Do Somali mothers contribute to their children's
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- Sir-Luggoyo
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Do Somali mothers contribute to their children's
trauma?
I don't know how it happened, but I just remembered some of the habaars our old women used to say to their kids were so cold, it made them look like heartless old hags who did not even mothered the kids they were raising. No question about their unconditional love for their kids, but did they understand what long term scarring effects their habaar and threats would have on the child?
Some of the worst I used to hear............on girls
Jufan oo awdan
Xanjo lagaaga dhaji
Balaayo cirka kaa soo ridday
Alla ku soo qabay
Dhulku kula go'
Alla ku qaad
Qandho fil daran qaad
Dhuunta lagu goo idam Alle
Ha dhalin oo ha dhiiqin
Lagu soo qabay idam Alle
Threats
Aabahay ima dhalin haddaad caawa noolaato
Kabsid kabsid dhalay baan ahay haddanan ku gawricin
Waad arki doontaa haddaanan cad cad kuu jarjarin
What psychological effect would these curses and threats have on a young delicate mind?
I don't know how it happened, but I just remembered some of the habaars our old women used to say to their kids were so cold, it made them look like heartless old hags who did not even mothered the kids they were raising. No question about their unconditional love for their kids, but did they understand what long term scarring effects their habaar and threats would have on the child?
Some of the worst I used to hear............on girls
Jufan oo awdan
Xanjo lagaaga dhaji
Balaayo cirka kaa soo ridday
Alla ku soo qabay
Dhulku kula go'
Alla ku qaad
Qandho fil daran qaad
Dhuunta lagu goo idam Alle
Ha dhalin oo ha dhiiqin
Lagu soo qabay idam Alle
Threats
Aabahay ima dhalin haddaad caawa noolaato
Kabsid kabsid dhalay baan ahay haddanan ku gawricin
Waad arki doontaa haddaanan cad cad kuu jarjarin
What psychological effect would these curses and threats have on a young delicate mind?
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Re: Do Somali mothers contribute to their children's
Most children don't know the meaning of them habaar's. So i doubt it'd effect their minds.
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Re: Do Somali mothers contribute to their children's
Sir-Luggoyo wrote: Jufan oo awdan
Xanjo lagaaga dhaji
Balaayo cirka kaa soo ridday
Alla ku soo qabay
Dhulku kula go'
Alla ku qaad
Qandho fil daran qaad
Dhuunta lagu goo idam Alle
Ha dhalin oo ha dhiiqin
Lagu soo qabay idam Alle
Threats
Aabahay ima dhalin haddaad caawa noolaato
Kabsid kabsid dhalay baan ahay haddanan ku gawricin
Waad arki doontaa haddaanan cad cad kuu jarjarin






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Re: Do Somali mothers contribute to their children's
Sir-Luggoyo wrote:trauma?
I don't know how it happened, but I just remembered some of the habaars our old women used to say to their kids were so cold, it made them look like heartless old hags who did not even mothered the kids they were raising. No question about their unconditional love for their kids, but did they understand what long term scarring effects their habaar and threats would have on the child?
Some of the worst I used to hear............on girls
Jufan oo awdan
Xanjo lagaaga dhaji
Balaayo cirka kaa soo ridday
Alla ku soo qabay
Dhulku kula go'
Alla ku qaad
Qandho fil daran qaad
Dhuunta lagu goo idam Alle
Ha dhalin oo ha dhiiqin
Lagu soo qabay idam Alle
Threats
Aabahay ima dhalin haddaad caawa noolaato
Kabsid kabsid dhalay baan ahay haddanan ku gawricin
Waad arki doontaa haddaanan cad cad kuu jarjarin
What psychological effect would these curses and threats have on a young delicate mind?






they do in a way, because whather the kids understand the curse or not, it does affect them becuase sometimes it might come true. but mothers when they angry they feel like they have no choice.
- QansaGabeyle
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Re: Do Somali mothers contribute to their children's
I don't think they understood what they were saying. They got from their moms and just continued that stupid unislamic tradition. some of those habaars must have been answered judging by all the extremely large number of inkaarqabes in the somali population.
Re: Do Somali mothers contribute to their children's
Some of today's mothers are worse..esp some single moms I have seen throughout..it makes the old moms sound like priests.
Cursing their kids with : Aabaha iyo khaniski ku dhalay, wecelyow wecelku dhalay and certain caays I cant even mention.
Waa nation baaba'ay iy umad ilahay inkartisa ku dhacday somalida..
Cursing their kids with : Aabaha iyo khaniski ku dhalay, wecelyow wecelku dhalay and certain caays I cant even mention.
Waa nation baaba'ay iy umad ilahay inkartisa ku dhacday somalida..
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Re: Do Somali mothers contribute to their children's
Acuudka! that is just crazyCawar wrote:Some of today's mothers are worse..esp some single moms I have seen throughout..it makes the old moms sound like priests.
Cursing their kids with : Aabaha iyo khaniski ku dhalay, wecelyow wecelku dhalay and certain caays I cant even mention.
Waa nation baaba'ay iy umad ilahay inkartisa ku dhacday somalida..


Re: Do Somali mothers contribute to their children's
Allah Maxaad meel lagu jabay jaqala weyned?Cawar wrote:Some of today's mothers are worse..esp some single moms I have seen throughout..it makes the old moms sound like priests.
Cursing their kids with : Aabaha iyo khaniski ku dhalay, wecelyow wecelku dhalay and certain caays I cant even mention.
Waa nation baaba'ay iy umad ilahay inkartisa ku dhacday somalida..
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Re: Do Somali mothers contribute to their children's
Garoob gaad lee habaaar maqla
aduunkaba ilma dadoow ADEER//ABTI i dhahaan ugu necbahay

aduunkaba ilma dadoow ADEER//ABTI i dhahaan ugu necbahay
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Re: Do Somali mothers contribute to their children's
Adiga ma maqashid? Paltalk qof galo oo garoob waalan la kulmeen maba jiree, that focking place was like made for nutty garoobs.Costa__ wrote:Garoob gaad lee habaaar maqla![]()

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Re: Do Somali mothers contribute to their children's
I stopped going to that shit but where i live is full of Somalis and 85% of the women are all GAROOBSQansaGabeyle wrote:
Adiga ma maqashid? Paltalk qof galo oo garoob waalan la kulmeen maba jiree, that focking place was like made for nutty garoobs.
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Re: Do Somali mothers contribute to their children's
They almost all exclusively login from the Scandinavian countries, UK and Canada. Welfare nations produce super low class somalis.Costa__ wrote:I stopped going to that shit but where i live is full of Somalis and 85% of the women are all GAROOBSQansaGabeyle wrote:
Adiga ma maqashid? Paltalk qof galo oo garoob waalan la kulmeen maba jiree, that focking place was like made for nutty garoobs.

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Re: Do Somali mothers contribute to their children's
[quote="Sir-Luggoyo"]trauma?
Jufan oo awdan
Xanjo lagaaga dhaji
Balaayo cirka kaa soo ridday
Alla ku soo qabay
Dhulku kula go'
Alla ku qaad
Qandho fil daran qaad
Dhuunta lagu goo idam Alle
Ha dhalin oo ha dhiiqin
Lagu soo qabay idam Alle
Threats
Aabahay ima dhalin haddaad caawa noolaato
Kabsid kabsid dhalay baan ahay haddanan ku gawricin
Waad arki doontaa haddaanan cad cad kuu jarjarin
Accudu bilahi.... hooyaday waligeed nama habaarin. But I cant imagine any mother uttering those things to her kids.
Jufan oo awdan
Xanjo lagaaga dhaji
Balaayo cirka kaa soo ridday
Alla ku soo qabay
Dhulku kula go'
Alla ku qaad
Qandho fil daran qaad
Dhuunta lagu goo idam Alle
Ha dhalin oo ha dhiiqin
Lagu soo qabay idam Alle
Threats
Aabahay ima dhalin haddaad caawa noolaato
Kabsid kabsid dhalay baan ahay haddanan ku gawricin
Waad arki doontaa haddaanan cad cad kuu jarjarin
Accudu bilahi.... hooyaday waligeed nama habaarin. But I cant imagine any mother uttering those things to her kids.
Re: Do Somali mothers contribute to their children's
Sir-Luggoyo wrote:
Threats
Aabahay ima dhalin haddaad caawa noolaato
Kabsid kabsid dhalay baan ahay haddanan ku gawricin
Waad arki doontaa haddaanan cad cad kuu jarjarin


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Re: Do Somali mothers contribute to their children's
[quote="QansaGabeyle"]I don't think they understood what they were saying. They got from their moms and just continued that stupid unislamic tradition. s .[/quote]






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