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Re: The First Date: What should it be like?

Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2014 3:34 pm
by BlackVelvet
:lol:


Hee she got dressed, thought damn I look hot...then oh-oh, I look hot, he'll think I'm a loose ho, I must cover up, 3 extra layers later...

Re: The First Date: What should it be like?

Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2014 3:35 pm
by Marques
Lol@cherine, shhhh :lol:

Yasmiiney yaan kugu dheereyn turns out she was already seeing someone who was studying at Loughborough, the girl originally wanted "fun" but got to a point she was gonna leave the other guy for me, told her not to waste her time on me and we stopped..

Re: The First Date: What should it be like?

Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2014 3:36 pm
by BlackVelvet
I don't know why I find that surprising. Somali guys and Somali girls have such different lives.

Re: The First Date: What should it be like?

Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2014 3:40 pm
by Cherine
Lol@Colonel.

I don't wear any tents alhamdullilah.

Re: The First Date: What should it be like?

Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2014 3:41 pm
by YummyMummy
What do define a date as?
If your intention wasn't romantic but to get to know one another, does it make it a date?
And what is "halaal dating"? I hear this a lot...

Re: The First Date: What should it be like?

Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2014 3:47 pm
by BlackVelvet
YummyMummy wrote:If your intention wasn't romantic but to get to know one another

If you are getting to know a person of the opposite gender and the intention is any form of relationship where you are his and he is yours - it's a date.

Halaal date is what people say to make themselves out to be better than everybody else who dates. Unless you have your wali with you sitting there - not halal. Just say bismillah and don't go anywhere dark where he may jump you.

Re: The First Date: What should it be like?

Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2014 3:51 pm
by Amira143
^^ :lol: :lol:

Re: The First Date: What should it be like?

Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2014 3:52 pm
by YummyMummy
Jasmine6 wrote:
YummyMummy wrote:If your intention wasn't romantic but to get to know one another

If you are getting to know a person of the opposite gender and the intention is any form of relationship where you are his and he is yours - it's a date.

Halaal date is what people say to make themselves out to be better than everybody else who dates. Unless you have your wali with you sitting there - not halal. Just say bismillah and don't go anywhere dark where he may jump you.
:lol:
I knew that, I was wondering whether there was anything different about it which warrabts the "halaal" part, but clearly not.

Re: The First Date: What should it be like?

Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2014 3:52 pm
by eliteSomali
Straight up no time wasting I'll ask her "nayaa, let me get in that Abaaya". I am a simple man. :win:

Re: The First Date: What should it be like?

Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2014 3:53 pm
by eliteSomali
I just realized I think I know DnGirl? :lupe:

Re: The First Date: What should it be like?

Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2014 3:56 pm
by Amira143
eliteSomali wrote:Straight up no time wasting I'll ask her "nayaa, let me get in that Abaaya". I am a simple man. :win:

:lol: :lol: wasaq! You will most likely get " Warya put a ring on it first"

Re: The First Date: What should it be like?

Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2014 4:01 pm
by eliteSomali
Amira143 wrote:
eliteSomali wrote:Straight up no time wasting I'll ask her "nayaa, let me get in that Abaaya". I am a simple man. :win:

:lol: :lol: wasaq! You will most likely get " Warya put a ring on it first"
lmao I'll tell her naa go get a life and don't you ever waste my f-king time like that :dj:

Re: The First Date: What should it be like?

Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:26 pm
by Colonel
Cherine wrote:Lol@Colonel.

I don't wear any tents alhamdullilah.
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Re: The First Date: What should it be like?

Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:53 pm
by DANGIRL
Lillaahiya wrote: :wtf: What grudge? I'm genuinely shocked you're spoken for :lol:
That comment was directed toward Ms. Sunshine. But seriously I got divorce after my obsession with shah got out of hand. :(
eliteSomali wrote:I just realized I think I know DnGirl? :lupe:
:lupe:

Re: The First Date: What should it be like?

Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2014 6:00 pm
by XimanJaale
First date should always be a intellectual and personality one!

Both couples should have a intellectual conversation asking each other different intellectual questions. After you guys have the same intellect you can progress into the personality test.

Ideal place for your first date would be somewhere far away from public, somewhere very quite. A friends house? something along that line. :|

Things you should not do in a first date:

1. Showing off (All about me, me me)
2. Lying blatantly
3. Making dumb jokes
4. Talking about other people
5. Acting desperate
6. Inconsiderate


What you should do in a first date:

1. Be kind
2. Compliment
3. Ask lots of questions about the other person
4. Be honest
5. Act intelligent
6. Say a joke or make them laugh at the right time of the conversation
7. Look nice
8. Smell nice
9. Smile alot
10. Keep good eye contact
11. Stay confident but not arrogant/cocky!