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Re: Guys which one do you prefer?
Posted: Mon Mar 02, 2009 12:03 pm
by Shirib
surrender wrote:well i wouldnt marry someone poor, is thats what you asking/refering to. i marry somone in the same position as me, or higher, but not lower.
I don't consider that gold digging, I think your thinking straight
Re: Guys which one do you prefer?
Posted: Mon Mar 02, 2009 12:04 pm
by SummerRain
Well there is nothing wrong with gold digging your husband, its xalaal to do so.

Re: Guys which one do you prefer?
Posted: Mon Mar 02, 2009 12:06 pm
by Xamud.
Ismahan123 wrote:Well there is nothing wrong with gold digging your husband, its xalaal to do so.

Its also Xalaal to marry a second wife

Re: Guys which one do you prefer?
Posted: Mon Mar 02, 2009 12:07 pm
by SummerRain
Xamud. wrote:Ismahan123 wrote:Well there is nothing wrong with gold digging your husband, its xalaal to do so.

Its also Xalaal to marry a second wife

And its xalaal if I denied him to take a second wife.

Re: Guys which one do you prefer?
Posted: Mon Mar 02, 2009 12:08 pm
by surrender
Re: Guys which one do you prefer?
Posted: Mon Mar 02, 2009 12:09 pm
by Shirib
Ismahan123 wrote:Xamud. wrote:Ismahan123 wrote:Well there is nothing wrong with gold digging your husband, its xalaal to do so.

Its also Xalaal to marry a second wife

And its xalaal if I denied him to take a second wife.

Deny him? u gotta put that in the contract before u get married not throw a fit afterwards
Re: Guys which one do you prefer?
Posted: Mon Mar 02, 2009 12:11 pm
by surrender
Shirib wrote:surrender wrote:well i wouldnt marry someone poor, is thats what you asking/refering to. i marry somone in the same position as me, or higher, but not lower.
I don't consider that gold digging, I think your thinking straight
thats not gold digging!! if i earn 300. i want a man that earns 300 or more!! is that gold diggernimo? 
Re: Guys which one do you prefer?
Posted: Mon Mar 02, 2009 12:11 pm
by zulaika
Shirib wrote:
Deny him? u gotta put that in the contract before u get married not throw a fit afterwards
like duh
THANK GOD FOR THAT CONTRACT!!!!

Re: Guys which one do you prefer?
Posted: Mon Mar 02, 2009 12:14 pm
by Shirib
surrender wrote:Shirib wrote:surrender wrote:well i wouldnt marry someone poor, is thats what you asking/refering to. i marry somone in the same position as me, or higher, but not lower.
I don't consider that gold digging, I think your thinking straight
thats not gold digging!! if i earn 300. i want a man that earns 300 or more!! is that gold diggernimo? 
To me its not, but some others might see it that way
Re: Guys which one do you prefer?
Posted: Mon Mar 02, 2009 12:30 pm
by Xamud.
Shirib
Contract aa? its your god given right! maxa contract meesha keenay?
Ismahan
You can`t deny a shidh! you can only ask for divorce

Re: Guys which one do you prefer?
Posted: Mon Mar 02, 2009 12:35 pm
by HELWAA
Xamud
You are right..waxay ay nin oo didii karan ba iska yar.Waa just furitaan the way out.

Re: Guys which one do you prefer?
Posted: Mon Mar 02, 2009 12:43 pm
by surrender
helwaa and xamud contract waa looyara baahanyahay maaha!?! 
Re: Guys which one do you prefer?
Posted: Mon Mar 02, 2009 12:47 pm
by HELWAA
The contract is only about ur meher...it all depens on what u asked for.
Re: Guys which one do you prefer?
Posted: Mon Mar 02, 2009 12:52 pm
by surrender
^contract as in. make a deal with him, he dont marry another women!! 
Re: Guys which one do you prefer?
Posted: Mon Mar 02, 2009 12:57 pm
by HELWAA
I dont think you can refuse a man his islamic rights walaal..already ilaahy baa o baneeye inu afar naagood guursado.Your meher should be somthing that benefits you.