Married But Flirting Normal or Haram?
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Married But Flirting Normal or Haram?
Flirting is something that everyone does and it seems to be a natural human thing to do. But when you are married and flirting, then it is an entirely different ball game.
You need to learn to recognize when you're feeling seriously tempted by another person.
Remember that you are now doing something that would hurt your partner if he knew about it.
Be careful with people who are married or attached.
Most people in long-term relationships can cope with some admiration, and may even benefit from knowing that others find them or their partners attractive. Some, however, are less tolerant of flirtatious behavior, and it is important to be alert to signs of discomfort or distress.
Men have a tendency to mistake friendly behavior for sexual flirting because they tend to see the world in more sexual terms than women.
Women are naturally more socially skilled than men, better at interpreting people's behavior and responding appropriately.
SO IT IS HARAM FLIRTING WHEN YOU ARE MARRIED........
You need to learn to recognize when you're feeling seriously tempted by another person.
Remember that you are now doing something that would hurt your partner if he knew about it.
Be careful with people who are married or attached.
Most people in long-term relationships can cope with some admiration, and may even benefit from knowing that others find them or their partners attractive. Some, however, are less tolerant of flirtatious behavior, and it is important to be alert to signs of discomfort or distress.
Men have a tendency to mistake friendly behavior for sexual flirting because they tend to see the world in more sexual terms than women.
Women are naturally more socially skilled than men, better at interpreting people's behavior and responding appropriately.
SO IT IS HARAM FLIRTING WHEN YOU ARE MARRIED........
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Re: Married But Flirting Normal or Haram?
"Women are naturally more socially skilled than men, better at interpreting people's behavior and responding appropriately."....Damm Right!
Back to ur question. It's wrong for a married woman or man to be flirting in any way! What even brings together the two in the first place is the real qustion!
Back to ur question. It's wrong for a married woman or man to be flirting in any way! What even brings together the two in the first place is the real qustion!
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Re: Married But Flirting Normal or Haram?
Brothers and sisters
If you are married you should avoid all environments that may cause you to flirt. Flirting is the evil's calling for zina. It is big denbi.
If you are married you should avoid all environments that may cause you to flirt. Flirting is the evil's calling for zina. It is big denbi.
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Re: Married But Flirting Normal or Haram?
Flirting happens everyday in every walk of life, work, supermarket, bank, uni etc. Sometimes you do it without even realizing it.
I do think its inappropiate but I don't think its completely and utterly wrong thing to do.
It happens. Human nature. No harm in it whatsoever.
I do think its inappropiate but I don't think its completely and utterly wrong thing to do.
It happens. Human nature. No harm in it whatsoever.
Re: Married But Flirting Normal or Haram?
I doubt a happy married person would flirt so i guess they are looking for a replacment.
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Re: Married But Flirting Normal or Haram?
lol helwaa
even if you're not married
why flirt?
tan ad doneyso mad rerkeda ka donatid?
even if you're not married
why flirt?
tan ad doneyso mad rerkeda ka donatid?
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Re: Married But Flirting Normal or Haram?
afcourse not haraam other wise sideed uuu heellaysa naagtadii labaad ama tii sadexaad
Re: Married But Flirting Normal or Haram?
[quote="hyperactive"]lol helwaa
even if you're not married
why flirt?
tan ad doneyso mad rerkeda ka donatid?[/quote]
oo sidaad o ogtahy inay inanto ku yeeliy doonto iyo in kale...ka waran hadey jac reerkina ku dhajiso..lol
even if you're not married
why flirt?
tan ad doneyso mad rerkeda ka donatid?[/quote]
oo sidaad o ogtahy inay inanto ku yeeliy doonto iyo in kale...ka waran hadey jac reerkina ku dhajiso..lol
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Re: Married But Flirting Normal or Haram?
lol it's ok walal.
not every thing you want will get.
it worth it the risk.lol
my father told me
nolosha da in badan will be rejected
just keep trying in other places.lol
not every thing you want will get.
it worth it the risk.lol
my father told me
nolosha da in badan will be rejected
just keep trying in other places.lol
Re: Married But Flirting Normal or Haram?
hyper
That is the spirit keep trying and never give up....allaho macal saabiriin.
That is the spirit keep trying and never give up....allaho macal saabiriin.
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Re: Married But Flirting Normal or Haram?
Flirt????
Exactly what is flirting? What do you call firting?
Exactly what is flirting? What do you call firting?
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Re: Married But Flirting Normal or Haram?
[quote="kambuli"]Flirt????
Exactly what is flirting? What do you call firting?[/quote]
lol wahan omaleyn.
they mean smiling and eeg eegi tan is daba joog ah.lol
Exactly what is flirting? What do you call firting?[/quote]
lol wahan omaleyn.
they mean smiling and eeg eegi tan is daba joog ah.lol
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Re: Married But Flirting Normal or Haram?
[quote="The_Emperior5"]afcourse not haraam other wise sideed uuu heellaysa naagtadii labaad ama tii sadexaad[/quote]
LOL
LOL
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Re: Married But Flirting Normal or Haram?
Hyper, quote lol wahan omaleyn.
they mean smiling and eeg eegi tan is daba joog ah.lol
So I can't smile and look at another husband if I am married? Even my co-workers, classmates etc?
they mean smiling and eeg eegi tan is daba joog ah.lol
So I can't smile and look at another husband if I am married? Even my co-workers, classmates etc?
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Re: Married But Flirting Normal or Haram?
It's all about your intentions.
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