when i told my parents, they were like great. NOW what qabiil is he. im like he's from East London. thats all i know. they asked me to found out he's qabiil. i did and told them. they werent impressed. i mean they were like
no no no not in a million year you wont marry him. and i asked them why. they said men from he's qabiil are know to beat their wife and abuse. they have no respect for women and treat them like $hit. i was scared for a minute. havent spoken to him for a few days, because of ramadhan and that. but what am i going to do? HELP. 
