Family Dumping all their Problems On you

[hanad_mn]

Suppose you are trying to care for your family back in africa but Since you seem to Care so much for them, Now they dump all their problems on you. You try to solve all their problems till you have unimaginable dayn on you everywhere but they still keep asking for more and more. If you change your phone and call it enough, are you a bad person?

[grandpakhalif]

just do what my dad does "IM NOT A BANK" *hangup*

[General Duke]

Suppose you are trying to care for your family back in africa but Since you seem to Care so much for them, Now they dump all their problems on you. You try to solve all their problems till you have unimaginable dayn on you everywhere but they still keep asking for more and more. If you change your phone and call it enough, are you a bad person?

No, you aren't. My advise is to help them start a small business, so that they become self-sufficient.

[hanad_mn]

just do what my dad does "IM NOT A BANK" *hangup*

sxb once you become so caring, they dump all their problems on you.

[hanad_mn]

Suppose you are trying to care for your family back in africa but Since you seem to Care so much for them, Now they dump all their problems on you. You try to solve all their problems till you have unimaginable dayn on you everywhere but they still keep asking for more and more. If you change your phone and call it enough, are you a bad person?

No, you aren't. My advise is to help them start a small business, so that they become self-sufficient.

sxb that is the problem. They don't live in the same place. they live east and west. I can't afford 10 business.

[General Duke]

sxb that is the problem. They don't live in the same place. they live east and west. I can't afford 10 business.

You can force them to live in on place if they want your help. Living together in one place is common sense, an environmentally friendly concept, plus it's encouraged by Islam. With the state of worldwide recession, you won't be able to support even a few of them. Before things get worse, devise and study a working plan.