common goal 4 the common man: a xalimo guide 2 farax success

[zulaika]

every man want's success, but not every man is successful. reasons for is that ambition is overrated and hard work underserved...and much of this is due to the unrealistic expectations women have of their men... too often xalimos expect and demand too much from their faraxs when he is simply a common man after a common goal..PROVIDE FOR HIS FAMILY...instead of nagging and asking for more, she should let him do this by the smallest measure and encourage it.

if a woman wants her man to succeed, demanding this won't work...a man is a creature of adaptation...a little comfort goes a long way in conformity(to her will)

my advice for the day.

[black velvet]

Makes sense; if you are with a common man expect him to be common.

[FAH1223]

http://forums.projectcovo.com/showthread.php?t=2019031

[AbdiWahab252]

Z,

I am back on the market. I have realized that I was looking for all the wrong things in a Xalimo: education, ambition, career etc. instead of the fundamentals: good looks, good housekeeping skills & traditional family values.

With the new criteria, my fishing area has increased from a pond into a sea. May Allah guide me to the right one.

As for your question, everything should be on the fundamentals and seeking unrealistic goals. Say Alhamdullilah for the small daily blessings because someone else doesn't have it and would kill have what you have.

[MALMAHA]

every man want's success, but not every man is successful. reasons for is that ambition is overrated and hard work underserved...and much of this is due to the unrealistic expectations women have of their men... too often xalimos expect and demand too much from their faraxs when he is simply a common man after a common goal..PROVIDE FOR HIS FAMILY...instead of nagging and asking for more, she should let him do this by the smallest measure and encourage it.

if a woman wants her man to succeed, demanding this won't work...a man is a creature of adaptation...a little comfort goes a long way in conformity(to her will)

my advice for the day.

you would think this chick hase got brains?

[black velvet]

http://forums.projectcovo.com/showthread.php?t=2019031

I think that only applies to people who've never had money and are overwhelmed by the attention. Stop confirming my negative perceptions either way

[zulaika]

Z,

I am back on the market. I have realized that I was looking for all the wrong things in a Xalimo: education, ambition, career etc. instead of the fundamentals: good looks, good housekeeping skills & traditional family values.

With the new criteria, my fishing area has increased from a pond into a sea. May Allah guide me to the right one.

As for your question, everything should be on the fundamentals and seeking unrealistic goals. Say Alhamdullilah for the small daily blessings because someone else doesn't have it and would kill have what you have.

abdi,

back on the market eh...where u ever off the market horta?.. haye good luck this time, i'm sure you'll be more successful with your new approach.

ps, education should be among the right things you should look for in a xalimo...she is your children's keeper after all.

[AbdiWahab252]

Zulaika,

Sadly, I even bought an engagement ring and was about to pop the question before she focked it up for the 'nth time It was the last straw.

Anywayz, as long as a Xalimo got a high school diploma, I am good to go.

[zulaika]

oo ma engagement ring baad soo iibisey? maxaa kuu geeye howlahaas marka horeba. been busy with pretend xalimoz i see. nonetheless...sorry to hear about that.

[AbdiWahab252]

Zulaika,

I set a self imposed deadline of tying the knot by end of 2009. I got 4 months left.

[FAH1223]

http://forums.projectcovo.com/showthread.php?t=2019031

I think that only applies to people who've never had money and are overwhelmed by the attention. Stop confirming my negative perceptions either way

you're too naive

[zulaika]

abdi,

lool@ 4 months left.

what's the rush bisinka. take it easy huuno. don't rush to get married...trust me u will regret it ....waxii raaga kheyr baa jidha.

[HELWAA]

every man want's success, but not every man is successful. reasons for is that ambition is overrated and hard work underserved...and much of this is due to the unrealistic expectations women have of their men... too often xalimos expect and demand too much from their faraxs when he is simply a common man after a common goal..PROVIDE FOR HIS FAMILY...instead of nagging and asking for more, she should let him do this by the smallest measure and encourage it.

if a woman wants her man to succeed, demanding this won't work...a man is a creature of adaptation...a little comfort goes a long way in conformity(to her will)

my advice for the day.

Demand to much? what if the guy doesnt know what is best for him and hang out with the wrong crowd and he doesnt want to take any advice from u...and as understanding xalimo you always been patient...never complained to ur family...always been there for him.

Horta aduunkan maxaa qof kasta oo wanaagsan qof xun ku soo hagaajiya?

Waa cajiib walle

[Executive]

Helwa

Ninkaagi xaq bu ku layaahaay but he is not your slave, If he fulfills his duties than thats the problem?

If there is something wrong with your partner than there is a great likehood that theres something wrong with you. I don't buy that most decent people end up with qof xun.

A lot of these women complaining about their husband behaviour or habits such as qaad are women who have told the government boyfriend ayaa ciyaalka iga dhalaay so that they could get more benefits. I'm not saying everyone does it, its just something that is very common.

What I'm trying to say is qof wanaagsan iyo qof xun ma isku soo adaan cause they can't live together.

[AbdiWahab252]

Z,

Its a personal goal plus I am getting major grief from the fam. Its either pick or they make the choice.