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i've been to a ton of wedding (yes im a wedding crasher )
and i've noticed the bride sits there..she actually looks deppressed a lil suicidal at times.. and it makes no sense to me..since its "your day"

are you planning to dance smile laugh etc etc on your wedding or are you .. gonna follow the same route ?

u know what the problem is with our people boo?? they do what they are not customed to do. when u say wedding. somali's nowadayz just through a big reception, in gaalo terms the reception is when u party hard N get drunk N the church ceremony is more reserved. our people twisted the whole thing. bal waxeey dhaqan u laheeyn maxeey u subinayaan?? why?? so thats why u really have angry wives!!

bal inteey hidiyo dhaqan kooda iska gishtaan ma loo buramburoo??

nikaah with afar oday oo ii duceeysa. 8)

suga_n_spice wrote:u know what the problem is with our people boo?? they do what they are not customed to do. when u say wedding. somali's nowadayz just through a big reception, in gaalo terms the reception is when u party hard N get drunk N the church ceremony is more reserved. our people twisted the whole thing. bal waxeey dhaqan u laheeyn maxeey u subinayaan?? why?? so thats why u really have angry wives!!

bal inteey hidiyo dhaqan kooda iska gishtaan ma loo buramburoo??

and who said u can't have hido iyo dhaqan..buranbur..xeedho....and still swing from the chandelier with the craziest party the town hasn't seen yet....

Z. i would luv to see a nice traditional wedding like tha walle. it's been a while since i went to aroos fiican leh. i luv burambur dee but i have yet to go to a xeedho

suga n spice u never see a bride doing the buranbar
honestly when i get married best believe im gonna be front row and center since its my wedding

zulaika

loool ba'aa naheedhe dont do that!!!
that is something we never do. waxaa lagu dhihi "waa tii arooskeedi ka booday"

looool i already told hoyo ..she nearly fainted.. i plan to grab her so we can baranbur together

oh well who cares its my wedding..if they dont like what they see more food for me

u might say that now, but u will not do that. in fact, u will b so stressed that u'll b mad urself.
u know what i wonder, do brides take notice whether the ladies at their weddin are wearing nice dirac's or regular 1'z taloow??

lol your probably right hoyo would hurt me if i did something like that.. but if only ..

do brides notice anything ever? wallahi they look like there dazed or somthing!

of course they notice things. or do they??
i think virgin brides r more scared N stressed then non-virgins

all brides are scary.. i would never let them near a machine gun/ car/ knife anything that can possibly injure someone

Yeah the bride usually looks suicidal n fairly unhappy n its because she is. But u know she made that decision so she's gonna have 2 deal wid it.

Babygal,

The reason some brides look deppressed on their wedding night is because;

1. Some people get nervous on occasions like this as more than 600 eyes are watching her.

2. In old school, girls who smile wide in their wedding nights were regarded as a shameless kind...People say

Indho adag arooskeeda ayey ka booddaa

The bride sits there beacuse she is scared of everyone (wedding crashers) lol and people are there to gossip so dib beey isu celinaysa she doesnt want to look like she is crazy in love with the guy her family baa ceeboobaya nor does she want to look like she is a wild chick ninkaa reerkisa baa ka haadlaaya hoognaay naa muxuu guursaday .