Single Mothers are the least fortunate In USA

[caburiye1]

In Somalia, It was not such big deal if a girl is divorced. In America, The Only decent suiters single mothers ever get are low life opportunists somalis who just do not want to pay rent or do not want to take responsibility. All they are thinking is , she is a single mom therefore cheap. Even though this kind of hostile environment would detour women from asking for divorces, You can understand what it means like a girl to leave the guy who married her when she was young and virgin who used to hold her with such high standard and ending up being treated like a second choice girl.

I have couple of single mom relatives and it is really hurt breaking to see the proposals that they get. One of them told me, Nin tuur leh ayaa ishukaansaday maalin dhawd." and when she showed no interest, he told her, he thought of helping her since he has seen how she is suffering raising 3 children by herself. The Only smart ones are the ones that go to the masjid everyday and end up getting a religious husband. Still, He would be one with couple of xaas or a single father himself. still baby moma drama starts.

What do you think?

[BanadirBeauty]

I think it has always has been this way in the somali community. Single mothers aren't appreciation because the intellectual and respected men don't see them as potential housewives but the reason their husbands left them. Its sad but every men wants to raise his own kids instead of raising a kid that will leave them tomorrow.

[arabmtu]

What do you think?

I think the causes and factors that contribute to single motherhood should be studied. With the study, solutions would be suggested, and future couples would be better informed so to avoid divorce.

[Nabeela]

Single mothers, should focus on raising their children and forget about Men.

[arabmtu]

Single mothers, should focus on raising their children and forget about Men.

Children need a father or father figure. Without a father, a child would develop a host of psychological ills and not grow up normal.

[Nabeela]

Except we don't know that genius. Aniga koleey ilmohegaa baan kursan lahaa, intaan nin dabo ordi laha.

[Lamagoodle]

Single mothers-ka duceeysan waxaay aadan wadamadda WEELFEYERKA leh, kuwa habaarana USA ama Talyaaniga.

There is a positive relationship between welfare provisions and single mother frequency.

[arabmtu]

63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (US Dept. Of Health/Census) – 5 times the average.
90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes – 32 times the average.
85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Center for Disease Control)
80% of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes --14 times the average. (Justice & Behavior, Vol 14, p. 403-26)
71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (National Principals Association Report)
75% of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes – 10 times the average. (Rainbows for All God’s Children)
70% of youths in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (U.S. Dept. of Justice, Sept. 1988)
85% of all youths in prison come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Fulton Co. Georgia, Texas Dept. of Correction)

[Nabeela]

Haye, how would they know the substitute father will be a suitable father and husband? SMH.

[caburiye1]

Haye, how would they know the substitute father will be a suitable father and husband? SMH.

Nabeela,

I think the single mothers are humans and they have sexual desires like other women. Some of them are divorced as young as 23 years old. Unfortunately, Most of the boys repel away once they see their mother with another man. The boys feel jealousy and does not want to associate with the step father. believe me it is so hard in the west for gabdhaha lafuray oo caruurta leh. For some reason, they were ok in Somalia. Maybe because the kids used to remain with their fathers and the girl had another chance to look for another husband. There was also ayeeyo, habaryar, abti which the children could live with.

[Advo]

almost all khaniisiin come from fatherless homes, they grow up knowing only their famine side.

[abgaalKING]

almost all khaniisiin come from fatherless homes, they grow up knowing only their famine side.

feminine side.how arent you one of these garoob hunters?

[Advo]

almost all khaniisiin come from fatherless homes, they grow up knowing only their famine side.

feminine side.how arent you one of these garoob hunters?

You have the wrong person.

[abgaalKING]

almost all khaniisiin come from fatherless homes, they grow up knowing only their famine side.

feminine side.how arent you one of these garoob hunters?

You have the wrong person.

dont try to deny the fact man.

[barakaboy10]

Except we don't know that genius. Aniga koleey ilmohegaa baan kursan lahaa, intaan nin dabo ordi laha.

how would you satisfy your natural needs then?

or you mean, after you kids have grown up, then you start looking for a man? and by then, you will be like....what? 60?

i don't know. i am just confused!!! may be you can help me out.