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Do Somali mothers contribute to their children's

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trauma?

I don't know how it happened, but I just remembered some of the habaars our old women used to say to their kids were so cold, it made them look like heartless old hags who did not even mothered the kids they were raising. No question about their unconditional love for their kids, but did they understand what long term scarring effects their habaar and threats would have on the child?

Some of the worst I used to hear............on girls

Jufan oo awdan
Xanjo lagaaga dhaji
Balaayo cirka kaa soo ridday
Alla ku soo qabay
Dhulku kula go'
Alla ku qaad
Qandho fil daran qaad
Dhuunta lagu goo idam Alle
Ha dhalin oo ha dhiiqin
Lagu soo qabay idam Alle

Threats

Aabahay ima dhalin haddaad caawa noolaato
Kabsid kabsid dhalay baan ahay haddanan ku gawricin
Waad arki doontaa haddaanan cad cad kuu jarjarin


What psychological effect would these curses and threats have on a young delicate mind?
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Most children don't know the meaning of them habaar's. So i doubt it'd effect their minds.
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Sir-Luggoyo wrote: Jufan oo awdan
Xanjo lagaaga dhaji
Balaayo cirka kaa soo ridday
Alla ku soo qabay
Dhulku kula go'
Alla ku qaad
Qandho fil daran qaad
Dhuunta lagu goo idam Alle
Ha dhalin oo ha dhiiqin
Lagu soo qabay idam Alle

Threats

Aabahay ima dhalin haddaad caawa noolaato
Kabsid kabsid dhalay baan ahay haddanan ku gawricin
Waad arki doontaa haddaanan cad cad kuu jarjarin
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Sir-Luggoyo wrote:trauma?

I don't know how it happened, but I just remembered some of the habaars our old women used to say to their kids were so cold, it made them look like heartless old hags who did not even mothered the kids they were raising. No question about their unconditional love for their kids, but did they understand what long term scarring effects their habaar and threats would have on the child?

Some of the worst I used to hear............on girls

Jufan oo awdan
Xanjo lagaaga dhaji
Balaayo cirka kaa soo ridday
Alla ku soo qabay
Dhulku kula go'
Alla ku qaad
Qandho fil daran qaad
Dhuunta lagu goo idam Alle
Ha dhalin oo ha dhiiqin
Lagu soo qabay idam Alle

Threats

Aabahay ima dhalin haddaad caawa noolaato
Kabsid kabsid dhalay baan ahay haddanan ku gawricin
Waad arki doontaa haddaanan cad cad kuu jarjarin


What psychological effect would these curses and threats have on a young delicate mind?

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

they do in a way, because whather the kids understand the curse or not, it does affect them becuase sometimes it might come true. but mothers when they angry they feel like they have no choice.
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I don't think they understood what they were saying. They got from their moms and just continued that stupid unislamic tradition. some of those habaars must have been answered judging by all the extremely large number of inkaarqabes in the somali population.
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Some of today's mothers are worse..esp some single moms I have seen throughout..it makes the old moms sound like priests.

Cursing their kids with : Aabaha iyo khaniski ku dhalay, wecelyow wecelku dhalay and certain caays I cant even mention.

Waa nation baaba'ay iy umad ilahay inkartisa ku dhacday somalida..
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Cawar wrote:Some of today's mothers are worse..esp some single moms I have seen throughout..it makes the old moms sound like priests.

Cursing their kids with : Aabaha iyo khaniski ku dhalay, wecelyow wecelku dhalay and certain caays I cant even mention.

Waa nation baaba'ay iy umad ilahay inkartisa ku dhacday somalida..
Acuudka! that is just crazy :shock: :shock:
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Cawar wrote:Some of today's mothers are worse..esp some single moms I have seen throughout..it makes the old moms sound like priests.

Cursing their kids with : Aabaha iyo khaniski ku dhalay, wecelyow wecelku dhalay and certain caays I cant even mention.

Waa nation baaba'ay iy umad ilahay inkartisa ku dhacday somalida..
Allah Maxaad meel lagu jabay jaqala weyned?
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Garoob gaad lee habaaar maqla :down:


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Costa__ wrote:Garoob gaad lee habaaar maqla :down:
Adiga ma maqashid? Paltalk qof galo oo garoob waalan la kulmeen maba jiree, that focking place was like made for nutty garoobs. :lol:
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QansaGabeyle wrote:
Adiga ma maqashid? Paltalk qof galo oo garoob waalan la kulmeen maba jiree, that focking place was like made for nutty garoobs. :lol:
I stopped going to that shit but where i live is full of Somalis and 85% of the women are all GAROOBS
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Costa__ wrote:
QansaGabeyle wrote:
Adiga ma maqashid? Paltalk qof galo oo garoob waalan la kulmeen maba jiree, that focking place was like made for nutty garoobs. :lol:
I stopped going to that shit but where i live is full of Somalis and 85% of the women are all GAROOBS
They almost all exclusively login from the Scandinavian countries, UK and Canada. Welfare nations produce super low class somalis. :lol:
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[quote="Sir-Luggoyo"]trauma?



Jufan oo awdan
Xanjo lagaaga dhaji
Balaayo cirka kaa soo ridday
Alla ku soo qabay
Dhulku kula go'
Alla ku qaad
Qandho fil daran qaad
Dhuunta lagu goo idam Alle
Ha dhalin oo ha dhiiqin
Lagu soo qabay idam Alle

Threats

Aabahay ima dhalin haddaad caawa noolaato
Kabsid kabsid dhalay baan ahay haddanan ku gawricin
Waad arki doontaa haddaanan cad cad kuu jarjarin


Accudu bilahi.... hooyaday waligeed nama habaarin. But I cant imagine any mother uttering those things to her kids.
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Sir-Luggoyo wrote:
Threats

Aabahay ima dhalin haddaad caawa noolaato
Kabsid kabsid dhalay baan ahay haddanan ku gawricin
Waad arki doontaa haddaanan cad cad kuu jarjarin
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[quote="QansaGabeyle"]I don't think they understood what they were saying. They got from their moms and just continued that stupid unislamic tradition. s .[/quote]



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