Guys if you ever see a Somali girl with a foreigner and it annoys you, do this!

[Jabuutawi]

Horta isn't there a dating site that caters to Somalis?

I honestly do not see this as being a problem in my neck of the woods, west coast of America. It could possibly be because I do not live in a predominantly Somali neighborhood.

For God's sake, some of you need to stop writing chapters on this subject, enough is enough.

[Sumubaridi]

I have a Somali girl in my apartment who is in a group of African American girls. I think she goes to college nearby. She is always wearing shorts, hair exposed and she is not into Somali. It bugs me inside and I feel sorry for her family but I KEEP My mouth shut.

The irony is that no Somali man would even want to wife such a woman yet they want to whine about who she creeps with

I for one couldn't care less about the private life of some Somali thot. I care about the good, wholesome sisters.

The only time that something like this bothers me is when a quality woman with Diin and education marries some ajnabi. It's a loss for our community as we need strong, educated mothers. Usually these types simply marry out out love or because there are no compatible Somali brothers in their local area.

I have a bunch of well-educated, intelligent, beautiful relatives whom I worry for. There are far more good women than good men, it's just the way it is. You can't expect them to hold on for a good somali brother since time is working against them. I wouldn't even be mad if they married out as long as it's not to some bum and they're doing it for the right reason.

wallaahi waa run. A single mother of 4 who has been single for 10 years and had no one talk to her gets through the mercy of allah a practicing African American or Cadaan man and every Somali man gets nuts as if he was about to come and ask for her hand in Marriage. If you ask the same guy who is going whacko if he will marry her, he will tell you Maya. I am like aabahaa wase xaasidsanidaa. If you aint going to Marry her, why would you want her to die single. Somethings are just plain xaasidnimo and cruelty. I can understand a well educated, beautiful, biko and from a good family rushing to marry ajnabi while she had 5 Somali guys wanting to marry her. But a single Mother who had no other option other than Marry ajnabi or die single because no Somali man wanted to raise her kids, that is just No. No. Aniga dadkii muslim ah oo isqaba waan bogaadinayaah.

[gegiroor]

It used to bother me but not anymore. I remember staring intensely at them when I see them with gaalos, and shaming them when I was much younger than I am. I remember telling a woman, "ha nala sheekaysan bahalyahy qudhuntay ee gaalada raacda." Later on some men related to her wanted to fight me.

As I grew older, I let it go and it doesn't bother me anymore. But Adali brother, I heard you. Just be careful as some of these girls are dangerous and may opt to settle score with you.

[Raganimo]

It used to bother me but not anymore. I remember staring intensely at them when I see them with gaalos, and shaming them when I was much younger than I am. I remember telling a woman, "ha nala sheekaysan bahalyahy qudhuntay ee gaalada raacda." Later on some men related to her wanted to fight me.

As I grew older, I let it go and it doesn't bother me anymore. But Adali brother, I heard you. Just be careful as some of these girls are dangerous and may opt to settle score with you.

Some years back, a brother in Canada was murdered because he confronted a somali girl who was in a club with a bunch of Jamaican gangbangers.. the brother was no trouble maker and simply told her to stop hanging out with these people. The hoe snitched to her boyfriend who gunned the brother down outside.

Those lost chicks are not worth it. Like I said, most of you wouldn't wife them anyway. Worry about the good, wholesome sisters who need a good Somali husband yet are forced to marry out because there aren't enough good guys out there. This is the real loss to our community. Not some confused self-hating xoolo who would bring another generation of confused xoolo into this world.

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

It used to bother me but not anymore. I remember staring intensely at them when I see them with gaalos, and shaming them when I was much younger than I am. I remember telling a woman, "ha nala sheekaysan bahalyahy qudhuntay ee gaalada raacda." Later on some men related to her wanted to fight me.

As I grew older, I let it go and it doesn't bother me anymore. But Adali brother, I heard you. Just be careful as some of these girls are dangerous and may opt to settle score with you.

Some years back, a brother in Canada was murdered because he confronted a somali girl who was in a club with a bunch of Jamaican gangbangers.. the brother was no trouble maker and simply told her to stop hanging out with these people. The hoe snitched to her boyfriend who gunned the brother down outside.

Those lost chicks are not worth it. Like I said, most of you wouldn't wife them anyway. Worry about the good, wholesome sisters who need a good Somali husband yet are forced to marry out because there aren't enough good guys out there. This is the real loss to our community. Not some confused self-hating xoolo who would bring another generation of confused xoolo into this world.

Bro it's not just the girls that are to blame. My cousin tells me whenever he approaches a Somali girl, the brother or cousin wants to fight. But if some dhegcas or kurd wants to talk to her they won't say sh*t. It's like we pimp dumarkeena to ajnabi.

Anyway this topic needs to be moved to the exteme section.

[Bibaaye6828]

Some long essays being written about this topic smh. Other people read this as well. Shit is so sad most of you are so backwards its unbelievable. Some insecure people

[Adali]

Hates Somali guys: Check
Accuses me of being Xenophobic against Arabs: Check

Dude first of all listen I actually thought you were a chick, I apologise you just came across a little feminine in your post, let me ask you, why are you even so passionate, why are you fighting me so hard, you aren't getting paid for this apart from the seconds of attention you get from a random farah who doesn't give two shits if you dead tomorrow from a stroke.. I have nothing against you, I don't know you.. If you are pro-mixing why can't I be anti-mixing ? don't we all have rights of opinion..

All those who oppose me aren't effeminate, look at Gurey, he is a normal dude he isn't waging a jihad against Adali for thinking niggers, cadaans and arabs stay away from our women.

There are guys I respect like Raganimo because they are passionate about stuff that I agree with, but even he is behaving in an emotional way when opposing my attitudes towards this issue. He went to the extend of name calling and writing lengthy post I have no time to read.

You do realise I am saying what 80% of ordinary Somali guys think, when they see a beautiful somali girl with a foreigner, they are not happy or neutral, they f-king cringe and think it is disgusting, I am not saying it is a good or a bad thing, I am saying I completely relate to those guys and why not, our society our community our nation is going through a 3 generation turmoil that started in the late 80s and exist to this day, under these context I don't blame every Guy for having the balls to act on his natural instincts of self-preservation.
I am not a misogynist, women are half of the population, a largely impressionable group that is being turned against the other half. This manifest itself in many forms, including messing around with niggers, whites and arabs fuck em, to the emasculated farahs im sorry I offended your feelings, I am especially sorry to thebluenwhite who is the biggest ladyboy out of all of you, no disrespect LGBT Somalia

Accusing me of being a tribalist when I have not attacked your tribe and only say what your own elders believe and propagate?


All I am merely saying is that it is the pinnacle of hypocrisy for you to be against the same type of relationships that gave birth to your ancestors and eventually you. Was your ayeeyo Donbiro mistaken for marrying Darod or was that a blessed union? You yourself are a mixed breed and have Arab blood coursing through your veins, yet you are against Somali women from marrying from the very people who are of your forefathers and gave birth to your cherished ancestors that you proudly claim descent from? Explain this extreme cognitive dissonance to me.

Somalis all have different origins and are from completely different stocks. Our history was one of mixed marriages with the only reason such marriages occurred being "as long as they are Muslim", the same reasoning you attack Somali sisters for marrying a good Muslim man who happens to hail from a different country. Are you just too dense to see the stinking hypocrisy of your post?

You accuse me of being effeminate when cognitive dissonance is the a hallmark of effminacy and you are the one crying about 'dey stealing our wimmenz!!!1111". I agree completely with bro Raganimo. A real man is a pragmatist at the end of the day and he knows that whining and crying about something on the internet won't change anything on the ground, assuming it is even a phenomenon that exists in the first place.

Hey effeminate qabilist, looks like your poured all your oestrogen into this long winded post, you don't expect me to read all of that do you ?

moving on...

[Adali]

It used to bother me but not anymore. I remember staring intensely at them when I see them with gaalos, and shaming them when I was much younger than I am. I remember telling a woman, "ha nala sheekaysan bahalyahy qudhuntay ee gaalada raacda." Later on some men related to her wanted to fight me.

As I grew older, I let it go and it doesn't bother me anymore. But Adali brother, I heard you. Just be careful as some of these girls are dangerous and may opt to settle score with you.

Some years back, a brother in Canada was murdered because he confronted a somali girl who was in a club with a bunch of Jamaican gangbangers.. the brother was no trouble maker and simply told her to stop hanging out with these people. The hoe snitched to her boyfriend who gunned the brother down outside.

Those lost chicks are not worth it. Like I said, most of you wouldn't wife them anyway. Worry about the good, wholesome sisters who need a good Somali husband yet are forced to marry out because there aren't enough good guys out there. This is the real loss to our community. Not some confused self-hating xoolo who would bring another generation of confused xoolo into this world.

Bro it's not just the girls that are to blame. My cousin tells me whenever he approaches a Somali girl, the brother or cousin wants to fight. But if some dhegcas or kurd wants to talk to her they won't say sh*t. It's like we pimp dumarkeena to ajnabi.

Anyway this topic needs to be moved to the exteme section.

Yeah because our culture isn't similar to Dhegocas, women actually have freedom in our culture so you can't just go around insulting a random Somali girl and not expect her to kick you in your face, call her brothers, police and piss on your grave, they are f-king human beings even if she is a slut ! Leel just follow my rules waryaa.

Gegiroor you were being honest though, you expressed the feeling she gave you in a authentic yet belligerent manner haha, many guys think like you, around 80% at least you had balls to just spit it out carelessly.
If you had followed my rules you would not have backlash bro.

[Adali]

Alot of juicy replies in this thread !

Raganimo.. listen man you are still being extreme and a purist, I agree with you on many things but your post are starting to become weird and unpalatable.

Some years back, a brother in Canada was murdered because he confronted a somali girl who was in a club with a bunch of Jamaican gangbangers.. the brother was no trouble maker and simply told her to stop hanging out with these people. The hoe snitched to her boyfriend who gunned the brother down outside.

Those lost chicks are not worth it. Like I said, most of you wouldn't wife them anyway. Worry about the good, wholesome sisters who need a good Somali husband yet are forced to marry out because there aren't enough good guys out there. This is the real loss to our community. Not some confused self-hating xoolo who would bring another generation of confused xoolo into this world.

You are promoting some eugenics experiment here, Hoes out to the foreigners and keep the good girls... correct ? I have to say that is extreme, I take a more moderate stance, lets remember hoe is stigma due to an action, actions can change, for crying out loud these girls are our girls, despite their mistake, besides a society without hoe doesn't exist, we need women like these.



Guys, there are ways you can express you disdain without getting into a fight, or, as Raganimo suggest turn a blind eye as your stomach turns in disgust. Being moderate in your behaviour and simply letting her know that you have noticed her is enough. She will naturally build this negative thought pattern in her head, because deep down she knows she is being a belligerent skank, what happens is the next few Somali guys she comes across, regardless of their input, she will make assumptions and have a negative feeling, this feeling will ultimately lead her to dumping the guy and returning to servicing Somali cocks, hopefully mine on a wednessday afternoon whiles a sip my Dr. pepper imagining Basra naked.

The beauty here is you socially engineer her to feel ashamed when with a foreigner, no malice, just a little looking down your nose at them..

[Mahamoud81]

walaay what shaqo la'aan and sexual frustration will do to a man.

[Raganimo]

walaay what shaqo la'aan and sexual frustration will do to a man.

Sigisual farastreeshan

[Sumubaridi]

Alot of juicy replies in this thread !

Raganimo.. listen man you are still being extreme and a purist, I agree with you on many things but your post are starting to become weird and unpalatable.

Some years back, a brother in Canada was murdered because he confronted a somali girl who was in a club with a bunch of Jamaican gangbangers.. the brother was no trouble maker and simply told her to stop hanging out with these people. The hoe snitched to her boyfriend who gunned the brother down outside.

Those lost chicks are not worth it. Like I said, most of you wouldn't wife them anyway. Worry about the good, wholesome sisters who need a good Somali husband yet are forced to marry out because there aren't enough good guys out there. This is the real loss to our community. Not some confused self-hating xoolo who would bring another generation of confused xoolo into this world.

You are promoting some eugenics experiment here, Hoes out to the foreigners and keep the good girls... correct ? I have to say that is extreme, I take a more moderate stance, lets remember hoe is stigma due to an action, actions can change, for crying out loud these girls are our girls, despite their mistake, besides a society without hoe doesn't exist, we need women like these.



Guys, there are ways you can express you disdain without getting into a fight, or, as Raganimo suggest turn a blind eye as your stomach turns in disgust. Being moderate in your behaviour and simply letting her know that you have noticed her is enough. She will naturally build this negative thought pattern in her head, because deep down she knows she is being a belligerent skank, what happens is the next few Somali guys she comes across, regardless of their input, she will make assumptions and have a negative feeling, this feeling will ultimately lead her to dumping the guy and returning to servicing Somali cocks, hopefully mine on a wednessday afternoon whiles a sip my Dr. pepper imagining Basra naked.

The beauty here is you socially engineer her to feel ashamed when with a foreigner, no malice, just a little looking down your nose at them..

You making it seem like the girl did not put a thought into what people will think or say when she was deciding to be with Ajnabi. She knew this was coming and she don't give a hue of what you think or what her Mother think. Most of those girls are too liberal and see it as " My S*iil my life" and I can whore around it as I please it. I used to work in a cheap retail clothing store in Minnesota and African American brothers used to come their with their Somali girlfriends all the time. The good thing is that, I used to speak to them in Swahili if she speaks Somali to me and pretend that, I am Shotara Kenyan from Mombasa. She would be like, You really look like a Somali. ehehehehehehehe. When A Somali sister comes with her Sunni Dressed Muslim husband regardless of his Country of Origin, I used to speak to them nicely, kiss their baby and tell them a lot of Maasha allah.

I have feeling for this gabay " intii cadaw cuni lahaa Cali habeesaysto". It means intii gaal Wasi lahaa Muslim hawaso hadiiba aysan wasmo hurayn. ahahahahha

[TheMightyNomad]

Someone needs to send this thread to the extreme section. Soo cringe and embarrassing.

We Faraax's took a major L with this one.

[Raganimo]

I tried to save it by tying it into the wider topic of "identity crisis" in the Somali community, self-hate etc., but to no avail..

We took a major L on this one

[Adali]

You making it seem like the girl did not put a thought into what people will think or say when she was deciding to be with Ajnabi. She knew this was coming and she don't give a hue of what you think or what her Mother think. Most of those girls are too liberal and see it as " My S*iil my life" and I can whore around it as I please it. I used to work in a cheap retail clothing store in Minnesota and African American brothers used to come their with their Somali girlfriends all the time. The good thing is that, I used to speak to them in Swahili if she speaks Somali to me and pretend that, I am Shotara Kenyan from Mombasa. She would be like, You really look like a Somali. ehehehehehehehe. When A Somali sister comes with her Sunni Dressed Muslim husband regardless of his Country of Origin, I used to speak to them nicely, kiss their baby and tell them a lot of Maasha allah.

I have feeling for this gabay " intii cadaw cuni lahaa Cali habeesaysto". It means intii gaal Wasi lahaa Muslim hawaso hadiiba aysan wasmo hurayn. ahahahahha

Just call a spade a spade, whats the problem..

Listen man, you have no reason to feel guilty or inadequate, be honest and try and keep it civil man.. address the elephant in the room !

Claiming to be Kikuyu is the most disturbing thing I have heard LMAO