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ilmaha baariga u ah waaridkood=rookies at relationships, inexperienced while caasi or ilmaha aan waaridkood ku dhaweeyn=experienced, successful relationships.

to what extent should parents dictate the love life of their children?

come again pls

I see no correlation between the two Suga. Sorry!

Suga,

You mean the relationship between baari/waalid and caasi iyo waalid?

oh yes there is.

kids who are obedient to their parents tend to listen more and put the interest of their parents ahead of theirs, which then causes them to go out of their way to please them rather then themselves.

haa K. micnaha ilamaha waalikood u dhaga nugul waxee waaridkood ugu taliyaan bee maqlaan

I don’t think anyone oo waaridkiisa caasi ku ah inuu successful ahaanaayo very long, I didn’t fully understood your point walaalo.

mahdi01 wrote:I don’t think anyone oo waaridkiisa caasi ku ah inuu successful ahaanaayo very long, I didn’t fully understood your point walaalo.

Also if he/she is caasi, their kids will be too

djibsomali wrote:come again pls

Innit....mixii ku hadlaysa qofku

try to understand me then mahdiyoo.

micnaha caasi waa 'maqal la'aan' inta badan soo ma aha?

ok maybe i said it wrong, but let me try to explain.

tusaale, wiil waxaa jira aan aqaan. waa wiil waridkiis abaal weeyn u haya, lakiin balaayo wuxuu ku dhigay maalin kasta gabar eysan is fahmeyn bee u keenaan oo marna kuma dhaho "hooyo aabo anaa gabar keensanaya" wiilkii heer waxuu taagan yahay uu 'unhappy' yahay

nayaa ka darag, weelkii ma xashay?

btw, kala saara caasinimada

Okey, I get it now, I think you mean girls that are obedient to their parents have hard time of choosing the right men in their life, thus out of respect for their parents they avoid relationships and end up being ignorant about men, if it is that what you meant then boys are totally different, and I agree with you that

Waa maxey ninka weyn ee maalin walba gabdhaha loo keenayo miyuusan isagu mid raadsan karin

bal adba

gabadh waa la gartay. lakiin nin rag ah oo marba dhinac loo jeedinayo. kaaga daranka, isagaa laga arkay oo isugu wacan, waayo haduu isku kalsoonaan lahaa saas looma galeen. waxaa iigu daran, waa reer caabud ma waxee kula tahay nin hada saa loo wadwado inuu hadhoow reerkiisa si fiican u dhaqan karo? mindhaa hadii ee ku dhahaan fur wuu furi lahaa

caasi waalideen nimo
baari nimo

yhhhhhhh waan xalay ages ago

I think he is too sweet and his mother is very possessive, some parents are like that way, they fear outside world will exploit their children, but I have nothing against arrange marriages as long as is not involved very close cousins and you have the power to say no if you think the other one is not your type.