The days of sticking up for random ones is over as there is no loyalty walalhi I use to think better of them.
Back in the day you would stick up for a random one in the street etc where ever.
You dont see other nationalities of chicks/women bad mouthing their men like some do I know there is some bad useless somali men/boys but trash attracts trash other nationalities women dont generalise.
When somali men choose to be with a ajnabi they dont bad mouth thier women the somali women do why? as these same ajnabis they trust stab them in the back and tell us how bitter they are and laugh at them. Like the ajnabi can actually do us something.
They embarrassed us weey naceebeyeen magaceey somaliga. Thats why i dont take many seriously.
I know not all are like this but many sadly today telling the dirty laundry and secrets/siir of somali men.
You dont see pakistani/arab/ethiopian/english/jamaican doing that.
So we dont need to protect them and stick up for them no more as some dont show gratitude and are rude kibirleys so only family one and wifey should be looked out for as many are not loyal and worth it.
So its just best to see them as strangers as many have low self-esteem. I ant generalising but its just what I have seen with many.
The day they show their loyalty again is the day i STICK UP FOR THEM SIMPLE.
Actually majority are not like that thankfully 80% are not but few low self esteem useless 1s . But they funny
...i doubt inad xitaa qaan gaadhay marka inan yahow bal sheekadan xagaad ka maqashay no sheeg 
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worry about your family don't mind the rest mayn
