Marrying from another qabiil.

[MujahidAishah]

Waar blue your a racist your not fooling anyone sxb buugta jooji and embrace it

lol. adigu even samaroonka waxba kama jiraan u just said it bcz they are reer abtigaa but you and i know u would never go outside of the beesha barakaysan

Hunno we both know if we were still in Djibouti I'll pick an cisse over you any day of the week

[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

^^ you mean canfari since you are canfariyad

[Lamagoodle]

Cigaal, Grumpy middle aged men just want to have fun; mid rogga iyo jaazka isla tumano, waqtigana isla riixno... dabadeedna waa siduu ilaah ka dhigo. (if it fails or succeeds, the strategy is always to blame on the elusive CALAF).. with qaraabo, you don't want to send the wrong message that has found Mr. right, in this case Lamagoodle (the dream of every soddoh ). If I continued with that qalanjo in the elevator yesterday, chances are that the wedding drums would have been beating today.

Cigaalow; you need to attend Lamagoodle university to get specialised lessons on how to chase, capture and consume the blessed xusul baruurs; date a non-somali and create a name for yourself ( naag gaalo ayuu la socday will enhance your image), then you should learn how to seduce somali women ( amaanta ka badi, quruxda, socodka, qosolka).....

Insamaale, ok. I wish you a long lasting marriages characterised by love, happiness and understanding. Wait!! Ma qorqod baad soo xareeysatay?

if only they knew what you write on here .... lool@ gaalo girl friend, al-khabiir, i feel i have already attended your classes, i have been taking notes from your posts lol



i have to admit i like reading your posts, they are full of wisdom and khiyaano but i got a question sxb, isnt the time you hang up your gloves and marry to a dhaylo suxul bauur ah from the family? you know the older we get the closer we get to death.

Hanging your gloves???? That is nacasnimo; you should always be in " a hunting mood" even if you are married. When you give the impression that you are done with "dhalinyarees" "xodxodsi" , you are digging your grave saaxib. Dheylo ma xumo laakin you should always be on the look-out for second hand goods because that is where the dough is.

No, as you grow older you become wiser and you have the brains to find gold mines (plural) but there is obviously the curse of the plenty. In most cases, there is a trade-off between the size of the purse and the xusul but you should always have a tactical pullout strategy.

There is a game theory at work saaxib. A prisoner's dilemma kind of dynamics (Nash equilibirum); you don't want to be the last prisoner in the socially constructed prison!!!

[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

^^ smh lol, as my mother would say " ilaahay khaatimada khayre ha inoogu khatimo" aamiin, heading to bed, good night/day lama

[Lamagoodle]

BTW, Cigaal, this is what I felt in the elevator yesterday. I am still shook up.




If she did not mention that we are qaraabo qansax, I would have started a hunt....

[Rooble90]

I'd Marry From Daarood, Hawiye, Isaaq

If Its Hawiye Then HG Sacad Or Murusade(They Have Pretty Women)

If Its Isaaq I Woudn't Mind Any Of There Subclans, isaaq Girls Are Very Attractive..

I'd Marry from Any Daarood Clan (Waa dad Gob ah)

I dont Think I'd Marry From Raxanweyn

[BVSNet]

Thats not much more of a stretch from believing you are descended from a man call Hawiye.

How are you BV?

Of course it's more of a stretch, it's what random tribes all over the world have done when Islam came to them: making up stories to tie themselves more closely to Arabs. Can you imagine the identity crisis my children would have when what their eedos tell them and what their mother tells them are diametrically opposed, nah mate, I am protecting my progeny


I'm good PO, it's been a while. I've grown old and realised I've been lied to about how exciting dating is supposed to be, it's tedious. What about you, how's life been?

[Adali]

I have been specifically told not to marry from sl/pl tribes. Funny e ough the relatives who said no to sl were pro pl and vice versa. Then I have relatives who are anti-shisheeye and some who think it's ceeb to Mary sokeeye.

Who the fuck gives a shit. The girl cool and her family aren't shaydaan who do sixir then I'm cool. I need to focus on girl who can make me smile, laugh, grab my attention and my ceeb hard.

[Vivacious]

Haa abaay. Afartoo laf kale aan sii wadaagnaa

We call that Xigto Miis in my neck of the woods
Bless thy family Vivacious

Thank you walaal

[Vivacious]

Yaaa! Haasha! Abgaal agoonyar aa katahay right?

I'm gonna have to look for mid warsangal-abgaal?

No. I am Owbakar.
Don't look for a man from beesha.
Look for the one aad sheekada isla fahantaan ee
reerkana raali ka yihiin


Edit: Ma la socotaa only Abgaal & Murasade say Aayo when referring to habaryar

[Vivacious]

That's incest. It's not healthy having kids with your relatives as backed by medicine and science.

We should ban cousin marriage and sub-clan marriages.

I support marriage outside my tribe to build a new bridge, increase my kids horizon and area of operations. Indeed social structure is like mobile coverage, the more area the better.

We should not mix politics and family.

There are more rewards than downs marrying outside beesha.

Incest? You don't know what you are talking about.
I didn't marry my cousin nor a relative. I don't know how you define a relative

[JSL3000]

It's ok to marry your cousin diaspora folks will never fit in.

[Sauron]

Isaaq women come first

BUT if i come across a dime that isn't isaaq I wouldn't mind

[zumaale]

I do not think it is really an issue for men but if Allah wills that I have daughters, I will advise them not to marry from a Qabil that neighbour us due to the volatile nature of Somali clan relations. I cannot imagine them having children for another Qabil that might be at war with their own kin. Can never get my head round how Somalis of old would on one hand be killing each other whilst on the other hand giving their daughters away as part of a peace settlement. It is as if they did not attach much value to women and viewed them as commodities that could be exchanged in return for camels or to settle clan feuds.

That being said, I would ideally like to marry from my own clan because it is more practical when it comes to paying Qadhan and results in less complication during times of conflict or when interacting with the extended family. However, Allah has his own plans and if I end up marrying one of the Rwandan clans, so be it.

[waayeel101]

to be honest i wouldn't like to marry from some clans due to culture differences.

but the most important 3 points in my opinion are 1. personality, 2. close family (Mother, father, sisters/brothers) 3. the place&environment she was raised.