Question To The Guys....

[Advo]

Say financial wise u seen better days and some girl ur either close to or talking to offers you money and I dont mean pocket change, as a man would you feel comfortable accepting it or is ur ego too big?

[Voltage]

Pride vs. Pragmatism. Interesting.

Although I would say the pragmatic thing to do is accept the money, generally being indebted to someone is a form of slavery and being accountable to another person. You are not a free person so I would say refuse the money. The last thing you want to do is have a girlfriend have that type of power and authority over you.

[Alchemist]

Tough question Sxb. If you really need it and are 100% sure you can pay it back take it. If you can do without than don't.

[Advo]

Yup, exactly my feelings

[ToughGong]

some girl ur either close to or talking to

Well which is it,are you and this girl close or just one notch above nodding terms
If you're close I don't see what the issue is.If it's the latter, hell no!

[Cumar-Labasuul]

as a man i need to be the breadwinner and as such i couldn't take this money from her

[ciyaal_warta]

Pride vs. Pragmatism. Interesting.

Although I would say the pragmatic thing to do is accept the money, generally being indebted to someone is a form of slavery and being accountable to another person. You are not a free person so I would say refuse the money. The last thing you want to do is have a girlfriend have that type of power and authority over you.

co-signed

don't take it unless u are in need of it and u can return the money within limited time bro

[uglybrother]

Depends on how bad I need it and whether ay iyada kamaaranto.

[Twist]

Advo, brother-man, hooyo waad ka timid, eedooyin & habaryaro markay ku arkaan ayey wado kale ka sii leexdaan, hadana ma hablihii qaraabada ahaa ayaa kaa baxsan la'?

Wallee waxaad soo wadid iyo webiga yaa wayn!

[The_Emperior5]

if i did had really bad Maybe, as long as she didn't tell any one i would also want something i can blackmail her with if she decided to tell People , perhaps A sex tape with her exBoyfriend or something.

[Advo]

Lol@ Twist War ninyahow situation oo xogaa adag baan madax lagaley, ayaamahaan oo dhan I as making moves here and there. Alxamdulilah for hooyo iyo eedooyin for their much needed help but hada afaare kale baan gacan kula jiraa. Thanks to all the people the replied I will obviously turn down the offer and wait a little while because I can make few or more grands next week thanks to new connection I got from london

Emperor, LOL @ sextape....I could never do that and best believe she will tell and put the business out there

[Awe]

I'd take that cause if you don't another nigga will.

edit: if shes ur soon to be wife then id rather drop dead.

[DisplacedDiraac]

I know the question is to guys.. But I'm still ganna reply..

Dont do it.. The only females you should ever accept money from should be very close relatives.. Like your mother and sisters!!

If you accept her money this female will never look @ you the same.. Waliba if you dont pay it back when she wants you to.. marka its all over for you

[greenday]

If the girl is cool take it, deen eaa deen from a guy or a girl its never a nice thing or feeling but if you must her being a women makes no difference walahi. This idea that women are power hungry and would use it against u waa been, what is she going to say waryaa i gave u money now wash my kastuumo? No.

[BlackVelvet]

Only take it if you are tight platonic friends.