Hyperactive wrote:horta, raga, ma fakartey, if you rise them well, inad ajir ka heleyso?
mad Allah o niyootid, o sidi ilmahaga o korisid?
what is wrong with you guys??? who cares if their father alife or not. wah Allhey darti lo sameya o fi'an. wallah and wallah, blessing ombad ka qaadi iyo wealth.
if i ever married, i will marry garoob miskiin ah, an ilmaha o koriyo, Allahey darty.
ee so dueeya , ino Allah wiswiska ika saaro.
Good attitude brother. People here forget that kids can be disrespectful to their own biological parents and treat them like their worst enemies. How many young adults left their parents for a lifestyle that is counter to the Somali culture? Plenty of them do in here. They have nothing in common with their parents except the Somali blood. Now, considering that fact, if you marry a woman with kids who are respectful, kids who will become yours by default, you treat them well and invest in them, they can grow up better. If their own father wants to get involved in their life, he should be welcome to come anytime he pleases. Waxaaba laga yaabaa the kids to love you more than they love their own father since you are around them always being kind and a guide to them. It is all about conduct and how one handles life's issues that determine the comfort level one experiences in life general.
I am for limited number of kids always, regardless. Having many kids is counter productive in the west. It is not a good idea to have a kid every damn year. They should enforce some birth control on some Somalis honestly. Other than that, Cute garoob isku dhacayso is just as good as a single woman who never married if you are a match. Women are all emotional beings whether they are garoob or not, maintaining and keeping them happy requires a character. Waa imtixaan aan laga maarmin, nonetheless, life is good with a woman of your own always. Raaxo Waaye Ilaahay na siiyay. I encourage you to marry eventually and be brave.