Dating Stories

[WiglessBidaar]

The shapely babe down whose knickers you had slipped a finger haunts your memory. Who doesn't have a story? Time was when I dated a budding young painter gifted with artistic flourish for a number of years on and off. But mostly on because I figured that like much else in our technological society it doesn't work if it's off. The sweet young lovely was nine months pregnant with talent.

Very queer she was too. The woman could not bear the sensation of her own heartbeat for she said it was like waiting for a clock to stop ticking. The lass had a great dread of eerily quiet places so we couldn't hit the museum, the bookstore or the library.

A year later she dropped me because I kicked her out of bed in my sleep. An accident to be sure, but she was none the wiser for it and I made no great effort to clear the air. Letters came my way periodically threatening to out me as a woman-beating bushman, but I was quick to remind Her Excellency of Oscar Wilde's quip: Better damned than ignored.

Is it true that women seek borderline abusive men? Share your dating mishaps.

[Voltage]

Let me understand what you wrote there. You kicked her out of bed while unconscious and because of that she left you. Subsequently you failed to apologize for the accident, which she was not aware was one, and which resulted in her sending you abusive threatening letters. Were the letters blackmail designed to draw you back to her and is it because of that you reached the conclusion women like borderline abusive men? If not that sounds like conjecture. Maybe she just really disliked you after that incident and wanted to get back at you in a vindictive sort of way which would negate your statement that women like abusive men.

[WiglessBidaar]

Bal eega askarigaan su'alka badaan. I left out much that drew us apart like any short vignette does. I begin from where we parted company. Not from where the relationship began to falter.

The fault line was her choice of profession. Out of her painter's canvas exploded an arresting burst of colour and texture from whose mad, swirling dance of energy radiated a zest for life. But like all specimens of the bohemian life she could not ever land a regular commission or have the pains of her labour showcased in a fancy upscale venue. This took its strain on the amorous entanglement.

[GeoDesic]

WiglessBidaar


I think some girls do like abusive men or the dangerous kind who live on the edge. The key attraction for them as expressed by these women is "I can save him and turn him into a good man" hopes they have. Alas, it fails often and they end up broken to pieces both body and heart. Good guys finish last has some truth to it though there are girls for them too who love the less troublesome kind of men.

[WiglessBidaar]

Geo, are you saying that you've never been able to land a young lovely because you are too much of a skirt-clutching little wimp? Brave confession. Nothing to marvel at really. When you're dressed in a flowing gown that looks a black nightie what do you expect my friend?

So the reason why ladies go after the rough diamonds is because of the missionary impulse to make the spirits of men anew I see. I've always known that converting a woman of ill-fame into a saint has been a staple of literature, but when did the tables turn?

[WiglessBidaar]

Xasgi Cigaal,

You are not fetched by the sight of winsome babes with a chestful of jiggly things and hips that sway like a drunken driver? I'm worried about your mental health my kindred.

[WiglessBidaar]

Were the letters blackmail designed to draw you back to her and is it because of that you reached the conclusion women like borderline abusive men?

My question springs from the observation that long before our financial woes she wanted me to beat her with a whip. Not playfully. But with vigour. Her nature was so constructed that she took a masochistic pleasure in violence. As noted, she was quite the strange mammal. I played along as far as I could, but her pain threshold I soon found to my consternation was north of God. She combined the most sensitive and fragile soul with the uttermost depths of kink. I had to bail out of there or die from cardiac arrest at the youthful age of sixty four.

[GeoDesic]

Geo, are you saying that you've never been able to land a young lovely because you are too much of a skirt-clutching little wimp? Brave confession. Nothing to marvel at really. When you're dressed in a flowing gown that looks a black nightie what do you expect my friend?

So the reason why ladies go after the rough diamonds is because of the missionary impulse to make the spirits of men anew I see. I've always known that converting a woman of ill-fame into a saint has been a staple of literature, but when did the tables turn?

Come on, I can't make confessions, that is a no no. Secondly, what sort of man brags about his luck with women? way back in my youthful inexperience, I might have thought to list accomplishments, but nowadays, I see it as inviting problems If I can convicne FOUR to crown me as their KING, that is just more than perfect, that is all I need saxib.


yea, females easily get bored lately, so the bad guy adds some adrenaline to their life.

[Voltage]

I stopped reading at "shapely babe".
Your first sentence is supposed to grab ppls attention....

His writing is actually superb which is one of the things that leads me to believe he is really not as old as he paints himself but rather just a really good writer who can take on multiple voices.

[WiglessBidaar]

Come on, I can't make confessions, that is a no no. Secondly, what sort of man brags about his luck with women? way back in my youthful inexperience, I might have thought to list accomplishments, but nowadays, I see it as inviting problems If I can convicne FOUR to crown me as their KING, that is just more than perfect, that is all I need saxib.


yea, females easily get bored lately, so the bad guy adds some adrenaline to their life.

Four women is not enough waraa. Why do you think a Mujahid gets a cosmic brothel of 70 plus ladies of joy? It's because no man with a sense of dignity wants to pound the same hole year in and year out. Variety is the spice of life. Who said that?

In a just world the concept of marriage would be dynamited completely and abolished. Wedlock is the fate of the innumerate man. At the bottom of the whole scheme is the curious notion that in order to bed one lovely you must promise never to bed ten others. For this we should propose? Bosh!

Had men paid closer attention in math class they might not have been so laughably swindled.

I will tell you how the fraud of marriage entered the world. For a thousand years the gentle sex toiled under the oppressive shadow of man and, forced to strike a vigorous blow against her tyranny, began quietly hatching a grand master plan to bring down the patriarch. On the side of the gender with the hairy chest was the law, the customs and the creed of the land, but on the side of the fairer sex lay the faculty cultivated for so long a time of stupendous cunning.

Patiently as the mind of her superior was dulled by long centuries of brutish reliance on force, on she went plotting, scheming, hatching till up sprang the concept of marriage. It was genius. Like all great plans simple but far-reaching. It contrived to seduce men into thinking that to secure a single woman’s amorous favours he would need to swear off the attention of all the rest of the village women. And so began the eternal fraud on the eternal dunce.

[Voltage]

Were the letters blackmail designed to draw you back to her and is it because of that you reached the conclusion women like borderline abusive men?

My question springs from the observation that long before our financial woes she wanted me to beat her with a whip. Not playfully. But with vigour. Her nature was so constructed the she took a masochistic pleasure in violence. As noted, she was quite the strange mammal. I played along as far as I could, but her pain threshold I soon found to my consternation was north of God. She combined the most sensitive and fragile soul with the uttermost depths of kink. I had to bail out of there or die from cardiac arrest at the youthful age of sixty four.

I see. Forgive me for mentioning but the lady you described sounds like rare phenomenon, an outlier if I may be blunt. She may certainly have enjoyed such limitless pleasures in the indulgence of submission to pain but this could be explained by a number of reasons some of which I am apt not to mention in this particular time. Still, you have provided no evidence that makes her case prevalent and certainly not to the point whereby you could derive the authority to make such a sweeping indictment on whether women like or dislike "borderline abusive men". However, if you would have questioned why this particular woman likes borderline abusive men then I suppose we could have a really interesting discussion based on theoretical analysis.

[Richfarax]

I stopped reading at "shapely babe".
Your first sentence is supposed to grab ppls attention....

I whole heartily agree, this individual has a fantastic way with words and I always admire individuals who have a unique way with words. However Wigless seems to be quite arrogant which is a dangerous characteristic, which I believe has lead him to a path of being irreligious, for lack of a better word. I enjoy is writing but the subject matter is not best to hear, but as to quote a famous saying; we must give the devil his dues.
~Rich Analysis

[WiglessBidaar]

Voltage ,

Why cast doubt on my age you brute? I will chat with you on Skype if you want. You can shake your fat booty for me.

On the question of masochist women, I was not advancing an academic thesis. Just anecdotal stories about the women I've shared a bed with. But since you've never enjoyed the privilege, how would you know?

[WiglessBidaar]

I whole heartily agree, this individual has a fantastic way with words and I always admire individuals who have a unique way with words. However Wigless seems to be quite arrogant which is a dangerous characteristic, which I believe has lead him to a path of being irreligious, for lack of a better word. I enjoy is writing but the subject matter is not best to hear, but as to quote a famous saying; we must give the devil his dues.
~Rich Analysis

Steady now, what have I said to earn the impression of arrogance? I'm just a delicate flower. I don't even beat my wife any more. Is that what I'm doing wrong? Trouble is, my significant other treats me autocratically. And my kids trample me daily underfoot. Is there any hope of regaining the upper matrimonial hand?

[Voltage]

Fortunately I am not of the homosexual orientation so I kindly decline your offer. As for the nature of my personal history, it is irrelevant to why I engaged the topic. I merely responded in order to make you see the need to fix the holes in your story but I see you wish to suspend that need in favor of advancing a red herring. Be as it may, I will be on my merry way now.