Why do some Somali men refuse to Divorce Their Wives

[AbdiWahab252]

I am deeply puzzled why some Somali men refuse to divorce their wives even after she asks for it on multiple times.

Whats the logic behind denying her a divorce ?

[Executive]

I don't get that either? If my wife said divorce me I would do it straight away.

But in most cases somali women regret asking for a divorce and would want to get back with their husbands.

[BlackVelvet]

Depends though apparently some women ask for a divorce after every fight so I can see the logic in not divorcing her then. Lakin if she doesnt want him even when they're not fighting then he's probably just sick and sees it as punishing the woman by stopping her from getting on with her life. That is pathetic.

[Addoow]

I Never understood that either,I have Zero tolerance towards such thing.If my wife comes to me and asks for divorce ,I would simply gave her papers and settle with a younger one.Life is too short for such drama.Laakin some times you have losers whose life revolves around chewing Qaad 24/7 ,these guys have no time for their families.Thier wives are taken care by real non-chewing studs while they eat at the marfish.

[military-mind]

I Never understood that either,I have Zero tolerance towards such thing.If my wife comes to me and asks for divorce ,I would simply gave her papers and settle with a younger one.Life is too short for such drama.Laakin some times you have losers whose life revolves around chewing Qaad 24/7 ,these guys have no time for their families.Thier wives are taken care by real non-chewing studs while they eat at the marfish.

Adeer, you sound like a rusty xalimo

leave the qaat alone.. tanak you

I am deeply puzzled why some Somali men refuse to divorce their wives even after she asks for it on multiple times.

Whats the logic behind denying her a divorce ?

Bekos some naago like BV Said waa very cry baby

[gedo_gurl]

- They cant afford to lose the main breadwinner
- They are xaasids who know they can get married, but she cant until divorce is finalised
- They believe in marriage and working things out

One of these three answers

[Addoow]

Adeer, you sound like a rusty xalimo

leave the qaat alone.. tanak you

Lol@Rusty xalimo...

I hate Qaad with passion.

[Advo]

because naturally she doesnt know what goods for her.

No one knows the xaliimo brain more than a real farax (those that haven't been pussified).

[sexy-kitten]

It doesn't sit well with the wife's family and they will get involved. Its best to divorce in a peaceful way without doing it the hard way, that's where the "khasab ku fur" comes in the picture. God bless the Somali odeyaal lol.

[abdisamad3]

I know this somali guy..his wife wanted diforce..but he refused they brought every odey in city and he still refused to diforce her.
Today they are still married they become good friends after a while hada 2 mise 3 cunug buu ka dhalay..
sometimes the women dont know what they want.

[military-mind]

Adeer, you sound like a rusty xalimo

leave the qaat alone.. tanak you

Lol@Rusty xalimo...

I hate Qaad with passion.

waar waa maxay exactly do you hate about qaad?

is it the taste, the way it looks, the kaacsi that it gives, the way it gets you mirqaan or what it does to daadka?

dont hate the qaad hate the abuser

[kambuli]

Duh Because a loser wants someone to take care of him 24/7...Why would anyone divorce his income, his maid in every way

[qoraxeey]

divorce comes easy from I'm from

[AbdiWahab252]

Walle, I'd love to catch this guy in Somalia or Kenya. I'd have him locked up and beaten into submission.

[kambuli]

Qorraxey,

And where is that ?