Should insulting Somali women be accepted on SomaliNet?

[Daff]

Shouldn't be accepted.

Luv4somalia

[Kareem99]

Marka hore, hats off to you BV for attempting to tackle this problem. The way you generally go about your discussions (which can be heated) is quite nice.

You started this thread because (I think) you believe our females get more flack than our males (generally speaking). After all, this thread was started to protect our women from insults (which I'm all for). Zuumale, on the other hand, thinks just the opposite. I honestly think it's about 50/50. Just in this thread, there are examples of insults (veiled and obvious alike) flying from one gender to the other and back. In other threads you got some males calling gabdheneena fat and gobby, and in another thread you got some female members calling wiilisheena awkward and ugly looking. It's all over the place, and pretty childish really. I got tired responding to people who obviously appeared to carry some sort of baggage (which is why they insult/complain about the opposite gender). It's almost like trying to reason with a tribalist. If a guy hates Somali girls, or a girl hates Somali guys to the extent they feel the need to come on here and insult them, very little can be done besides starving them of the attention they so direly desire.

I never knew this was something that could be regulated by the mods. But if it is, then I support your cause to have this filthy behavior weeded out.

PS: it must be said, there are plenty of stand up male and female posters alike who don't descend to this type of vitriol. Yourself, FAH, Zumaale, PO, Yummy, and many, MANY other admirable posters on here. So while there are many that are part of the problem, I think there are more who rise above it.

[Kareem99]

dhofar go check my ip address i hav never made an account before, since when is a man who cares for the women of his beloved country the villain? this liberal indoctrination has wallahi brainwashed all but the most strong of us.

Walaal, ghabadha oo ninka Carbeed guursaday iska daa. Haddiiba ruuxa Islaan yahay, ee nimanka Soomaaliyeed caaynin, it's all good. Let her marry whoever she wants.

[KnowThySelf23]

Luv4somalia insulting somali women because they fell in love with a non somali is just truly sad. we have bitch made niggas like you calling ALL SOMALI WOMEN harlots who can't keep they're ceeb to themselves, but nobody talks about the men who date out? wtf is wrong with you people? so damn brain washed and territorial. why do you have to ruin people's lives and insult them for finding love. ALL of the f-king skinnies crying on this thread about somali girls marrying out, are probably a bunch of virgins who have nothing going for them and can't find love, so they resort to sitting on snet insulting women. Ugh, and you wonder why some people marry out? when you dont value somali women enough to RESPECT them and their decisions as INDIVIDUALS, and go around calling them harlots and sluts, yet cry about being at the bottom of the totem pole. i really hope the somali guys in snet are not a reflection of the general public, because if so.....RIP somali genes







BV, can you ask the mods to delete this shit? in your quest to end the comments being targeted at women to degrade them, you've attracted the sexist pieces of trash that lurk on this site. somali community is doomed if you have trash like these men in it. uff. luv4somalia made me sick to my stomach. exposing this poor girl like that. i wish you the worst death possible you little piece of shit.

[KnowThySelf23]

Also whats with the hatred of women who marry out? especially to arabs? it seems like it adds fuel to the fire.

Why the racism?

It makes me sick that y'all would defame and degrade your own women on your own site. like, is this how you guys speak in real life? calling them sluts who can't keep their legs closed? calling them loose? no other race (except other blacks) is this disrespectful to their own. every time y'all make comments like that, think of your mother/sister/daughter/cousin, and how they would feel hearing comments like that from their own somali brethren. You guys make me sick. almost punched my screen reading that shit.

luv4somalia jump of a f-king building you turd. i dont understand which dumbass mod accepted this trash.

[KnowThySelf23]

It used to be very bad couple of years ago and then they put a stop to it ..but now it seems to be getting to preban levels again.

Look at these guys gulping down what their colleagues are telling them gladly without question.

I can't imagine an ajnabi girl having the guts to go to a Somali girl with that BS

BV, men talk about sexual exploits casually and many non Muslims ethnics/cadaans are not aware of how much it injures old skool Somalis when they comment on our Somali females.

I am a realist, shit happens and I sure will not be offended or white knight if a non Somali guy tells me in a random ciyaal suuq conversation about his past conquests. Seen too much to overcome the effects it had on me when was I a naive soul. Now, it is all about being concerned with your ilk and nothing more.

What caused offence in that particular example is that she chose to attack her menfolk? Maybe she had a few bad experiences or lost her virginity to a Somali player that played her like a fool? Still, it does not excuse her actions.

Cherine, sis, what would I gain from lying about an encounter that a colleague that I work with had with a Somali female?

Wow....truely shameful.

Smh you base your entire argument on an instance that happened between some girl and an ajnabi? your outraged cuz she talks shit about you? how many somalis are there in the world? one confused little girl with self hatred talks shit and you generalize? wtf s wrong with you? if i generalized all the men of somalia based on the trash that lurk this forum, how would you feel? not everyone is the same and your bound to run into some bad apples.

[BlackVelvet]

Kareem thank you

There is a fine line when it comes to these things, you can't stop people from expressing their opinions just because you disagree with what they have to say and on the other hand we can't allow insulting our men and women to become common place on SomaliNet. It's humiliating to think that a forum filled with Somalis can become a platform for such things

If you see anyone making baseless/hurtful accusations and/or insults towards either gender, report them. The Mods can delete such threads/posts

I know PO in particular as a Mod is trying to curb the problem addressed in this thread and we should applaud the effort and help him and the other Mods by reporting such vile behaviour

The people who make such comments may be dealing with daddy issues or family problems but going around insulting Somali men and women is not an acceptable way of dealing with those issues

[KnowThySelf23]

Kareem thank you

There is a fine line when it comes to these things, you can't stop people from expressing their opinions just because you disagree with what they have to say and on the other hand we can't allow insulting our men and women to become common place on SomaliNet. It's humiliating to think that a forum filled with Somalis can become a platform for such things

If you see anyone making baseless/hurtful accusations and/or insults towards either gender, report them. The Mods can delete such threads/posts

I know PO in particular as a Mod is trying to curb the problem addressed in this thread and we should applaud the effort and help him and the other Mods by reporting such vile behaviour

The people who make such comments may be dealing with daddy issues or family problems but going around insulting Somali men and women is not an acceptable way of dealing with those issues

I've reported them countless times and nothing happens.

[BlackVelvet]

KTS MashaAllah I admire your passion, please report any offensive material using the report button

I feel your frustration, when I first joined this site posting a picture of an AA man would get you all the insults in the world. I wasn't attracted to AA men in the least but being policed by what I considered racist bigots drove me nuts

But as you get older you see the wisdom behind such conservative and judgemental viewpoints. That's what keeps our values passing from generation to generation. Somalis are not the most religious or reserved but we value sharaf and akhlaq, you have to admit a girl posting pictures of her snuggling with her boyfriend online is very un-Somali. Drawing that line between what is Somali and un-Somali and enforcing it is very valuable. These shared values are what holds us together when everything else is pulling us apart

I've reported them countless times and nothing happens.

Do you get a report closed notification? PM the Mods if they're not doing anything about it, name and shame the incompetent Mod. There was a disturbing thread on here yesterday and my report was closed without anything being done. I had to report it twice before the thread was moved

[luv4somalia]

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[luv4somalia]

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[luv4somalia]

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[KnowThySelf23]

@bv when i first joined i was just angry all the time because my views are a complete 180 when compared to the rest of snet, but i realize that we were raised very similar and the whole somali xishood thing was ingrained into my brain. tbh, i dont understand the territorial aspect of their thinking, a woman should be able to fall for any man they connect with and love without being called a harlot or slut. that part just makes me sick to my stomach. i could never utter those words to someone i consider my own....even if she might be a bit hoe-ish...i still respect her enough to never say things like that. idk. that user who was posting that girls pictures needs to be banned, that shouldn't be allowed here. smh and apparently thats his family member, thats what angered me the most. aside from the anti arab racism :@


but i agree with your last paragraph 100%


and yea it says report closed. ill just pm them next time.

[Buraanbur]

Your comment was removed by a moderator because it didn't abide by Somalinet standards. Replies may also be deleted. Le justicier.

First off, welcome. It's nice to see more Canadians on here.

Secondly, you could have used countless examples but you picked chicks who got wifed up. How are they hoes for getting married, to Muslims at that? There are escorts, strippers, chicks offering flower on twitter to AA's for pesos, snapchat thots etc and you pick women who got married. You suck at this.

[Lancer]

^ Since you brought up the word xishood, you'll enjoy reading these tweets.

https://twitter.com/search?q=%23SomaliXishood&src=tyah

Twitter is the worst thing that has happened for the Somali Community

luv4Somalia is SonofNomad like Cherine said, mods ban this bastard he is probably using a VPN.