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Re: ladies..how do you define a man's love for you

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BlackVelvet wrote:You have a point Twist (unlike you I don't disagree with everything you say just because you are cursed to be a man, that is the beauty of being female :mrgreen: )

This is why I suggested The System. What is The System you ask? Well you only stay married to someone for 20yrs - unless of course ow Xaji you fall in-love and refuse naagta in aad ka fuqtid. When you reach the age of 20 as a young man, you marry an older woman, a 40 yr old who's experienced and has a wealth of knowledge and experience maybe even finances to help you make something of yourself. You are also biologically compatible at this age according to scientists if you know what I mean. Then 20 yrs later when you are 40, you get married to a 20 yr old female and return the favour. After 20 yrs are up you are now 60 and you retire to the companionship of a fellow 60 yr old a woman who much like you just completed her relationship with a younger man.


Haye, is The System brilliant or is it brilliant. If you are unlucky enough for your partner to die within those 20 yrs you enter a reserve and wait for someone to become available. Children are always funded by the older person and looked after by the younger person.


This is what my "Village" would look like. :blessed:

very very very interesting. blackv how did you come up with this idea? :lupe: :ehh: :ohhh:
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Cowbreaker I read a book a long time ago and it mentioned a man who I think it was in the 18th Century in America? I am foggy on the details, anyway this man set up his own village with its own unique trading system and social structure and it was all based on his economic ideology - literally had his own mini country. This made me realise anything is possible so get a bunch of people and incorporate The Sytem! :lol:

Twist wrote:War anagaa yaab aragnay! Xitaa haddii lugaha dhulka lagaaga sweep off-gareeyo, in uu xaaqin kaa daba wado oo dhulka xaaqo maad sii rabtaa? I wonder, is it the thought of him doing that duty which is the turn-on or the fact you're calling the shots? Once Araweelo always Araweelo! :lol:


Nah! Wasn't a big fan of marriage in the first place. If you can get "adduun adduun" for free why get into long term lease? 8-)
Not all of us are into violence Twist... :lol:

Can I ask you a question? So I get the cow and free milk thing but what about kids, don't you want any? And yes I know they are needy, financial black-holes but still, don't you want any?
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BV, I am not really sure runtii. For one to want to have kids they have to have that affection & love towards babies; having them & seeing them growing up (as most people who admire babies say), isn't it? It is not there at all. It's not like that I hate children or anything like that, but that inner feeling of having them isn't there and I don't see why I have to bring babies into the world if I am emotionally ready for them.

Three of my siblings have almost 30 children among them so that's more than enough for the family. :lol:
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I can respect that. So many people have kids just because it's the thing to do so it's fair enough. Besides you are a man meaning however many years from now if you end up changing your mind you can go right on ahead and gabar wax kala ogeyn aa qoorta ka soo qabsan karta.


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@Twist - Didn't mean inaan kugu qarxiyo, abti. :lol:

I guess I'm at a different place in my life now and my replies mirror this. Plus, I'm getting married in less than 3 months and want to go in believing that I'm marrying her for reasons beyond the expected & the practical. Loving your spouse is a priority for me, personally. Because I know when things get really rough & extremely difficult, we all need a reason to not quit and in my book having a loving marriage can accomplish that. There's nothing wrong with stepping up and saying "Yes, I love my wife and I'm in it for the long haul!" Just my perspective, don't' mean to be "white knighting." :mrgreen:
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Anarchist wrote:There's nothing wrong with stepping up and saying "Yes, I love my wife and I'm in it for the long haul!" Just my perspective, don't' mean to be "white knighting." :mrgreen:
good perspective :up:
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BlackVelvet wrote:I can respect that. So many people have kids just because it's the thing to do so it's fair enough. Besides you are a man meaning however many years from now if you end up changing your mind you can go right on ahead and gabar wax kala ogeyn aa qoorta ka soo qabsan karta.


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:ohhh: Did someone hack into BV's account? Unbelievable to see Mrs Araweelo thinking exactly the way I am thinking.

It seems she isn't as Araweelo as she tries to make us believe after all and just likes to front every now and then, just to scare poor Faarax's. :steviej:


Koronto, lol! No, awoowe. I know you weren't white-knighting but I was just pulling your leg and pissing BV off in the process. :lol:


PS: I wish you all the best for tying the know, bro. No question that no man can have a complete life without a loving partner and may you two be labadii isku nasta oo isku nagaada. :up:

PPS: And if you meet Xaliimo who wants to get hitched without making babies send her my way. :lol:
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Body language mostly. Empty words and flashy gifts don't do it for me.
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Twist wrote:No question that no man can have a complete life without a loving partner
:ohhh: Ama adiga iga darantahay
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BlackVelvet wrote:
Twist wrote:No question that no man can have a complete life without a loving partner
:ohhh: Ama adiga iga darantahay
:down: @ using my own shit against me. :lol:
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What did Green say - laga barta laga badsha? :lol:
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BV is tru caraweelo...a subconscious transgressor.. twist is the crooked rib and she has managed to straightened him out lol
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Zuli you had him figured out from the beginning :up: :mrgreen:


I don't want Twist going back into his shaxaari shell marka Twist if I ever come across a nice girl who doesn't want kids I will point her in your direction - AHA!! Now I get the xusul baruur thing :lol:
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lol

There was nothing to figure out..he's pretty straight forward with his intentions.. he just found himself second guessing what those intentions were after a banter with a woman who weaves a wicked web(I say this with love my dear ) :mrgreen:
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Damn! I got tag-teamed by two Araweelo's ilayn! :wow:


Hey, my account has been hacked. It wasn't me who wrote the stuff in the last several posts. :lol:
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