anniversary

[zulaika]

i hear celebrating birthdays are xaram, but what about wedding anniversaries? i have asked some wadaads about this and i got mixed messages. some said it was ok, some said no, while others were on the fence.

personally i don't think there's anything wrong with it...and i don't necessarily think its gaalo dhaqan. acknowledging the day you got married and celebrating it with your spouse is a wonderful idea.

[S_lander-boy]

As far as I know it's not Xaram , Last week ago my parents where celebrating their 30 years of Marriage my father bought my Mother Dahab and adar from dubai and took her to a Fancy restaurant.

[AyanTu]

Wedding Anniversaries i guess depends on the ppl. I knew this couple that celebrated their mothly, that shid is accessive. I don't think there is nothing wrong with Celebrating the day you got married.

[sheekh-Farax-zero]

all anniversarys are GAALO culture, so you should not have to do it yourself

[ms.nalia]

You Go Girl!

[HELWAA]

As long you celebrat it behind closed doors i dont see anything wrong with it..just make sure no one disturbs you all night...all the phones are off ..just you and him and just remember ur wedding night and all the action that happend that night...the ooh and aaaah

[AyanTu]

^^^^

[The_Emperior5]

i remember that like i did a test drive before the marraige intanan mehersan

[S_lander-boy]

HELWAA,



you Looking foreword to that "special night" just don't loose sleep over it you feisty old bird I suggest you get married pronto

[FAH1223]

my parents had their 20th two months ago, =\

[American Salafi]

Here is the shaikh Uthymeen respond to the question.

Question: What is the ruling regarding celebrating children's birthdays or marriage anniversaries?

Response: There are no (legislated) celebrations in Islaam except the day of Jumu'ah which is the 'Eed of the week, and the first day of Shawwaal is the day of 'Eed al-Fitr and the tenth day of Dhul-Hijjah is the day of 'Eed al-Adhaa. And often the day of 'Arafah is called 'Eed for the people of 'Arafah (the ones performing Hajj) and the days of Tashreeq (11th, 12th and 13th of Dhul-Hijjah) are also the days of 'Eed following on from 'Eed al-Adhaa.

As for birthdays of people or children or marriage anniversaries and the like, then all of these have not been legislated and are an innovation.

Shaykh Ibn 'Uthaymeen

[AbuShabab]

i hear celebrating birthdays are xaram, but what about wedding anniversaries? i have asked some wadaads about this and i got mixed messages. some said it was ok, some said no, while others were on the fence.

personally i don't think there's anything wrong with it...and i don't necessarily think its gaalo dhaqan. acknowledging the day you got married and celebrating it with your spouse is a wonderful idea.

What's the benefit of holding a wedding anniversary?

[HELWAA]

HELWAA,



you Looking foreword to that "special night" just don't loose sleep over it you feisty old bird I suggest you get married pronto

yariisow afka ha ila soo galin eedo...dadka kaa waawayn waa laga xishooda...taa maaney hooyada ku barin

[S_lander-boy]

Helwa,



This is a public forum, anything you say especially "sexually" indirectly or directly can be use against you especially if you are a self proclaimed "wadaadad" didn't you mother teach you to act like a lady ?

[HELWAA]

Eedo threadkan zuleekha ayaa iska leh sidaads daradeed ma rabo inaan af lagaado mesha ka bilaalbo...marka all i can say waa salaam.