Extravagant weddings!
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Re: Extravagant weddings!
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Adeer anigu aroos lacag kuma bixiyeen. Laakin gabadha aqal, dahab, meher intuu doonaba ha noqdee. Yacnii, intaan kibir iyo bood iyo dad aanan aqoon aan lacag ku gubi lahaa waxaa iiga fiican inaan ayada korkeeda ku bixiyo.
Gabdhaha waxaan waydiin lahaa, in 20k aroos lagu bixiyo iyo in iyada loogu gado 20k oo extra dahab keebaa wanaagsan. Anigu koley dahabka ayaan gadi lahaa.
Adeer anigu aroos lacag kuma bixiyeen. Laakin gabadha aqal, dahab, meher intuu doonaba ha noqdee. Yacnii, intaan kibir iyo bood iyo dad aanan aqoon aan lacag ku gubi lahaa waxaa iiga fiican inaan ayada korkeeda ku bixiyo.
Gabdhaha waxaan waydiin lahaa, in 20k aroos lagu bixiyo iyo in iyada loogu gado 20k oo extra dahab keebaa wanaagsan. Anigu koley dahabka ayaan gadi lahaa.
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Re: Extravagant weddings!
adeer you're right
but i dont quiet understand the culture.
aniga wahan aqan in inanta la dono.
after that rerkeda iyo ayida so tashadan
and haweenko isla yimadan wahey isku afgarten.
ragu wahas maba ka warhayan.
then inanta maher keeda ba logeyni.
hadee ninkana of course aqalkiso so hagagsani.
wah kale la isuguma yomado meshan an joogo.
halmarba dadhabka iyo maherka iyo wahey isku diyarin lahed la isku siya.
reerkodana wahey heli karan bey ogu daran inantooda.
wah lah:intan wa aroos expenses
ma maqlin adeer
i think i have to check with my womenfolks i guess.
but i dont quiet understand the culture.
aniga wahan aqan in inanta la dono.
after that rerkeda iyo ayida so tashadan
and haweenko isla yimadan wahey isku afgarten.
ragu wahas maba ka warhayan.
then inanta maher keeda ba logeyni.
hadee ninkana of course aqalkiso so hagagsani.
wah kale la isuguma yomado meshan an joogo.
halmarba dadhabka iyo maherka iyo wahey isku diyarin lahed la isku siya.
reerkodana wahey heli karan bey ogu daran inantooda.
wah lah:intan wa aroos expenses
ma maqlin adeer
i think i have to check with my womenfolks i guess.
Re: Extravagant weddings!
Adeer xaasid baad tahay maxaad mar hore iigu sheegr halkaas baan mar hore imaan lahaa. Waxan qarashka macno darada ah baan nacay.hyperactive wrote:adeer you're right
but i dont quiet understand the culture.
aniga wahan aqan in inanta la dono.
after that rerkeda iyo ayida so tashadan
and haweenko isla yimadan wahey isku afgarten.
ragu wahas maba ka warhayan.
then inanta maher keeda ba logeyni.
hadee ninkana of course aqalkiso so hagagsani.
wah kale la isuguma yomado meshan an joogo.
halmarba dadhabka iyo maherka iyo wahey isku diyarin lahed la isku siya.
reerkodana wahey heli karan bey ogu daran inantooda.
wah lah:intan wa aroos expenses
ma maqlin adeer
i think i have to check with my womenfolks i guess.
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Re: Extravagant weddings!
lol adeer
dad ka sheeganaya wan maqlay
specially markey hoyada iyo inanta hooyaded ay sahibaan.
and inanta and your sisters. lol
markaas ba lagu yaba.
you cannot say no to your mother and sisters.
plus wedding is for women, raga maba lala so'odsiyo.
adeer i checked with my womenfolks
they said you give money for dahab and girl buy it what she wants
so halmar omba la'ag la isku siya
then adigu aqalkaga on sameyso.
hadi kuli la isku daro 5000 us dollars
best girl bad ko aqal galeysa
o dahab iyo maher iyo aroos iyo wah walba iskugu jira.lol
dad ka sheeganaya wan maqlay
specially markey hoyada iyo inanta hooyaded ay sahibaan.
and inanta and your sisters. lol
markaas ba lagu yaba.
you cannot say no to your mother and sisters.
plus wedding is for women, raga maba lala so'odsiyo.
adeer i checked with my womenfolks
they said you give money for dahab and girl buy it what she wants
so halmar omba la'ag la isku siya
then adigu aqalkaga on sameyso.
hadi kuli la isku daro 5000 us dollars
best girl bad ko aqal galeysa
o dahab iyo maher iyo aroos iyo wah walba iskugu jira.lol
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Re: Extravagant weddings!
Weddings is the most over rated shit ever invented.
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Re: Extravagant weddings!
Folks,
Let us put the kaftan aside and address this issue seriously..I noticed that some of you said " Extravagant Weddings is Gaalo stuff".. Actually the Gaalo we live with are more realistic than the so called Muslims..Look around you and check! Look at how much money are the Arabs (Muslims) throwing away for a so called wedding!!! The Afgans are the same.. You won't believe wallaahay. Kelifka ayaa ugu daran..People need to cut their coats according to their clothes...
Carabtu waxay ku kibirtey lacagta iyo baansiinka eh, bal kuwa saboolka ah sida Somaalida oo kale maxay la waasheen? Ilaahay amarkii Saboolka waxa ka fakh fakh badan!
But my question is, why are all Somali men act like they do not throw away money, when 70% chew kat? What do you call that money spent on the Kat? is it $40, 30 or 50..every time they consume..$ 40x30= $1,200.00 a month
Shame on you waryaadha..
Hyper,
Eeddo, I was just kidding..
Fah.
When I say Reer Kiina I mean Reer Camalxxx in General not necessarily your parents...They don't throw away their money, but their weddings are great..Just joking with you!
Let us put the kaftan aside and address this issue seriously..I noticed that some of you said " Extravagant Weddings is Gaalo stuff".. Actually the Gaalo we live with are more realistic than the so called Muslims..Look around you and check! Look at how much money are the Arabs (Muslims) throwing away for a so called wedding!!! The Afgans are the same.. You won't believe wallaahay. Kelifka ayaa ugu daran..People need to cut their coats according to their clothes...


But my question is, why are all Somali men act like they do not throw away money, when 70% chew kat? What do you call that money spent on the Kat? is it $40, 30 or 50..every time they consume..$ 40x30= $1,200.00 a month


Shame on you waryaadha..

Hyper,
Eeddo, I was just kidding..
Fah.
When I say Reer Kiina I mean Reer Camalxxx in General not necessarily your parents...They don't throw away their money, but their weddings are great..Just joking with you!

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Re: Extravagant weddings!
in my life i have been to around 1567 weddings
and of those 1576 weddings i went
i was only invited in 40 aroos ka waran
and of those 1576 weddings i went
i was only invited in 40 aroos ka waran
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Re: Extravagant weddings!
HELWAA wrote:or already had my dream wedding........you never know yariisowSadaam_Mariixmaan wrote:no wonder your a GumeeysHELWAA wrote:Because we deserve it ....Gabadh kasta xaq bay oo leedahy aroos wanaagsan...Maalinta arooskeeda waliygeed way xasuusan doonta inta nolosheeda ka hadhay.
koow xaji dhukur maxaad ku samasay imika mee , kolay kuma ag jooge haadii kalle wakhti uu maad hesheen meeshen
maqaaxiidan Cirka ama somalinet .odayga mala qaylda baad ku badiisay
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Re: Extravagant weddings!
Twenty-thousand dollars? Walaal, my cousin has spent nearly a salaries worth on his wedding. I think it was close to a hundred-thousand. But, his wife is popping out a child every year, so he's happy.
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Re: Extravagant weddings!
HELWAA wrote:Fah
Just wait till you get married....I have seen pple who broke up just because the guy refused to pay for a wedding.....Nimanka qaarkood inay hablaha iska xaraystaan sida ariga ayey rabaan.
whats wrong with a duco iyo Something yarru local ma qassab ba ina Hiltonka la soo kiireyoo uu 20.000 euro lug khasiiro for what
i rather take my honey around the world nice honeymoon , and if she wants a wedding lacagta ha keento ana inyar baan ku dariii Because anigu ma rabbo aroos weyn uu xaadhaaf uu dadku ka farro battan
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Re: Extravagant weddings!
FAH1223 wrote:HELWAA & Shrib, thats the problem..."if you ARE lucky"
thats money wasted down the drain,
Too bad, she can have the dream honeymoon, dream car, dream furniture, ect ,ect
I can buy her diamond rings, this or that with $20k
i agree caqliga la isticmaale
slaantaan weyn helwaa adiga ka caqli baddan hadana way ku dhalli karta
laakin iyada saarr ba haya
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Re: Extravagant weddings!
Kambuli, you make it sound like we all eat khat.
- I know many do, but still...
We all waste money, I do, you do, everyone does in one way or another. It still does not justify throwing 20 grand on a silly wedding where hundreds and hundreds of uninvited people will turn up and some yo-yo ciyaal suuqin will cause mayhem. Even put all that aside, waa laga fiicanyahay in aa intaas oo lacag lugu bixiyo aroos hal habeen ah. It's basically all about principles and whatnot. I could not live with myself doing that. Nothing wrong with weddings per se, but you gotta put things in perspective and spend within your means.
I personally hate weddings, but if my girl wants it then I'll do it for her. Within means of course. I want to see her happy. Seeing her smile, will make me smile too. But these days weddings are so one-sided it's unreal.

We all waste money, I do, you do, everyone does in one way or another. It still does not justify throwing 20 grand on a silly wedding where hundreds and hundreds of uninvited people will turn up and some yo-yo ciyaal suuqin will cause mayhem. Even put all that aside, waa laga fiicanyahay in aa intaas oo lacag lugu bixiyo aroos hal habeen ah. It's basically all about principles and whatnot. I could not live with myself doing that. Nothing wrong with weddings per se, but you gotta put things in perspective and spend within your means.
I personally hate weddings, but if my girl wants it then I'll do it for her. Within means of course. I want to see her happy. Seeing her smile, will make me smile too. But these days weddings are so one-sided it's unreal.
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Re: Extravagant weddings!
Benaale,
Walaal, bal dib u kahri what I wrote..I said 70%..Maybe you are one of the 30% remaining..Good for you
I agree with you, we all waste money in some way or the other..True that..But let us do the math for the chewers;
$1,200.00 a month X 12 months= $14,400.00
So the wedding expense aka extravgancy will be almost the same amount of what he chew in a year and half

The sad part is, the wedding and its expense is done one night but the kat is a lifetime extravagancy

Acuudu Bilaah...Nimanyahow xoogga hala saaro Jaadka sidii la isaga wacyi gelin laha...

Walaal, bal dib u kahri what I wrote..I said 70%..Maybe you are one of the 30% remaining..Good for you

I agree with you, we all waste money in some way or the other..True that..But let us do the math for the chewers;
$1,200.00 a month X 12 months= $14,400.00


So the wedding expense aka extravgancy will be almost the same amount of what he chew in a year and half



The sad part is, the wedding and its expense is done one night but the kat is a lifetime extravagancy



Acuudu Bilaah...Nimanyahow xoogga hala saaro Jaadka sidii la isaga wacyi gelin laha...


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Re: Extravagant weddings!
Uff, i seriously hate weddings *espeically the pervy camera men*
Forget an aroos, i want 5 thousand pounds worth of Geel

Forget an aroos, i want 5 thousand pounds worth of Geel

Re: Extravagant weddings!

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