Things to discuss before marriage

[udun]

I wish I saw this list when I was 18.... 1987....I could have planned my life a little better...is too late.....for me life goes on i have raised two kids.....now I am in a relatioship.....with garoob.....we dont leave together......and we are taking it slow.......my advice do not get in to marriage bussines......if u dont understand the hell u are putting yoursef through.....

You are not serious, aren't you? I think you just made that up

[ciyaal_warta]

fitness and weight is important thing to discuss.

ya waryaa q3ed amoot men-9'a7kah walah..shouf 3youn-alrayaaal

[udun]

lol udun. inader the best words are one left not said.

shidow wa regeedi as they say here, he admitted what other people here wouldnt admit.

Looool Hyper, inaadeer, there is huge mileage on most of the people you see here. Don't let the claim 25 - 33 year olds fool you. Take for example Basra who claims that she is around 23 loooool where in fact she is a grandma if not great grandma and many other folks here are in that zone. Also, some of the people you see here are living with ajnabi or married to ajnabi and since within the Somali communities any one who is married to or lives with ajnabi (gaalo) is an autcast, this is their only way of communicating to the larger Somali community.

[yunis09]

lol udun. inader the best words are one left not said.

shidow wa regeedi as they say here, he admitted what other people here wouldnt admit.

Looool Hyper, inaadeer, there is huge mileage on most of the people you see here. Don't let the claim 25 - 33 year olds fool you. Take for example Basra who claims that she is around 23 loooool where in fact she is a grandma if not great grandma and many other folks here are in that zone. Also, some of the people you see here are living with ajnabi or married to ajnabi and since within the Somali communities any one who is married to or lives with ajnabi (gaalo) is an autcast, this is their only way of communicating to the larger Somali community.

abti other than basra, who are the others?....

[Hyperactive]

fitness and weight is important thing to discuss.

ya waryaa q3ed amoot men-9'a7kah walah..shouf 3youn-alrayaaal

ee wal ebtisama ele e5tafat b3del zawaj.lol

[udun]

lol udun. inader the best words are one left not said.

shidow wa regeedi as they say here, he admitted what other people here wouldnt admit.

Looool Hyper, inaadeer, there is huge mileage on most of the people you see here. Don't let the claim 25 - 33 year olds fool you. Take for example Basra who claims that she is around 23 loooool where in fact she is a grandma if not great grandma and many other folks here are in that zone. Also, some of the people you see here are living with ajnabi or married to ajnabi and since within the Somali communities any one who is married to or lives with ajnabi (gaalo) is an autcast, this is their only way of communicating to the larger Somali community.

abti other than basra, who are the others?....

Abti, some of them are in this thread. I mentioned Basra because she can take exposure but not sure how the rest will react if we expose them big time

[MizHargeysa]

some things are answered without having to ask, all you have to do is observe them , the ppl they hang out with the things the like, the places they go and that will give you an idea of what type of person they are but true say as was said before if you have to ask all those questions they not worth your time and that looks like some long ass list lol

[yunis09]

I mentioned Basra because she can take exposure but not sure how the rest will react if we expose them big time

im sure they wouldnt mind, anyways whats that can happen!

[Enlightened~Sista]

Nin ha ku soo doono horta markaa think about the questions. Somali men these days have a phobia of meeting up with a girl's parents.Their lack of Af Soomali communication skills and their ignorance of Somali etiquette make it extremely hard for them to pluck up the courage to ask for a girl's hand.Mind you these are men who are very much in love and want to settle down but are completely paralysed by fear, self doubt. Very sad state of affairs.

[yunis09]

Nin ha ku soo doono horta markaa think about the questions. Somali men these days have a phobia of meeting up with a girl's parents.Their lack of Af Soomali communication skills and their ignorance of Somali etiquette make it extremely hard for them to pluck up the courage to ask for a girl's hand.Mind you these are men who are very much in love and want to settle down but are completely paralysed by fear, self doubt. Very sad state of affairs.

E-sis ...some1 has been feeding you

[Enlightened~Sista]

feeding me what?

[yunis09]

feeding me what?

what you just said

[Leila25]

fitness and weight is important thing to discuss.

ya waryaa q3ed amoot men-9'a7kah walah..shouf 3youn-alrayaaal

ee wal ebtisama ele e5tafat b3del zawaj.lol

Maskiin walahi, i feel sorry for him.

[abdisamad3]

Man you think its that simple!!! It ain't....if a guy came up to me with "I want to have 10 children" I would simply walk the opposite direction. Of course, the things that you have mention are very important but then there are alot of other stuff that r important too u know!! Another example is, what if he is a sexaholic? Or just waits for her until she comes home from a 9-5 job just to make dinner for him....while he is just wactching tv? She is a human u know!!

This is what I would do..I expect my women to cook and serve the food for me..

[udun]

Man you think its that simple!!! It ain't....if a guy came up to me with "I want to have 10 children" I would simply walk the opposite direction. Of course, the things that you have mention are very important but then there are alot of other stuff that r important too u know!! Another example is, what if he is a sexaholic? Or just waits for her until she comes home from a 9-5 job just to make dinner for him....while he is just wactching tv? She is a human u know!!

This is what I would do..I expect my women to cook and serve the food for me..