do u think i should give a second chance?????????

womenofdreams · Post by **womenofdreams** » Sun Feb 17, 2008 5:55 pm

i can say i have a problem.....that problem is i met this guy i while and i wasnt really interested in him at all....every one warned me about him....they z he was player and that he treats gals bad....so what happend was thatwe were together for about 5months and i started to go off him....he didnt really treat me that well at the start of our realtionship......but after a while he stared to fix up and was really devoted 2me...to be honest i think i really loved him, he still loves me.....nwyz we went out one time him and his freind and my freind to.....i mad him really upset that night as i completely ignored him and he was being so nice...he got pissed so he planned somthing with his friend ...as they were taking us home him and his freind dropped as in the middle of nowhere....he told my friend to get out the car....i got out to coz i couldnt leave her. we shouted at each other and i z tim dont ever call me again....nways he did............till this day i love him do u think i should give him a second chance...i am quite sturbon so he will need to prove himslef if i take him back .............but should i give other try...for the sake of ALLAH...coz i was planing to get married to him.

WasteMan · Post by **WasteMan** » Sun Feb 17, 2008 6:02 pm

Lol for the sake of Allah..giving sadaqa 2 poor people is for the sake of Allah. starting a haram relationship with a guy u love is for the sake of ur needs

MissDarood · Post by **MissDarood** » Tue Feb 19, 2008 10:38 pm

Womenofdreams,

Please tell me thats a joke because sweety no matter what. you should never tolerate that kind of shit. And forget taking him back you should even talk to the guy. If he had respect for you, he would never make YOUR friend get out of the car in the middle of nowhere and even that if he left you and your friend in the middle of nowhere then whatelse is he capable of doing. Nobody can make a decision for you. but remember this life is 2 days so don't take bullshit from noone and remember your a queen and thats how you should be treated!

p.s one thing leads to another, just like you weren't interested in him when you met him N now u love him. Becareful no matter how much you think you know a guy, you don't really know him. Personally i think all guys are asshole and i always expect nothing of them.

garowegal · Post by **garowegal** » Thu Feb 21, 2008 12:31 pm

abaayo sorry to sound rude but maybe the problem is with you cause no man would treat you like a doormat unless you lay down for him and if you really want him to change then you should start with yourself because you need to start making boundaries for yourself dont ever subject to that kind of behavior.

suga_n_spice · Post by **suga_n_spice** » Thu Feb 21, 2008 12:46 pm

BALOO

first of all don't say LOVE cuz u shouldn't love a man after 5 months. secondly, he disrespected your friend N most of all YOU.

what i want to know is, why r u N ur friend N him N his friend out together to begin with?? waxaas oo kalee mafiicna sis. u should keep ur private activities between u N ur man no outsiders whatsoever!!

u should ignore him. do not pick up his phone calls. absolutely nothing. he's not worthy. karamadaada hoos ha uu dhigin for a "BOY-friend"

Smokey.... · Post by **Smokey....** » Sun Feb 24, 2008 2:35 pm

BLA BLA BLA

samiyamire · Post by **samiyamire** » Mon Mar 03, 2008 6:30 am

MissDarood

well said...i can see from all these people ur the only one taht makes sense well done...

and fro real wowen of dreams theres plenty of other fish in the sea....so dont worry about it babe.....

Kramer · Post by **Kramer** » Mon Mar 03, 2008 10:44 am

For sake of Allah? If you wanna get married get married to a good guy, why do women love bad ppl?

Sephora · Post by **Sephora** » Thu Apr 03, 2008 7:58 am

womenofdreams wrote:i can say i have a problem.....that problem is i met this guy i while and i wasnt really interested in him at all....every one warned me about him....they z he was player and that he treats gals bad....so what happend was thatwe were together for about 5months and i started to go off him....he didnt really treat me that well at the start of our realtionship......but after a while he stared to fix up and was really devoted 2me...to be honest i think i really loved him, he still loves me.....nwyz we went out one time him and his freind and my freind to.....i mad him really upset that night as i completely ignored him and he was being so nice...he got pissed so he planned somthing with his friend ...as they were taking us home him and his freind dropped as in the middle of nowhere....he told my friend to get out the car....i got out to coz i couldnt leave her. we shouted at each other and i z tim dont ever call me again....nways he did............till this day i love him do u think i should give him a second chance...i am quite sturbon so he will need to prove himslef if i take him back .............but should i give other try...for the sake of ALLAH...coz i was planing to get married to him.

SIS, think about this yeah.... U already know what to do, the confusing bit is u'r afraid that U might regret taking it.
The guy seems like a fool, coz no real decent guy would ever, ever, ever, ever, ever dump u in the middle of nowhere... Hell Madda Farkin Nooo!!!
Here's u'r motivation to tell him 'goodbye now and forever, amaankeeyga igu dadaal!!' = U know u'r self deep down whats good for u and all! U know u've got feelings for this guy, but luckily these feelings are not as deep rooted as u make u'r self believe. Open up u'r eyes and discover all the other guys out there, maybe right under u'r nose!! U know what they say it takes another guy to get over the first one!
SO GRAB U'R DIRAC AND SWAY THAT LOVELY BEHIND OF U'RS!!! (i dont know if u do have lovely behind, its a figure of speech, UknoWhaI'mSayin!!)

Have fun!

hanad_mn · Post by **hanad_mn** » Sat May 17, 2008 3:56 pm

tell you what, it is all your fault. You came along with your friend that night beause you want to fest on his food and not giving him anything because your friend was there. Second, you should't be a biij and ignore the dude while his is being nice. you should be closer to him, call him handsome and give him some good kisses. what da fuck is wrong with you.

cadaani26 · Post by **cadaani26** » Thu Jul 03, 2008 8:44 am

no way baby... he is gonna do da same next time u upset him. Dont be fool, he should have never done that to u. U seem a nice girl. Do what ur heart tells u, but i am just warning you just incase.
take care

*Amal · Post by *Amal » Tue Jul 15, 2008 2:33 pm

WasteMan wrote:Lol for the sake of Allah..giving sadaqa 2 poor people is for the sake of Allah. starting a haram relationship with a guy u love is for the sake of ur needs

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