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Re: Yemeni-Somali marriages

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Somalis who used to residen in Aden in the old days used to say
ربي حنش ولا تربي مولد
meaning , better raise up a snake rather than a mix-born ( Somali-yemeni).

both have a strong culture and their mixed kins suffer which culture to adopt becuz in both they r looked down compared to their peers.

its ur personal decision,but arabs have absorbing culture,if u marry one,make sure u have the upper hand and teach ur kids Somali culture.
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PureQ wrote:
SomalisRred wrote:[
I don't want to marry other Arabs, just Yemenis. I never said there was anything wrong with Somalis, and I don't know why you're bringing other Sub-Saharan Africans into this. Why didn't you say, "what is wrong with marrying Indians, or Egyptians etc."? ..as I pretty much excluded all races besides the Yemenis. It seems you're the one with an inferiority complex.
You didn't answer my question. You said you desperately want to marry Arab. Why? What makes you choose Arabs?

Well this is frustrating.

Firstly, I never said I was desperate to marry an Arab. I said I genuinely want to marry a Yemeni. There's a difference. If you can't see the difference, there's no point explaining. Just let it go.

Secondly, this is just a preference. Some people want to marry Black people, others are interested in East Asians, or Whites etc. These are just preferences. As far as I know, it's not a crime to have a preference, it's natural. Some people prefer their own race which is also perfectly acceptable.

If you see someone preferring someone outside of their race for marriage as an inferiority complex, then there's something wrong with your judgement. Seriously.
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SomalisRred wrote: If you see someone preferring someone outside of their race for marriage as an inferiority complex, then there's something wrong with your judgement. Seriously.
I see it as a person who has problems with their self esteem if they want to marry people who abuse and are racist to their own people.
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Lion104 wrote:
SomalisRred wrote: If you see someone preferring someone outside of their race for marriage as an inferiority complex, then there's something wrong with your judgement. Seriously.
I see it as a person who has problems with their self esteem if they want to marry people who abuse and are racist to their own people.
So Yemenis are all racist and abusive towards Somalis? Do you eat and breathe stereotypes and prejudices?

This sounds like inferiority complex to me. Thinking Yemenis see you as inferior and what not. You have a low opinion of yourself and project it on others. The few racist Yemenis you see cloud your judgement and you think the rest of them hate you as well.
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gegiroor wrote:Waxaad doonaysid guurso, laakiin nakala yaree oo sanka hanaga marin, xayaysiintiisana naga daa. Bal maxaa naga galay wixii kugu aasaya :lol:
Sanka wax kaama marininey, calaacalka jooji. Hadaa su'aalahey jawaab uhaynin maxaa halkaan ka soo doontey?

Somaalida korka maxaa ka saaran? Cajeeb runtii. If I do marry a Yemeni, I won't be the first nor the last to do so.
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ramzy2277 wrote:Somalis who used to residen in Aden in the old days used to say
ربي حنش ولا تربي مولد
meaning , better raise up a snake rather than a mix-born ( Somali-yemeni).

both have a strong culture and their mixed kins suffer which culture to adopt becuz in both they r looked down compared to their peers.

its ur personal decision,but arabs have absorbing culture,if u marry one,make sure u have the upper hand and teach ur kids Somali culture.
Funny that. So many Somalis in the diaspora can barely speak the language and both their parents are Somali. I plan on teaching my children Somali anyway in shaa Allah. The other language would be Arabic which we should all know or at least be learning.
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SomalisRred wrote:
ramzy2277 wrote:Somalis who used to residen in Aden in the old days used to say
ربي حنش ولا تربي مولد
meaning , better raise up a snake rather than a mix-born ( Somali-yemeni).

both have a strong culture and their mixed kins suffer which culture to adopt becuz in both they r looked down compared to their peers.

its ur personal decision,but arabs have absorbing culture,if u marry one,make sure u have the upper hand and teach ur kids Somali culture.
Funny that. So many Somalis in the diaspora can barely speak the language and both their parents are Somali. I plan on teaching my children Somali anyway in shaa Allah. The other language would be Arabic which we should all know or at least be learning.

I plan on teaching my children kulahaa, already decided to marry whoever hairy midget yemeni who wants you, what a disgrace, take ur fugly ass out of here.
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hangool79 wrote:
SomalisRred wrote:
ramzy2277 wrote:Somalis who used to residen in Aden in the old days used to say
ربي حنش ولا تربي مولد
meaning , better raise up a snake rather than a mix-born ( Somali-yemeni).

both have a strong culture and their mixed kins suffer which culture to adopt becuz in both they r looked down compared to their peers.

its ur personal decision,but arabs have absorbing culture,if u marry one,make sure u have the upper hand and teach ur kids Somali culture.
Funny that. So many Somalis in the diaspora can barely speak the language and both their parents are Somali. I plan on teaching my children Somali anyway in shaa Allah. The other language would be Arabic which we should all know or at least be learning.

I plan on teaching my children kulahaa, already decided to marry whoever hairy midget yemeni who wants you, what a disgrace, take ur fugly ass out of here.
Yeah, I plan on teaching my half Somali half Yemeni children in shaa Allah. Xanaaga cun.
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SomalisRred wrote:
Lion104 wrote:
SomalisRred wrote: If you see someone preferring someone outside of their race for marriage as an inferiority complex, then there's something wrong with your judgement. Seriously.
I see it as a person who has problems with their self esteem if they want to marry people who abuse and are racist to their own people.
So Yemenis are all racist and abusive towards Somalis? Do you eat and breathe stereotypes and prejudices?

This sounds like inferiority complex to me. Thinking Yemenis see you as inferior and what not. You have a low opinion of yourself and project it on others. The few racist Yemenis you see cloud your judgement and you think the rest of them hate you as well.
Ever been to Aden? Do you know how they treat Somalis there? They DO view Somalis and Ethiopians as inferior.

Stupid troll
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Lion104 wrote:
SomalisRred wrote:
Lion104 wrote: I see it as a person who has problems with their self esteem if they want to marry people who abuse and are racist to their own people.
So Yemenis are all racist and abusive towards Somalis? Do you eat and breathe stereotypes and prejudices?

This sounds like inferiority complex to me. Thinking Yemenis see you as inferior and what not. You have a low opinion of yourself and project it on others. The few racist Yemenis you see cloud your judgement and you think the rest of them hate you as well.
Ever been to Aden? Do you know how they treat Somalis there? They DO view Somalis and Ethiopians as inferior.

Stupid troll
Lol. So the Adenite Yemenis are representative of all of them? I've been to Yemen, I don't remember any racist treatment. I can recall being treated well, being sent fresh grapes as a gift when I fell ill and so on. But I know you want to believe in your narrative, don't let me spoil it for you. :up:
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Lion104 wrote:
SomalisRred wrote:
Lion104 wrote: I see it as a person who has problems with their self esteem if they want to marry people who abuse and are racist to their own people.
So Yemenis are all racist and abusive towards Somalis? Do you eat and breathe stereotypes and prejudices?

This sounds like inferiority complex to me. Thinking Yemenis see you as inferior and what not. You have a low opinion of yourself and project it on others. The few racist Yemenis you see cloud your judgement and you think the rest of them hate you as well.
Ever been to Aden? Do you know how they treat Somalis there? They DO view Somalis and Ethiopians as inferior.

Stupid troll
For maids there's a pecking order in the profession, Ethiopians are perceived to be more superior, Somalis sit rock bottom, not unlike the akhdam.
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SomalisRred wrote:
Futurist wrote:
SomalisRred wrote:
I genuinely want to marry a Yemeni, but I know my family will be against it. :(
U desperately want to marry dhegcas? I dont mean yo br rude but u come across as pathetic and lost. U really want to marry dhegcas? I will pray for u.
Pathetic and lost because I want to marry a Yemeni? Lol ok.

And yes please, pray that Allah (Swt) grants me Jannah in shaa Allah. :up:
Yes you suffer from inferiority complex which is why you come across as pathetic and lost. Why else would you want to marry into the abusive, oppresive, racist and mysoginistic culture of Arabia. Either that or you are a confused 15 year old dhoocil.
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PS: Troll threads get troll responses.
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Futurist wrote:
SomalisRred wrote:
Futurist wrote:
U desperately want to marry dhegcas? I dont mean yo br rude but u come across as pathetic and lost. U really want to marry dhegcas? I will pray for u.
Pathetic and lost because I want to marry a Yemeni? Lol ok.

And yes please, pray that Allah (Swt) grants me Jannah in shaa Allah. :up:
Yes you suffer from inferiority complex which is why you come across as pathetic and lost. Why else would you want to marry into the abusive, oppresive, racist and mysoginistic culture of Arabia. Either that or you are a confused 15 year old dhoocil.
Cry me a river. :pacspit:
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Lol@ how everyone automatically assumed this desperado is a girl. This is a guy 1000000%.
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