Somali girl's getting fat after Marriage Why

[Theguardian]

One thing for sure though - Somali men are bloody lucky to have Somali women. Time to take good care of women brothers or you will lose them.

Wallaahi Somali women are so romantic and sweet when they marry Cadaan or black Muslims. There was story sheikh Sacid rage said a somali girl married a cadaan guy with only 25cts meher but when he divorced her, she wanted $25000 canadian dollars from her own cousin. When the sheikh asked her why her meher is so high when she is garoob and was only 25cts when she was gabar, her answer was like, he is a somali and he will understand. Somali girls are lucky to have somali guys. She will work her butt, she will be mistreated and her relatives will be a story in the past.

Brother you can't generalise ALl Somali women base on one incident. (which I don't know if it is true or not - just because a Sheikh said so doesn't make it true).

It is well known fact Somali women are better looking than Somali men also they are hard workers - the backbone of our community - majority of them raising their kids alone.
So show your appreciation instead of insulting them by comparing them to other women.

[Kaafiye]

One thing for sure though - Somali men are bloody lucky to have Somali women. Time to take good care of women brothers or you will lose them.

Tone down on the arrogant talk. Trust me, you only look insecure and unsure of yourself when you talk like this.

[Kaafiye]

One thing for sure though - Somali men are bloody lucky to have Somali women. Time to take good care of women brothers or you will lose them.

Wallaahi Somali women are so romantic and sweet when they marry Cadaan or black Muslims. There was story sheikh Sacid rage said a somali girl married a cadaan guy with only 25cts meher but when he divorced her, she wanted $25000 canadian dollars from her own cousin. When the sheikh asked her why her meher is so high when she is garoob and was only 25cts when she was gabar, her answer was like, he is a somali and he will understand. Somali girls are lucky to have somali guys. She will work her butt, she will be mistreated and her relatives will be a story in the past.

Brother you can't generalise ALl Somali women base on one incident. (which I don't know if it is true or not - just because a Sheikh said so doesn't make it true).

It is well known fact Somali women are better looking than Somali men also they are hard workers - the backbone of our community - majority of them raising their kids alone.
So show your appreciation instead of insulting them by comparing them to other women.

Excuse me, but raising children alone is not a good thing, and definitely not something to aspire too.

We've all seen the negative impact of fatherless homes in the Somali community, and all of these ciyaalsuuq Somali boys who end up in prison or who end up dropping out of school. I will say that a large majority of these Somali boys grew up in single-parent households where the father was absent from the home....and it results in these lost and purposeless Somali boys getting involved in ciyaalsuuq behavior. So instead of trying to set up males and females against each other, maybe you should try and think of solutions to have us work together to build a functioning Somali community.

But no, you want to come with this bullshit "Men are devil and women are angels" narrative....and all this does is pit the two genders against each other. Have some goddamn self-respect and keep your opinions to yourself. Lord knows you've said a lot of stupid things on this forum lately.

[Xeno]

Obesity is very high in the West, especially among middle aged people it is like 33%-50%...

[FarhanYare]

This would explain why you rarely hear of Somali men sleeping around other Somali men's wives, there is no temptation.

I have noticed a lot of fine Single mothers and single women around my area. I even see some at the gym but rarely a married woman.

if that is the case, I would rather have them get fat than having wives sleeping around.

[Theguardian]

@kaafiye looks like the truth bothers you brother...
Somali men leave their wives with 5 plus kids and don't even have the decency to co-parent if the marriage failed.
They just abandon them altogether - wash their hands of any responsibility - however the mothers struggle and try their best to raise their kids. So who faults is it - the parent who stayed or the one left one altogether?

Boys need their father - do Somali fathers acknowledge that? Somehow you are putting the blame on Somali women?
And you have the audacity to accuse me of talking nonsense.

[thegoodshepherd]

Probably the same reason why eunuchs are usually fat. Most Somali women are basically castrated.

[Kaafiye]

@kaafiye looks like the truth bothers you brother...
Somali men leave their wives with 5 plus kids and don't even have the decency to co-parent if the marriage failed.
They just abandon them altogether - wash their hands of any responsibility - however the mothers struggle and try their best to raise their kids. So who faults is it - the parent who stayed or the one left one altogether?

Boys need their father - do Somali fathers acknowledge that? Somehow you are putting the blame on Somali women?
And you have the audacity to accuse me of talking nonsense.

Aouthiblah....do you hear yourself speak?

I'm not putting the blame on women at all, maybe you should read what I write before embarrassing yourself any further.

But your way of speaking exactly mirrors that of African-American women, who have been saying for decades, "We Black women are the backbone and leaders of the community".....yet at the same time this same community has a very high rate of boys being murdered, being put in prison, and dropping out of high school.

And now we see Somali boys doing the exact same thing. And you don't even have the common sense to see the problem here. You just want to make meaningless statements and try to pit Somali men and Somali women against each other. We are supposed to work TOGETHER and not compete against each other. Every single successful nation/community has their men and women cooperating with each other. So stop with your divisive bullshit and keep your retarded opinions to yourself.

But now we've completely hijacked this thread and changed the topic. So I won't be addressing this any further. We are talking about obesity in the Somali community so stick to that topic.

[Xamud.]

Define fat? a bit of meat on the right place\places never hurt anyone, but if shes sporting a little belly iga ilaali, I can't stand young women that are obese, its not okey to be a gabar(unmarried) and fat, such a turn off.

On another note, I would like to share a joke with you guys.

What's easier to pick up the heavier it gets








Women

[Sumubaridi]

Probably the same reason why eunuchs are usually fat. Most Somali women are basically castrated.

Castrated maxaa kawadaa? ma naag xiniinyo leh baad aragtay

[Theguardian]

@kaafiye/quote]

Aouthiblah....do you hear yourself speak?

why are you getting too emotional and personal brother?

I'm not putting the blame on women at all, maybe you should read what I write before embarrassing yourself any further.

You have not directly but I can read between the lines - you are- you think it is their fault the marriage ended.

But your way of speaking exactly mirrors that of African-American women, who have been saying for decades, "We Black women are the backbone and leaders of the community".....yet at the same time this same community has a very high rate of boys being murdered, being put in prison, and dropping out of high school.

Because somali men are black and act the same towards their women and children.

And now we see Somali boys doing the exact same thing. And you don't even have the common sense to see the problem here. You just want to make meaningless statements and try to pit Somali men and Somali women against each other. We are supposed to work TOGETHER and not compete against each other. Every single successful nation/community has their men and women cooperating with each other. So stop with your divisive bullshit and keep your retarded opinions to yourself.

Again your emotions are scarily suspicious - are you divorced with children? (am sorry if you are) but you can still be there for your children.
The problem needs to be addressed in order to find a solution. Somali men have been abandoning their children when their marriage failed for generation and it is always the somali women struggling. why can't they co-parent. It is though as if they were only there for the women.

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b] But now we've completely hijacked this thread and changed the topic. So I won't be addressing this any further. We are talking about obesity in the Somali community so stick to that topic.[/b]

It is all interlinked - unhappy women equals unhealthy women.

[Tuushi]

Nafaqatul fashuuq.

[COOL-MAN]

Nafaqatul fashuuq.

Its nimcatul fashuuq.

Depends, some women look better filled up some look amazing when skinny.

[Tuushi]

Nafaqatul fashuuq.

Its nimcatul fashuuq.

Depends, some women look better filled up some look amazing when skinny.

Yup. That's the word. Thanks kichana wetu.

True. Some people do look much better with some meat.

[COOL-MAN]

One thing for sure though - Somali men are bloody lucky to have Somali women. Time to take good care of women brothers or you will lose them.

. Allaw dhawr

Tushi speaking Swahili? Who would have thought?