divorcing my wife SERIOUS TOPIC

[1nemansquad]

You're going to known around town as 'ki xaaskiisa ka tagay markay tidhi suuliga dhaq'.

waxaas waa wax laisku furo dee, sidee ninkaga u tirahdaa war musqusha dhaq?

[Naboleon]

Naar laguma galo, lakiin waa cadaab nin weyn oo musqul nadiifinaayo isagoo xaaskiisa caafimad qabto...howsha waala kala leeyahay

[Lillaahiya]

@ 1nesquad: Oo maxay u odhan wayday? Billow ay xanuusanaysa oon iyada dhaqin karin? Shoow warqada asago la buuxiye oo jeebka lagu sido markay wax caynkan oo kale dhacan ayaa asago diyaar ah laysiisiya? Soomali iyo caqli xumo maxaa kale haysta.


@ Yung

Thus the divorce is warranted on the grounds that cleaning out the washroom is a gendered chore. Reer dhan walaa dhumin just to make a statement

[1nemansquad]

@ 1nesquad: Oo maxay u odhan wayday? Billow ay xanuusanaysa oon iyada dhaqin karin? Shoow warqada asago la buuxiye oo jeebka lagu sido markay wax caynkan oo kale dhacan ayaa asago diyaar ah laysiisiya? Soomali iyo caqli xumo maxaa kale haysta.

ina adeer its nothing to with Somalinimo iyo aqlixumo, I'm looking at this from a male prospective uun mai garatey; from the story the guy posted, she is healthy and asking him to wash the toilet ineey ku bahdisho, ilaah baan kugu dhaarshaye aqligaga wuxuu kusiiyey nin aad u dhaxdey inuu musqusha kuu dhaqo?

[Cumar-Labasuul]

It may be harsh but I'm being honest to say that you are complaining over silly reasons. My advice would be to speak to someone more experienced than you i.e. aabahaa, adeeradaa/abtiyaasha

[Voltage]

Cool Poison I just got an idea for the finances part. It seems a lot of the girls are obsessed with this part and trying to spin as if you don't want her to have any money whereas from how you explained she wants to manage your money completely.

How about you open a separate account for her and deposit enough for groceries, house duties, and little personal money on the side? Since you are the man, you will be paying the rent and other bills and also your own change together in your own account?

[1nemansquad]

as for the financial complication, labo qof oo aamin isku qabin ayaa lacag isku qaqabsado; waxaasi waa labo labo.. you guys are meant to be a team, one objective together

[TheblueNwhite]

Anigu meshan mushkilad taala ma arko only nin kibirsan.Why are you treating ur wife like a stranger? ma qof shisheeye ahba?
Wa naagtadi inaad ka qarisid maaha mushaharka ku so dhaca.Marku biilku so dhaco eed bixsid wixii bills ah, amba kiro ahaato, amba telefoon etc etc, shaahaga koontada ku reebo iyo wixi saving acount aad dhigaysid, waxa hadhay oo dhan iyada farta ka saar.Ilayen adiga ina kolba xabada caanaha ee la so iibinayo lagu waydiio maaha.Aqalka wixi ku baxaya iyada ha maamusho.

As for the housework, xaaskago xadiid kama samaysna caawimu ayey oo baahan tahay.Ta labaad wa inaad siyaasad baratid iyo sida naaga loola dhaqmo.Waliga maahmaahdan ma maqashay ( qawda maqashi waxbana ha qaban)


Save ur marriage, whatever it takes make it work.

[Lillaahiya]

@ 1nesquad: Oo maxay u odhan wayday? Billow ay xanuusanaysa oon iyada dhaqin karin? Shoow warqada asago la buuxiye oo jeebka lagu sido markay wax caynkan oo kale dhacan ayaa asago diyaar ah laysiisiya? Soomali iyo caqli xumo maxaa kale haysta.

ina adeer its nothing to with Somalinimo iyo aqlixumo, I'm looking at this from a male prospective uun mai garatey; from the story the guy posted, she is healthy and asking him to wash the toilet ineey ku bahdisho, ilaah baan kugu dhaarshaye aqligaga wuxuu kusiiyey nin aad u dhaxdey inuu musqusha kuu dhaqo?

LOL @ ku bahdisho

Bah dilaadkaaga dhowa. I read his initial post and he didn't give much details about the incident. All he wrote is that she asked him to clean the washroom, which if he did, wouldn't be the end of the world. Moreover he's boasting about shidh he's suppose to do like provide for her. Xaaskayga wax baan siiya ma faan ba mise wa waajib? Calaa kulli xaal, waxaa ka qurux badan inu amba diido amba u sameeyo, laakin maxaa warqad iyo furitaan iyo snet tag oo dad aan wax isku tihiin ugu waran ba keenay? This is what I mean by caqli darro. Garasho la'aan ba ninkani haysta, adiguna wabaad u camirisa.

[bareento]

Cool, what about love? do u love her? follow your heart!
One more thing, dont stay with someone for the sole sake of your child; u will ruin your life, your childs life and your wife's wife!

B.

[zingii]

Cool Poison I just got an idea for the finances part. It seems a lot of the girls are obsessed with this part and trying to spin as if you don't want her to have any money whereas from how you explained she wants to manage your money completely.

How about you open a separate account for her and deposit enough for groceries, house duties, and little personal money on the side? Since you are the man, you will be paying the rent and other bills and also your own change together in your own account?

Sheekada lacag ka wayn sxb, ee arintu meel kale ayay salka ku haysaa.

Tabasho kale ayaa jirta.

[Knight of Wisdom]

If you have kids with her, it's not worth divorcing her over cleaning musqusha. Your priorities should be the kids and how they should have both of their parents under the same roof. If there are no kids in your marriage, then hit the road like jack and don't you go back, no more, no more, like the Jack you are.

[sexy-kitten]

Don't divorce her dear! Get a counselor, you guys have a minor disagreement thats all. Don't let that ruin the grrrreaaaat relationship you have!


Good luck!

[OliveOil]

No reason to divorce a woman...N she has your kid for God's sake!!! Man UP...tell her NO you won't do house chores...N its okay, she can manage ur salary dude...waa caadi!!!



Listen, my parents had a problem at the beginning...they stayed together because of me. But Alhamdulilah things worked out N now they r happily married...true story. Just work it out with her dude...and pray that it works. You can't divorce ur wife for simple things like that iisshhhh

[Tuba]

No reason to divorce a woman...N she has your kid for God's sake!!! Man UP...tell her NO you won't do house chores...:

Somalis dont know how to communicate w/ each other. All dey know is da 'D' word.