Dilemma!!!!!!!!!!!

[ShArEeFa*x*]

This is mainly to all the sisters out there but you brehs can have your say to.

So the majority of us somali sistas(especially including myself) prey and hope a decent somali bloke who ticks all are boxes and is great, caring ect...... comes along but when one finally does but is lacking in the looks department......what do we do try and instantly find a flaw to dismiss the brother or compensate and work with it.

Recently i came aross a breh who manshallah is all-rounded the kind of brother any girl would like BUT theres always a but where i am concerned there is no physical attraction something you know to create that spark and i was just wondering is there ANYTHING a sister can do to stop her Pety ways and get over this after all it is inner beauty that counts.......... and i don't want to let this 1 go because he wasnt tall or butch or handsome enough and regret it later on when he's drivin round anotha sister in his whip!!!!!!!

[wastegal]

ALL I HAVE TO SAY IF HE YOU AINT GOOD LOOKING HE AINT GOOD ENOUGH
SIMPLE

[miss_sweets]

Dunno, get to know him if you get attracted to his personality you'll soon forget about the looks..!!

Help a brother markaa, tell him to change up a bit, on the low thou actually don't if he ticks all the boxes then seriously there shouldn't be a problem

[XxS.landprincessxX]

Looks aint evrything u know, u see Allah might not have blessed him much with looks but he blessed him in other ways.
listen sis, no1 is perfect ok and don't think that " the one" is still out there becasue there simply aint a "one"
if i was u n he was js as u said he was, i wuld go 4 it wallahi no jokes beacause i rather have sum1 who is reliable but not all that then sum1 sexy but agnorant do u understand..???

PS. if u do go 4 it n evrything works out...u can alwasy picture som1 else in bed
no harm done***

[UponSallafiyya]

Asalama Alaikum Sister...

Well first and foremost is the Brother Practicing his Deen, does he go to pray at the Masjid for his five daily prayers?

Of the answer is no then you know what to do.

But is the answer is yes then that does not mean that you have to marry this person, for remember you have to build a family with him.

The Prophet (Sallahu Alye'wasalam) said; "Women are married for 4 things; Beauty, Wealth, Status and Religion, marry the one with religion"

This same thing goes for the sisters as well, now if the brother is practising then Allah will put love between you if you are marrying for the Sake of Allah.

But inshallah pray your salatul Istaqarah and see the outcome put your trust in Allah Azz Wa'jaala

[ShArEeFa*x*]

Looks aint evrything u know, u see Allah might not have blessed him much with looks but he blessed him in other ways.
listen sis, no1 is perfect ok and don't think that " the one" is still out there becasue there simply aint a "one"
if i was u n he was js as u said he was, i wuld go 4 it wallahi no jokes beacause i rather have sum1 who is reliable but not all that then sum1 sexy but agnorant do u understand..???

PS. if u do go 4 it n evrything works out...u can alwasy picture som1 else in bed
no harm done***

Dunno, get to know him if you get attracted to his personality you'll soon forget about the looks..!!

Help a brother markaa, tell him to change up a bit, on the low thou actually don't if he ticks all the boxes then seriously there shouldn't be a problem

S.Landprincess picyure sum1 else in bed....
miss sweets he ticks all ma boxes apart from the looks so i could try and change Him up a bit but he's bare skinny and am a chubby size 14 cum one how wierd wud we look....

[ShArEeFa*x*]

Asalama Alaikum Sister...

Well first and foremost is the Brother Practicing his Deen, does he go to pray at the Masjid for his five daily prayers?

Of the answer is no then you know what to do.

But is the answer is yes then that does not mean that you have to marry this person, for remember you have to build a family with him.

The Prophet (Sallahu Alye'wasalam) said; "Women are married for 4 things; Beauty, Wealth, Status and Religion, marry the one with religion"

This same thing goes for the sisters as well, now if the brother is practising then Allah will put love between you if you are marrying for the Sake of Allah.

But inshallah pray your salatul Istaqarah and see the outcome put your trust in Allah Azz Wa'jaala

Manshallah he does but all thats missing from this relationship is a connection something to keep me interested

[miss_sweets]

Miskiin, feed him then, give him milkshake and add that buff'in up medicine that those body builders use, then BAM, he'll put on some weight HOPEFULLY, and your sorted

[ShArEeFa*x*]

If it was all that simple did i fail to mention i am 5'8 and he is 5'5 is there also any growth spurt medicine he can use bless ..............His cotton socks

[suga_n_spice]

i mean whats the 1 issue he has that u dont like?? is he short, does he have bad teeth?? depends on what his flaw is.....

from the way ur talkin it seems like u like him, but dont want to let urself like him because he doesn't quite click

this is what i ask myself, would i be with this guy if i didnt have people to worry about?? friends, family etc. if yes then i give it a shot, if i totally cannot even when it's just me N him in china. then he gotz to go

[ShArEeFa*x*]

i mean whats the 1 issue he has that u dont like?? is he short, does he have bad teeth?? depends on what his flaw is.....

from the way ur talkin it seems like u like him, but dont want to let urself like him because he doesn't quite click

this is what i ask myself, would i be with this guy if i didnt have people to worry about?? friends, family etc. if yes then i give it a shot, if i totally cannot even when it's just me N him in china. then he gotz to go

lol..... u knw i do generally like this guy but not LIKE LIKE... if u get ma drift.... well hes shorter then me hes 5'5 am 5'8 he's stick thin and i aint also the 1 thing i ask 4 in a guy is that he has 2 have srtaight pretty teeth and a banging smile but unfortunately he doesnt come with those acessories

[rich-boy]

i mean whats the 1 issue he has that u dont like?? is he short, does he have bad teeth?? depends on what his flaw is.....

from the way ur talkin it seems like u like him, but dont want to let urself like him because he doesn't quite click

this is what i ask myself, would i be with this guy if i didnt have people to worry about?? friends, family etc. if yes then i give it a shot, if i totally cannot even when it's just me N him in china. then he gotz to go

lol..... u knw i do generally like this guy but not LIKE LIKE... if u get ma drift.... well hes shorter then me hes 5'5 am 5'8 he's stick thin and i aint also the 1 thing i ask 4 in a guy is that he has 2 have srtaight pretty teeth and a banging smile but unfortunately he doesnt come with those acessories

hahaha he`s shorter then u its a midget then lol

[ShArEeFa*x*]

i mean whats the 1 issue he has that u dont like?? is he short, does he have bad teeth?? depends on what his flaw is.....

from the way ur talkin it seems like u like him, but dont want to let urself like him because he doesn't quite click

this is what i ask myself, would i be with this guy if i didnt have people to worry about?? friends, family etc. if yes then i give it a shot, if i totally cannot even when it's just me N him in china. then he gotz to go

lol..... u knw i do generally like this guy but not LIKE LIKE... if u get ma drift.... well hes shorter then me hes 5'5 am 5'8 he's stick thin and i aint also the 1 thing i ask 4 in a guy is that he has 2 have srtaight pretty teeth and a banging smile but unfortunately he doesnt come with those acessories

hahaha he`s shorter then u its a midget then lol

Now now lets not be Hastyyy 5'5 is short but MIDGET ur pushin the boat there son........

[miss_sweets]

Love is blind, thats all I can say..!!

don't get me started on short guys

[suga_n_spice]

OMG 5'5??
anigana waxaan ka cararaa 5'9/5'10 dang!
good luck sis. that i cannot help u with. especially with BAD teeth. no way. ka allah magan