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Some of my friends there girlfriends or wives wears the pants in a relationship they are the dominant person who controls things and boy they are paranoid chicks who are pain in the azz, I feel sorry for them and tell them a relationship should be 50 -50

There's nothing such as "50-50". Someone has to be the dominant one in the relationship. It's just how things work.

Interesting, most girls who grew up in the west share a different view adiga shalay somalia ka timid ? nah iam joking I think your right I wholeheartedly agree with you.

NO BUT U SURE WEAR DA BRA

I wear the pants but I think that cause im older than he is.

you look like you don't wear pants at all

kadafi,

u rite , here in the western atmsphere somali men became ceeb eatin weak motha fukas... in 90% of the relationshps women are in charge...its seems these motha fukas have surrendered their testicles and their diginty at the port of the entery.

nobody ever tell us but it was women who always wear the pants. However, some of them have some deceny to understand where buck stops when the going gets tough and how to address their men when the other people are around.

In other words, they don't show their dominancy in their relationship in front of others.

Someguy

that is not true. if women always wore the pants, then many men would not be married to multiple wives at the same time. it is just that some people are stronger than others. you just like to think everyone is like you someguy.

[quote="kadafi007"]Interesting, most girls who grew up in the west share a different view adiga shalay somalia ka timid ? nah iam joking I think your right I wholeheartedly agree with you.[/quote]

I think you misread my comment because I never said that the man should be the dominant one in the relationship.

viva conservatism!!

[quote="Advocatar"]viva conservatism!![/quote]

That's what they all say.

not really some guys are gay in the sense of 'softness"........those are the only ones that say one thing and end up getting whipped.

[quote="Advocatar"]not really some guys are gay in the sense of 'softness"........those are the only ones that say one thing and end up getting whipped.[/quote]

"Soft" or "gangsta" wannabe types, it really doesn't make any difference. You all have the potential to be whipped, you just need the right woman to come along.

I admit the only time a dude can be whipped is when his horny and it's all cus lack of blood circulation in the brain. But eventually things disintegrate when women.....