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Re: four wives is a must
Posted: Sat May 19, 2012 10:56 am
by qoraxeey
Re: four wives is a must
Posted: Sat May 19, 2012 10:58 am
by qoraxeey
and the family relations are terrible
only perons U can truely call brother and sister ..are the ones from same dad and mom
children that your dad had with other women are useless

Re: four wives is a must
Posted: Sat May 19, 2012 11:05 am
by sexy-kitten
qoraxeey wrote:and the family relations are terrible
only perons U can truely call brother and sister ..are the ones from same dad and mom
children that your dad had with other women are useless

I wouldn't call it useless as it keeps the family tree growing. I never asked by how many, I'll ask next time. I'm sure there were two but IDK if he married 2 together.... does that make sense? I think he remarried after his 1st wife died.
Re: four wives is a must
Posted: Sat May 19, 2012 11:09 am
by qoraxeey
Re: four wives is a must
Posted: Sat May 19, 2012 11:15 am
by sexy-kitten
Re: four wives is a must
Posted: Sat May 19, 2012 11:16 am
by sexy-kitten
I'm still waiting for that video.

Re: four wives is a must
Posted: Sat May 19, 2012 11:21 am
by qoraxeey
Re: four wives is a must
Posted: Sat May 19, 2012 11:28 am
by barakaboy10
qoraxeey wrote:polygamy can be dangerous
Remember that arab woman who burnt down a tent that her husband and second wife was having a wedding party
haye have fun ..just dont end up killed

i am afraid to say your fear-mongering tactic is not working. polygamy is something that our beautiful religion allows us to do and anyone who opposes it is either ignorant about the wisdom behind such nicma or is full of selfishness and lack of understanding.
it is perfectly ok for women to be jealous but no one can prohibit what Allah has allowed us to do, given that all the rules regarding plural marriages are followed.
Re: four wives is a must
Posted: Sat May 19, 2012 11:34 am
by barakaboy10
Jam Street wrote:Naagtii buuq badan waa la furaya. If she wants to become garoob nolosha ka dhacday waa loo fududeenaya.
Like the late Nuur Eebe said: "la furaa naag fiican waa la furaa mineey falaaxoowdo naag fiican waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa"
Allah created more women than men and on top of that we die in battles so if some of us don't marry more than one wife some women will miss out and that aint fair. Our aabeyaal and awooweyal were great men who did justice for women. And we are going to follow their footsteps insha allah.
full of truth....great summerzation. good job bro and thanks.
Re: four wives is a must
Posted: Sat May 19, 2012 11:38 am
by Hyperactive
ive half siblings and i love them just like full siblings. my granpa also had multiple wives and have many uncles and aunts that i dont know them all. blame the qurbaha.
Re: four wives is a must
Posted: Sat May 19, 2012 11:42 am
by Alphanumeric
hyperactive wrote:ive half siblings and i love them just like full siblings. my granpa also had multiple wives and have many uncles and aunts that i dont know them all. blame the qurbaha.
This is another reason why I don't even consider multiple wives. I have cousins, aunts, and uncles all over the world that I've never had the chance to meet. I've never met any of them until very recently. I don't think I want to put my kids in a similar situation. Though sometimes I think it's inevitable.
Re: four wives is a must
Posted: Sat May 19, 2012 11:45 am
by Sealion
Re: four wives is a must
Posted: Sat May 19, 2012 11:46 am
by Hyperactive
well, when they were in somalia, they all together in one house grow together, even my uncle when married his first wife, the Egyptian, he brough her in mugadishu and living there untill 1991. the civil war made them leave somalia. no one was living outside somali except the onces in universities in aboard, qatar, kuwait, egypt and yemen.
Re: four wives is a must
Posted: Sat May 19, 2012 11:52 am
by grandpakhalif
I dream of having a wife in canada a wife in somalia a wife in saudi arabia and a wife in holland. I travel every four months on business trip to meet their rights.

Re: four wives is a must
Posted: Sat May 19, 2012 11:57 am
by sexy-kitten
Dude, what are you talking about? Just cuz I don't know them doesn't mean they don't exist. My mom knows most of them and so does my father. Isma baran because they are all scattered all over the world. There's no hate in our family, both aabo & hooyo's side. There are misunderstandings & arguments but that's normal!
