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KingOt wrote:AbdiWahab you sound too pessimistic. The way I see marriage, you find a girl you like marry and live a few years together. When you start boring one another have a child, loving the child together and bringing it up is a challenge that brings you closer again. This is just my theory on marriage though, I don't have any personal experience.

But if you wanna keep it working as a guy you need to limit contact with other girls, it'll just lead to sin.

Aishah wrote:

Agah waar meeshan waa yurub baraasho wanaagsan shah iyo bourbon biscuit igu soo daar

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COOL-MAN wrote:Abdwahab, utartiibi awow! you are going full gear! Give them in small potions kkkkk

COOL-MAN wrote:War ka kaca meeshee oo guursada. Waari meysiinee war ha idinka haro. You guys could end up in old peoples homes lonely if you view marriage as an obstacle or a prison with a lot more to offer than take out from.

I have been married twice in 8 years.

It's a blessing I have not a single regret in its experience. Infact if I was wiser, I would have married much much earlier. Like when I was seventeen. But Alhamdulillah.

Marriage gives you beautiful kids to call Aabo iyo hooyo if Allah gives you. It gives you someone to share your time with in the lonely moments. It gives you somewhere to release the tension and sleep peacefully. It's xalal. It's a bliss, it's a huge Blessing if Allah gives you the right person.

The world is a temporary station. Time is a sword they say. every morning it brings you closer to that inevitable end. Enjoy it the xalal way n stop worrying who will provide for that that comes out of it. after all it's Allah who provides for all . even your parents you didn't know how they were raised but they been here before they produced you,. you could be a source of income for hundreds or thousands more that weren't in your parents radar when they had you. When I say you I mean all you out there helping people in one way or another.

Ruwaayada iska Daaya ee asxaabey midoo min yara aan ka dhigto meel iigu sheega?

COOL-MAN wrote:

Idman,

I am sensing the white flag is been raised or about to be raised

salool wrote:

COOL-MAN wrote:War ka kaca meeshee oo guursada. Waari meysiinee war ha idinka haro. You guys could end up in old peoples homes lonely if you view marriage as an obstacle or a prison with a lot more to offer than take out from.

I have been married twice in 8 years.

It's a blessing I have not a single regret in its experience. Infact if I was wiser, I would have married much much earlier. Like when I was seventeen. But Alhamdulillah.

Marriage gives you beautiful kids to call Aabo iyo hooyo if Allah gives you. It gives you someone to share your time with in the lonely moments. It gives you somewhere to release the tension and sleep peacefully. It's xalal. It's a bliss, it's a huge Blessing if Allah gives you the right person.

The world is a temporary station. Time is a sword they say. every morning it brings you closer to that inevitable end. Enjoy it the xalal way n stop worrying who will provide for that that comes out of it. after all it's Allah who provides for all . even your parents you didn't know how they were raised but they been here before they produced you,. you could be a source of income for hundreds or thousands more that weren't in your parents radar when they had you. When I say you I mean all you out there helping people in one way or another.

Ruwaayada iska Daaya ee asxaabey midoo min yara aan ka dhigto meel iigu sheega?

Wow..baryahan dadki SN daacad bayba noqden oo noloshooda oo dhan bay ka sheekeyneyan.

AbdiWahab252 wrote:Sophisticate,

I will let you in on a secret. Women mature faster than men. A guy your age is a couple years is less mature than you. You probably are more emotionally mature and know more about the world than his adolescent ass. He won't command the same level of respect or might I saw awe you may have for a fellow who is years older than you. A marriage with a man your age will have unnatural power-respect dynamics.

A Farax your age needs a woman whom he can get the same adoration/respect/awe and that will come from a younger woman. So there you are, 30 years old. The bachelor pool of men your age are casting nets to fish out some younger Xalimos who will shower him with the adoration and look younger to bit. They are less knowledable about the shukaansi game and so are less bitter than a 30 year old. She still sees the positive in men and hasn't been screwed over several times.

But my dear there is hope. Just as you become disorientated by the loud sirens of "GUURSO! GUURSO!" and are about to faint, there is an AW252 ready to scoop you up. Bidaar or calool, he is everything you want: mature, got his shid together, and most importantly, he views you as a young Filly something you will never get from the Farax your age.

Then comes the 'spin' that you will tell your friends who settled years ago: 1. He is mature. 2. He is knowledgeable in everything including relationships. 3. Yes, looks may not be everything but how many handsome assholes have we dated, looks ain't everything.

So my dearest Sophi, be nice and appreciative to the Older Seasoned Farax. It is either him or Ali Salahudiin Walker from the Masjid.

Hyperactive wrote:guys do not listen to AW. he is an old man who is married, meshan bo ino idin lugooyo raba.

his rants about against women and marriage is not sincere. wa odayada an la shaqeeyo o kale. manto idil naag bey wah ka sheegi and how they bad and they are married 3 with couple dozen of kids and looking 4th one if they could.

salool wrote:Haa dhibteeda ayey leedahy, waayo, dad ba meshan ka buuxa oo noloshaada raqiis ka dhigaya oo markstu aad murantaan noloshaada caayeya.Not worth it.Best to keep ur life to urself..Xita ishooda aya kugu dhici karta.You got somthing most of them dream of.