Stinging during arguments

[black velvet]

There was a group email going round about this weekend and what we should do and let's just say some people who don't get along publicly said some things to each other.

Now su'aal when you are arguing with someone who has out witted you or annoyed/hurt you (regardless of how much you love/hate them) are you aware of yourself and what you're saying? Do you purposefully try to inflict as much pain as possible ama warka woo kaa so faktaa?

I am a scorpio and I'm supposed to be all stingy lakin walahi I couldn't bring myself to speak to someone the way that guy was spoken to.

[Gifted]

No, I don't ever loose it. If something looks as if it's getting a bit too much I just leave. Especially if it's someone I care about, you don't want to end up saying something you'd regret later on.

[sheekh-Farax-zero]

Black
Just wait for your moment and strike the right time

[zulaika]

in arguments...i never loose my cool...but love to see the other person totally fall apart so i push all the right buttons.

[SummerRain]

Ani miskeen aa ahay. war qof kuma ba so cilin karo.

[Cawar]

Never argue with a fool, as ppl might not know the difference.. is my motto..

But we are humans and we are bound to lose our cool, calm and collected-ness ..sometimes. Just dont make a habit out of it.

[black velvet]

Why do I believe Gifted and not so much Ismahan?

Sheekh zeero - Wow premeditated and all...

Zuli - I can't decide if that is better or worse that the other person


Cawar - How is it possible that you actually made sense ??

[Madd_Scientist_]

i don't get angry often, i rarely loose my cool...but boy when i do, there's no-one who can stop me

[LaQaNyO]

I believe i can manipulate an argument to my favour... all i do is just walk away to be honest and it doesn't get to me at all!
However, if it is someone i care about i just try and reason and beenta ma fiicna.. so barigi hore my definition of reasoning would be lashing out at someone That has changed now... i learned its best to give yourself some time to digest so you can be rationale about situations.
Laakiin in this particular scenario i don't think i could add something on top of all the criticism unless i was really irritated but even then i would word it nicely
Runta wax ka fiican ma jiro!

[Cawar]

You are wlc...Dhuxuleey.

[Hyperactive]

in arguments...i never loose my cool...but love to see the other person totally fall apart so i push all the right buttons.

lol tan hasidsana.

i do the same minus pushing the right buttons.
qofka hadal ka wan ka guraa, untill ay ka nafasan or make fool out of themselves.

[Diyeeshaha_Tolka]

Ani miskeen aa ahay. war qof kuma ba so cilin karo.

yea right ,adiga iyo miskiinad ,,waxaad isku jirtaan cirka iyo dhulka

[zulaika]

in arguments...i never loose my cool...but love to see the other person totally fall apart so i push all the right buttons.

lol tan hasidsana.

i do the same minus pushing the right buttons.
qofka hadal ka wan ka guraa, untill ay ka nafasan or make fool out of themselves.

yeah let em' talk..remember it's not about the quantity of words..but quality and caliber of few chosen words that go right to the point of target.....not saying much is also part of pushing the right buttons...when muran is not reciprocated it goes back to the muranle...causing them to self-destruct.

[black velvet]

You are wlc...Dhuxuleey.

The best nick I have ever had, thank you

[SummerRain]

Ani miskeen aa ahay. war qof kuma ba so cilin karo.

yea right ,adiga iyo miskiinad ,,waxaad isku jirtaan cirka iyo dhulka

Aboowe barasho wacaan, waxaa umalayna we had one negative encounter resulting you to have this view about me. But I'm as miskeen as they come.

BV,

WHY?