Who's to blame for the high divorce rate in our community?

[CaliQase]

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[Hibonuraa]

yaa allah ninmanka soomaaliyeed doqonsanaa nin oromo ah ayaa caayey hablaayooka markaase qoslaayaan

[CaliQase]

Bareento is Oromo?!

[bareento]

yaa allah ninmanka soomaaliyeed doqonsanaa nin oromo ah ayaa caayey hablaayooka markaase qoslaayaan

Its just a jab!

I have too much respect for womanfolk in general and the somali womanfolk in patricular to insult somali woman!
in fact I am an admiror

B.

[HayWire]

Both are to blame. When are ppl going to take responsibility for their own actions.

@Bareento
Get you filth Oromo ass out of here

[bareento]

Both are to blame. When are ppl going to take responsibility for their own actions.

@Bareento
Get you filth Oromo ass out of here

[AyeeyoH]

Qadar.

[Ismail87]

Well , u guys r afraid to say the true reason : its SEX.

Who can satisfy an overweight Xalimo, whose libido is multiplied by ten !
Intake of tons of xalawa, chocolate, etc etc...not only boosted their weight but also their libido...
besides they watch some tv programs and ask u to perform like ....God save as!

My golden career of catering Single Mamas was short lived ...I was worn out and I took refuge in Starbucks!

Now I undertand why Somali men are skinny...

B.

You sound like a war veteran

[Djiboutian]

May I know which community you are talking about? Somalian Community or Somaliland Community or Djiboutian Community? Where at, back home or abroad? If abroad, in which country?

I blame the men. Is not it the husband who pronounces the phrase "I divorce you" ??

If you don't have one of these 3 things there is a big chance your marriage will end up.

1- Discretion ( ilaalinta Sirta )
2- Longanimity ( Dulqaad )
3- Maintaining ties of kinship/Family bonds ( Xidid iyo xigaal )

Guurku sabankan/samankan waa tusbax aan dhammaanayn oo xeer iyo xaagaan lagu labo dibleeyo.

Allow sahal amuuraha! Amin ya rab al caalamin

Back home people used to marry from their own village and the wifey was often a relative. Whether we like it or not. That worked. Somalis stayed married until the Farah died and in 80% of cases the hubby went to the grave first.

Now days people trying to be 'ilbaax' and marrying foreign Somalis from two different worlds. So the marriage just prematures because they do not even understand each others. The hubby wants to send money konfuur but the naag wants to visit north-----or vice-versa. Big drama.

Also it's true Majerteeins have the highest divorce rates of any qabil.

Dir seem to have the lowest.

Isaac and Hawiye seem to marry each others a lot.

Isaac niggz hardly divorce like back home they prefer problems to be solved internally and no authority gets involved.

Ogadens from the north seem to have traditional marriage life while those from the south especially NFD often fail because they mix so many weird things.

Marehans have no girls to marry.

HG men marry new naag every five months like their Majertein relatives and they suck with family life. Often Abgaal is picking up the pieces or broken HG families.

I feel bad for Abgaals.

Dir girls are highly sought after. High demand for them coz Dir are no threat to anyone and they are not too politicised.

Most Isaac love to stick with their own. When they fight the entire habro get involved and it's kind of embarrassing really for niggz to fight with wifey coz they know the odaay with the red beard will be coming. Marka way iska amuusan

Most Gidabursi marriages last and they keep it to themselves----huuno put the rasaas down. Waxba kama so baxaan.

Warsangeli homes are calm.


That's my observation.


The Haud

Aabaha la janne .

[TheUglyTruth]

Is there a high divorce rate? I would love to see statistics instead of anecdotes. Also, I would like to know what country has the highest divorce rate.

In my opinion, like all things Somali, there is a lot of exaggeration. Somalis love to inflate numbers and make a big deal out of anything.

[Django]

Blame Sheydan.

[Djiboutian]

Well , u guys r afraid to say the true reason : its SEX.

Who can satisfy an overweight Xalimo, whose libido is multiplied by ten !
Intake of tons of xalawa, chocolate, etc etc...not only boosted their weight but also their libido...
besides they watch some tv programs and ask u to perform like ....God save as!

My golden career of catering Single Mamas was short lived ...I was worn out and I took refuge in Starbucks!

Now I undertand why Somali men are skinny...

B.

lool@ golden career

This Raisin-Head Qoti is insulting your women and you are laughing

Qoti and Golden career should not come at the same sentence. I have yet to see Qoti weight more than 54 Kg no wonder you worn out.

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

Well , u guys r afraid to say the true reason : its SEX.

Who can satisfy an overweight Xalimo, whose libido is multiplied by ten !
Intake of tons of xalawa, chocolate, etc etc...not only boosted their weight but also their libido...
besides they watch some tv programs and ask u to perform like ....God save as!

My golden career of catering Single Mamas was short lived ...I was worn out and I took refuge in Starbucks!

Now I undertand why Somali men are skinny...

B.

Oromo wasakhlay naagaahooda urka iyo baalinmo lagu yaqaan ha Ku caydo wa habaar.

[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

hibo nd djiboutian ... i laughed at his calaacal not the insult part nd i dont agree with his analysis
ps i didnt know he was qoti

[AgentOfChaos]

The number one cause for divorce is marriage.......and juvenile emotions.