How to make you wife happy?

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How to make your wife happy
Are all women the same
Secret of a happy marriage

There will be times within a marriage when most men will wonder what they have to do to make their wife happy. As all women are different it is not an easy question to answer. Women are complex and there will be times that they will be irritable or depressed for no apparent reason. They will often not know the answer themselves. However, like men most women have certain traits and those are the issues we will cover here. Remember that we are talking in general terms and only over the first 50 years of your marriage will you get to understand her. After that, life will be less complicated.

I suppose the real secret to a successful marriage is to keep the days when you were dating before you got married. Don't lose sight of the things you did and said that gave her so much pleasure before you started married life. Most men's main aim in life was to make their future wife the happiest girl in the world. The problems often arise and why so many marriages end in divorce is because happiness is replaced by contentment and whilst contentment is not necessarily boredom it is boring.

Nowadays, although women are similar to man in many ways, they are also very different physically. They may have careers, enjoy a drink and a laugh, like to watch sport and have a number of shared interests with their husbands but women are still the only sex that can bear children and there are times in the month and during pregnancy that their hormones will be out of kilter and chemical unbalances will cause all kinds of mood swings.

During these periods you will need a great deal of patience, understanding, consideration and care. There will be times when you will go home wondering who will actually meet you at the door. The important thing to remember is that she is the same person you fell in love with and married and she deserves your love and understanding at all times. Some women suffer from premenstrual tension more than others, some women become highly sexed just before their period, and others directly afterwards, some will not want physical contact during their period and others need to be cuddled.

[img]It%20is%20a%20good%20idea%20to%20keep%20a%20diary%20of%20when%20your%20wife's%20period%20is%20due[/img], look for the signs and get a good understanding of her mood swings and how she best reacts to your behaviour during these times. It is during these times that you need to be especially attentive.

[img]During%20pregnancy,%20some%20women%20become%20highly%20sexed[/img]. Once the baby is born, it is more likely that she will lose interest in sex. There are numerous reasons for this. She will be more than normally tired, she will not be happy with how her figure looks, her hormones will be imbalanced, her uterus will have changed and need time to recover and she may also suffer from postnatal depression. You need to keep an eye out for the signs of postnatal depression as she is likely to be the last person to realise that she is suffering from this horrible affliction.

You therefore need to be mindful of your unofficial wedding vows. "I will stand by you no matter what happens throughout the rest of my life. I will love you more each day, come what may, I will support you when you need me, I will love you because of your faults and not despite of them, I will forgive you when you hurt me, I will never knowingly do anything to hurt you, I will consider your every needs, I will face every problem beside you and wherever possible take those problems away and I will ask for nothing in return except your love and to know you are happy, because all I want and need in life is to spend the rest of my life with you."

The most important thing is to tell her and demonstrate your love for her at all times leaving no doubt in her mind how important she is to you. In fact this is something you should be doing throughout your married life. It is important to understand that just telling her that you love her will not be enough. You need to show your love by demonstrating how much you care. Little things like bringing her a cup of tea, clearing up after dinner, hanging the washing out are almost always enough for most women. Occasional small gifts like her favourite perfume, picking some flowers from the garden or stopping off from work to get her a CD or favourite treat will show your thoughtfulness more than any expensive gift.

Giving her a cuddle without expecting it to lead to sex, listening to and hearing what she says, reminding her of happy moments you have shared and remembering her birthday and wedding anniversary are all important. Above all, make sure the last thing she hears before falling asleep are the words "I love you."

Taking her for a walk or drive so that you have time out for each other, packing an unexpected picnic, complimenting her on her hair, a dress, noticing new shoes, staying by her side at parties and telling her how proud you are of her will all give her the reassurance that she needs.

Try and avoid any arguments, you are not going to win, no matter how rational you may feel your side of the argument is. If you are in the wrong put your hands up and apologise. Arguments within marriages can be like wars; no winners, just degrees of losing and you only end up hurting the person you love most in the world. If things get heated back down and if the issue is important, wait and raise it again when things have cooled to a point that you can discuss and debate the matter.

Above all, never ever so much as raise your hand to your wife. Hitting her may not kill her but it will your relationship stone dead. No apology in the world will remove the emotional scars from her mind. Real men do not hit women, no matter how much they may feel they were provoked. There are never any excuses and any man that strikes his wife deserves to lose her for good.

There maybe times when you will feel pressurised to go into debt to provide the things you feel your wife deserves. The pleasure of receiving expensive gifts is short lived compared to the tears and heartache that debt causes in a marriage. Debt ravages many marriages and more arguments are caused by debt problems than anything else. Your wife married you for better or worse and any wife that puts her husband under pressure to provide the things he cannot afford doesn't deserve those things or him.

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You have a lifetime to get to know your wife and you won't always get it right. None of us do. Over the years your relationship will develop and you should treat every day as if it is more important than the last. Successful marriages are the relationships where both partners are prepared to make sacrifices for their partner, where everything they do is for the person they love, whether it is going out to work, cooking a meal, ironing a shirt or paying the mortgage. Successful marriages are about selfless acts that provide pleasures large and small and as often as possible. At the end of the day, loving her without conditions is the best way for any husband to keep his wife happy?

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