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they said, "single guy dies before the married one",,, now I wonder if getting married is better for single people
especially guys. Ladies can live single , that's why there are more single mothers lately ...

I don't think there's paradise in married life obviously there is more work and stress in married life. You get laid that's about it and deal with
family matters constantly. Single life there's more freedom and less worry, if pay cheque didn't come through
for the month. I guess it's all come down to one thing, does getting married bring happiness ?

Allah said it does. 50% of our duty within islam is to marry and maintain it. It is cure to all mischiefs.

By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher...and that is a good thing for any man.

2ndtoNone wrote:By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher...and that is a good thing for any man.

single life is ma plan for da next 10 yrs

2ndtoNone wrote:By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher...and that is a good thing for any man.

I reckon you would have given Socrates a run for his money!

single life sucks....yeah you may have more freedom, less headache and responsibilitis but once you're about to become 30 and still living the same life, having the same rutins it will be boring.

HELWAA wrote:single life sucks....yeah you may have more freedom, less headache and responsibilitis but once you're about to become 30 and still living the same life, having the same rutins it will be boring.

Grandpa

What's funny about my post?

HELWAA wrote:Grandpa

What's funny about my post?

seems like your speaking from experience

Helwaa,

Boring yes, but then what drama is worse than a miserable spouse, annoying kids and a government that has courts known to chop off a man's balls.

I'd rather be single than married to an awful woman.

Grandpa

That post has nothing to do with my life huuno , was just speaking in general.Many forumers here paint a beautiful pic when they are talking about single life and they're hiding the ugly truth.



Abdiwahab

It takes 2 tango.Who said marriage is easy, if you marry the right person and dont let ur marriage die i doubt it become miserable.Most men think after the wedding the're done with runing after their wife if they only knew REAL LIFE start after marriage.Marriage is just like a garden if you dont take care of it, it will die.

HELWAA wrote:Marriage is just like a garden if you dont take care of it, it will die.

Gardens need watering. OOOooh! Mutual showers? Saucy Helwaa.

Paddington Bear wrote:

HELWAA wrote:Marriage is just like a garden if you dont take care of it, it will die.

Gardens need watering. OOOooh! Mutual showers? Saucy Helwaa.

saqajaan

Balance between care free life, travelling, only caring about yourself to being married and completing half your deen, excersing energy in a halal way and also starting a family.