin.

[QaaliDumar]

One major problem that somalis hardly talk about (because of xishood) who's is probably behind 80% of divorces, is the lack of SEX.Laakin waa mushkilad aaney cidna ka hadlin karin...naagina aabahed ku odhan kari mayso marka la waydiiyo ninka maxaad ku dhacday "aabo xaga sariirta ninku kuma fiicna"...i mean just imagin the reactions...

Gabar aabaheed soo hor fariisanaysa oo hadalkaa oranaysa majirto (unless uu aabo maskax furan yahay laakin adigaaba ka xishoon inaad waxaas ku hadashid) Walaalo kula dhashay ama ilmo adeero ku fahmaya oo aad isku da' tihiin ayaa loo sheegan karaa. Hadday timaado wax laga xishoodo maahan.

Salool, I don't believe this to be true. Somali women put up with a lot when it comes to ragooda, rag masuuliyadooda meel isga dhigay oo khat un ka shaqeeya and some who are even abusive and they do all that and more for caruurtooda mustaqbalkooda. So you mean to tell me a Somali woman is going to ask for a divorce cause she isn't getting smashed the right way or she isn't getting laid enough?

And Qaali please tell me why a grown a.s.s woman would go to her relatives and complain about not getting smashed enough? Her husband has seen her iyado mudh iyo gacan ah, why can't she tell HIM she has needs too?

The top issue in a marriage is money cause usually men waay gacan adag yihiin.

Walaal waa mar ey ka quusatay oo arrinku furniin taaganyahay. Haddii la isku deyo in la kala dexaadiyo so cid un dhibka haya uma sheeganayso?

Taasaan anigu ugala jeeday.

[Xaawoley]

lol Qaali waan ku fahmay walaal laakiin seriously what woman is brave enough to tell her relatives suttin' like that. Personally, I would discuss it with him first and hadanu isagu hadalkayga waxba ka soo qaadanin then I guess waan u dul qaadan laha whatever the case, I mean could I really put my personal needs before my children?

[QaaliDumar]

Walaal, waan fahmi karaa waana arrin adag.

Aabo wanaagsan iyo nin sidiisa kale u fiican dadaalna muujinaya haduu yahay, waad u dulqaadan kartaa ayaan filayaa


There are plenty of options out there.

[Lillaahiya]

Xaawo: Ka ducayso. Many women in that situation look outside their marriage to fulfill their needs. Mid ku anfaco Illahay ha ku siiyo

Btw, if a couple are going through some things, chances are their intimacy will suffer because of it. That being said, I still think money is the biggest deal breaker.

[wiyeer]

[quote="salool"]^^Yup, females discuss this and men have no clue.

I will give an ex of an agrument...two couples i personally know always argue about money..both of them works fulltime and yet they argue about "money"...xitaa arintu ilaa iyo familga ayey so gaadhey.Mar kasto oy naagto ay so cabato waxay ka hadleysa lacag....hada waa naagta shaqaysa ee lacagto so gasho. ....so what do you think the issue is here?....dadkeena cidna kuma dhacdo inay sex ka hadlaan...waa forbidden subject so they turn their issue to somthing els...like money...ninku ima caawiya iyo bahaa bahaa meydhan.Once they divorce bey xaqiiqado so baxda.If this issue was adressed during their marriages many would have been saved.So wiyer gabadhaada qanciy.


markaa maxaad kula talisay. plus iyo negative ma u sharaxday mise xisaabta iskuma wanaagsanidin. ragu hints iyo waxaa ma yaqaanaane naagtiisu waa iney u sheegto waxay doonayso ceebna maaha laakiin dhaqankeena qofta dumarka ahi waxey kabaqeysaa inu ninkeedu is yidhaahdo waa love waayo sida qaalibka ah dadkeenu waxay hamadda dumarka ku ladhaan dhillonimo.

[Hyperactive]

naag sex iyo wahas a timado, Allah ko jof e naka amus ban oran laha aniku.

[ElfRuler0]

naag sex iyo wahas a timado, Allah ko jof e naka amus ban oran laha aniku.

Didn't they teach you the rights of one's wife in your Islamic studies?

[Hyperactive]

her right to get divorced if not enough for her what she is getting. but hishood iyo class ba naag an laheyn nin raba maleh.

[Jax]

naag sex iyo wahas a timado, Allah ko jof e naka amus ban oran laha aniku.

wa runta gabadh oo aan xishood lahayn wa gabadh la talaqo..

[Hyperactive]

naag sex iyo wahas a timado, Allah ko jof e naka amus ban oran laha aniku.

wa runta gabadh oo aan xishood lahayn wa gabadh la talaqo..

war ninyaho, ragu wa iney ska soman. i have been fasting past 5 years.lol