What motivates you to get married?
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What motivates you to get married?
And those of you who are already married, what motivated you to get married?
Inspired by Murax's thread, also curious lol
A-To have a family
B-I found the one
C-family pressure
D-Tired of being alone
Inspired by Murax's thread, also curious lol
A-To have a family
B-I found the one
C-family pressure
D-Tired of being alone
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Re: What motivates you to get married?
None of the above;
Lust, peer/family pressure
Lust, peer/family pressure
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Re: What motivates you to get married?
When I get bored with single life and get my stuff together. Hada single life is where it's at. I'm not bored yet! 

Re: What motivates you to get married?
Structure, responsibility, completing my deen. Those are just some ..
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Re: What motivates you to get married?
To bring more hutus on this planet and avoiding zina 

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Re: What motivates you to get married?
To Complete my religion
Leave my name so it will not be forgotten after I meet my maker
Leave my name so it will not be forgotten after I meet my maker
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Re: What motivates you to get married?
Come on Garaad and GrandpaKahlif; surely there was lust! and hormonal urges.
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Re: What motivates you to get married?
Just to remove myself from temptation and problems I face almost daily if you know what I mean.
No family pressure and no need or want to have kids.
Honestly Walahi I love my care free life, go out when I went, do what I want, buy anything I want, my cash is stacking (alhamdulilah), I enjoy being alone and having space sometimes, Spend 70% of my day in an open office with people all around me and like to just chill out by myself. Plus I have a nice routine in life that involves, work, friends, gym, football and generally bashal lol. Laakin this lifestyle cannot be maintained without commiting sins therefore that and the Islamic aspect motivates me to get married.
No family pressure and no need or want to have kids.
Honestly Walahi I love my care free life, go out when I went, do what I want, buy anything I want, my cash is stacking (alhamdulilah), I enjoy being alone and having space sometimes, Spend 70% of my day in an open office with people all around me and like to just chill out by myself. Plus I have a nice routine in life that involves, work, friends, gym, football and generally bashal lol. Laakin this lifestyle cannot be maintained without commiting sins therefore that and the Islamic aspect motivates me to get married.
Re: What motivates you to get married?
For the sake of true love only!
Waking up next to man a love, alaa mashallah
Waking up next to man a love, alaa mashallah
Re: What motivates you to get married?
*Nobleman* wrote:Just to remove myself from temptation and problems I face almost daily if you know what I mean.
No family pressure and no need or want to have kids.
Honestly Walahi I love my care free life, go out when I went, do what I want, buy anything I want, my cash is stacking (alhamdulilah), I enjoy being alone and having space sometimes, Spend 70% of my day in an open office with people all around me and like to just chill out by myself. Plus I have a nice routine in life that involves, work, friends, gym, football and generally bashal lol. Laakin this lifestyle cannot be maintained without commiting sins therefore that and the Islamic aspect motivates me to get married.
Stay single!
You love ur life..maxaa wareer isugu ridi.

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Re: What motivates you to get married?
The problem is this lifestyle only leads to one thing, hence why the prophet PBUH and all the ulemas urge young men to get married.HELWAA wrote:*Nobleman* wrote:Just to remove myself from temptation and problems I face almost daily if you know what I mean.
No family pressure and no need or want to have kids.
Honestly Walahi I love my care free life, go out when I went, do what I want, buy anything I want, my cash is stacking (alhamdulilah), I enjoy being alone and having space sometimes, Spend 70% of my day in an open office with people all around me and like to just chill out by myself. Plus I have a nice routine in life that involves, work, friends, gym, football and generally bashal lol. Laakin this lifestyle cannot be maintained without commiting sins therefore that and the Islamic aspect motivates me to get married.
Stay single!
You love ur life..maxaa wareer isugu ridi.
Re: What motivates you to get married?
As long you fear Allah you can control urself, what if you get married and she nevr give any space and talk talk nevr ending chitchat.Dadka buuqa ka helin sidaada oo kale dhiig kar ba ku dhaca.You're still young waxba guur ha ku degdegin hadadan diyaar o aheen. 

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Re: What motivates you to get married?
Curiosity if I am honest. Try it out for a while, see how it goes.
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