
Visiting Men...
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Visiting Men...
What if your wife to be was a closet feminist? Then you found out too late? 

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Re: Visiting Men...
I don't think I would have an issue with it. I never liked sub-servient, meek women to begin with, so its fine if she's one to express herself.
As long as she remembers to respect the sanctity of marriage and shows civility in her dealings with me.
Never understood men who fear them like they are mutants from another galaxy.
As long as she remembers to respect the sanctity of marriage and shows civility in her dealings with me.
Never understood men who fear them like they are mutants from another galaxy.

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Re: Visiting Men...
All women are headaches
Living in the west I think completely changes the fabric of the "Somali culture". Men we no longer live in a culture where women have specific defined roles like cooking, cleaning, watching the children, giving us messages. Each and every marriage has to now define they're own specific roles whether they be based on gender or cultural or religious beliefs. From what I know in Shafaci madhab the wife doesn't have to cook for you and do household work.
So I think that feminist women shouldn't be too extreme in demanding from their husbands difficult things of him that may take him years to get use to, and men shouldn't expect a servant that you can have sexual relations with. Personally, for me it depends on the women and how good she is to me, and hopefully if she is a stubborn one I hope I have the patience to wait many years for her to come around and make me a happy man. In the end each will desire to please the other hopefully. And if shit turns out to be less than idealistic its WAR!!!

Living in the west I think completely changes the fabric of the "Somali culture". Men we no longer live in a culture where women have specific defined roles like cooking, cleaning, watching the children, giving us messages. Each and every marriage has to now define they're own specific roles whether they be based on gender or cultural or religious beliefs. From what I know in Shafaci madhab the wife doesn't have to cook for you and do household work.
So I think that feminist women shouldn't be too extreme in demanding from their husbands difficult things of him that may take him years to get use to, and men shouldn't expect a servant that you can have sexual relations with. Personally, for me it depends on the women and how good she is to me, and hopefully if she is a stubborn one I hope I have the patience to wait many years for her to come around and make me a happy man. In the end each will desire to please the other hopefully. And if shit turns out to be less than idealistic its WAR!!!
Re: Visiting Men...
Me and 'feminist' women don't mix. There has to be one macawis and one dirac. if theres two of one, meesha foodo baa ka dhacaayo
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Re: Visiting Men...
What does foodo mean? It sounds like food.Murax wrote:Me and 'feminist' women don't mix. There has to be one macawis and one dirac. if theres two of one, meesha foodo baa ka dhacaayo

I don't see any reason whatsoever for a Muslim woman to be a feminist. Unless, she's fighting for her God given rights..but ummmm..that would still make her a...MUSLIMAH!
Re: Visiting Men...
Firefly wrote:What does foodo mean? It sounds like food.Murax wrote:Me and 'feminist' women don't mix. There has to be one macawis and one dirac. if theres two of one, meesha foodo baa ka dhacaayo![]()
I don't see any reason whatsoever for a Muslim woman to be a feminist. Unless, she's fighting for her God given rights..but ummmm..that would still make her a...MUSLIMAH!
lool, foodo=chaos abaayo
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Re: Visiting Men...
Thanks aboowe.
Somalia waa foodo badan, ilahay ha uu gargaaro. Ameen!

Somalia waa foodo badan, ilahay ha uu gargaaro. Ameen!

Re: Visiting Men...
Firefly wrote:Thanks aboowe.![]()
Somalia waa foodo badan, ilahay ha uu gargaaro. Ameen!



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Re: Visiting Men...

War hooy, stop qosolkaan! Yeaah, it's 'cause you're a good macalin.

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Re: Visiting Men...
GG what do you reckon it means to be a feminist these days especially here in the West? There is a lot to admire in the past struggles lakin in all honestly mal mahaan the word feminist seems to have such negative connotations, mind you for men it probably always has 

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Re: Visiting Men...
why are you asking us this question in here ? lol, wait... i see what is going on, this is a premeditated ambush. disclosing my views in here will start of a well prepared lethal pilow offensive that was planned to finaly exterminate the last few Nayaa-ist on this forum.
LMAO, what an EPIC FAIL, loooooooooooooooooooool.
LMAO, what an EPIC FAIL, loooooooooooooooooooool.
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