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[quote="kambuli"]Niya,

Horta what does xille gube mean? Does that mean voilent man? Balaayo qaylo badan miyaa quote]

I was wondering the same???

[quote="The-Screw"]^

what do you mean "weak"? like emotionally? physically? [/quote]

Both, also including mental weakness.

Example

Crying at a movie, or being scared of a scene in a movie...(SEE YA).

I was once watching a movie with group of friends and there were this couple infront of us, the guy kept jumping at the scary parts and the girlfriend would make him feel comfortable.

If that would have been me, I would have SLAPPED the taste out of his mouth.

7. Those that get so many traffic tickets... so irresponisble.


Getting so many traffic tickets will cause you to lose your driving privilege = suspension of license.


I have had 4 driving tickets for the last 6 years. I am still good to go but I believe I was given two of them because of racial profiling. Out of 100 cars on the freeway, that bald head red neck picked my car and pulled me over for driving 85 miles per hour. Legally speaking, the officer was correct but some cars were overspeeding more per-mile than I did.


Kumbali, if you think all girls are like you in selecting an ideal men , one whose personality is projected otherwise, you must be insane. Girls are too childish to find out the true nature of the man they looking for. Mostly , they are influenced by a second hand thoughts in consultation with depressed and frustrated women.



My Ideal girl should know how to cook.

Must be pretty with good personality

Smart with college degree

Must cover her body according to our Hadith and Qur'an

Must know our culture and history

and Must be caring and strong in terms of raising the children.



I have seen a girl with such characteristics already and I am on the hunt.

Alluring:
i understand, but remember it takes a strong man to show his emotions. i'm not talking about like the stuff you just mentioned, but in real life situations, some of us, we understand the hardships that good people have to go through, and it hurts. when i see women and children suffering in war torn lands, the old and the weak hurting, i don't cry, but it saddens me, my stomach hurts...and i'm sure a lot of people feel the same, hell, i almost had tears in my eyes from watching The Persuit of Happiness, do you think that's weak? am i soft? is this what you're talking about?

"i understand, but remember it takes a strong man to show his emotions"


Screw sorry to disapoint you, but noo big time No.

It takes a weak man to show his emotion(s) infront of a lady..

well, you can pick out lines and quote me all you like but i disagree.

"i almost had tears in my eyes from watching The Persuit of Happiness"

me too.

Kambuli and Cawar,

Xilla-guube waa nin xaaskiis si xun oola dhaqama, aflaagaado iyo jirdil isugu dar, oo aan waxba uu quurin, oo xaataa masruufka qalqiil ga galiya!

Absame,

But in reality...usually one does not end up with his IDEAL one...

Niya,

Gartay... Waa uun nin qaxar badan...Balaayo ku dhacday...

I agree and the more you wait the harder it becomes. I will think of making compromise

Absame,

Compromise is the word walaahi. I feel like a kid in a candy store when it comes to woman.They all look good and nice but I can't make my mind up. Sidaan u leeyahay mala ta kalee ka sii daran ayaan cidla ku dhacaa..

Kambuli,

walaali walaal dad is helaa oo isku habooma way jiraan. I think you have to work at while married than things will be fine. Treat your mate like you guy's still dating. Somalildu markay aqal wada galaan ayuu langauge kuna ka xumaadaa. They don't even communicate most of the time. They treat marriage like work, it scares the hell out of me.



is there anything wromgh taking your wife to dinner and a movie...

Dhaga, quote " is there anything wromgh taking your wife to dinner and a movie...

Do you think that is enough?

Sababo badan ayey isu beddelaan reerku marka ay guri galaan...Ta ugu darani waxaa weeye, gabdhaha qaar ayaa marka ay walaacaan dabeecaddu ka xumaataa... This has nothing to do with her ... The hormone changes and all that is going on in her life makes her very rude and irritated, easy to cry etc etc... Some men specially if they were warned freak out and divorce immediately..

I agree it is all about compromise..Life is give and take also...But when two people were by themselves and they have not much on their shoulders life is much easier, but when the family size changes and children cry here and there, schooling, a lot of house work, etc etc if specially the man does not involve himself in his family's life the disaster is unavoidable....

Very rarely are people of the same qualities meet each other. I think inay tahay xikmad Rabbaani ah oo Allaah isku qaybinayo dadka..Si ay isu kaabaan... I think so...

I dont think any of those issues apply to me, however I wont let my wife step outside of the house, her destiny revovles around that three bedroom house and the kitchen is her second home.

Somehow I knew Kumbali will understand..........weeynoo adeer.

I have none of those qualities. Then again girls always want the opposite of what they say they want.

Nice thread, enjoyed reading it; Oh and none of those things listen apply to me