Would the Sins of the Father

[AbdiWahab252]

affect the children.

I am really torn because I am so into this woman but her Aabe is a warlord. I don't want my kids to become fucked up because their Awowe is an evil man.

So folks, what do you think ?

[SummerRain]

Ina adeer,

Bal waran?

Ma wali ina Qeyrdiid ba warkayda wada?

[sheekh-Farax-zero]

[AbdiWahab252]

Ismahan,

Nabad abayo, waan iska fiican ahay. Tan kale, Odeeygi AbdiNasteex wa nin aad uu fiican oo Rer Dhagaxley shaaqoyin badan uu heeley lakiin dadka Dhagaxley wa umaad aamal laheyn.

[SummerRain]

haye, xalwada gorma la gaybina?

[Somaliman50]

maya, dunuubtu lama dhaxlo saxib. ilahay tacaala wuxuu yiri ''walaa taziruu waaziratan wizra ukhra'. marka dambigaas ilahay ayuu qofkaas keliya la xisaabtamaya.

[zulaika]

affect the children.

I don't want my kids to become fucked up because their Awowe is an evil man.

have u ever thought about the kids being "hers" too..and not just yours...because given what you said up there...its too bad she can't make that choice..because her kids will always have that "awowe" regardless of who her baby daddy is.

anywho.. if you feeling this girl..and she feels the same way about you..i don't see what's the big deal, she's not guilty of what her father did huuno..for God sakes love/hate her for who she is..

guilt by association is so uncool

[Warsan_Star_Muslimah]

Salaam

@ Abdiwahab, sorry for laughing but the scenario is funny.

I don't think they will, just make sure you keep up with what your kids are taught.

[Sir-Luggoyo]

AW,

Stay away from her. Blood is thicker than water and whatever genes grandpa has, will definetely ooze to grandkids, either via mom or pops. Plus the stigma of wedding a warlord's daughter..............................yr kids will curse u for being their reason of existence, granted that they will know grandpa was a ruthless warlord soaked in blood.

[AbdiWahab252]

Zulaika,

My late Awowe (AUN) was a very wiseman who would always warn of the dangers of marrying into a family of criminals because they would produce offspring with criminal tendencies. He was very firm in this view and would rather marry outside the clan than marry into the camel stealing kinsfolk.

Warsan,

But what about the criminal DNA potential ? Or the eye of the victims of the Awowe ?

I can look back at my familial tree and can not notice a criminal or violent thug at all.

Sir Luggoyo,

Indeed but I can't help it cuz I am drawn to her.

[Shirib]

Qeybdiids daughter is harmless, go for it

[Navy9]

affect the children.

I am really torn because I am so into this woman but her Aabe is a warlord. I don't want my kids to become fucked up because their Awowe is an evil man.

So folks, what do you think ?

Walaalo, pray istikhara and ask Allah to guide you to what is good for you. Insha-Allah, if you find that you are inclined to marrying her, tawakil on Allah and marry her.

[Hyperactive]

meel hun lagama goorsado.
plus marriage is always between two families in islam not only between two.
so your in laws like it or not they will be part of your family.

i understand we dont choose our parents or siblings but definately we can choose where to marry from.

though aniga naagta hooyadeed ban ad ogu firsada. hoyadeed bal aad isaga eeg.
hadey islan fi'an tahay o odeygeeda o roon or not.

[kambuli]

LOL@Mel Hun

Sorry Eeddo, I have to laugh..

[HELWAA]

Wiig kasta naag bad jeclaata....grow up and get married Abdiwahab!!!!