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Guys,

I consider you guys My Friends and Family. I know Most of you are Muslims and Allah Knows whose Pray would be accepted. I have been married Since 2009 and Was not blessed with a baby. I am Planning to let My Wife go In May this year if I don't hit the target. The Problem is Me ( Male Infertility) so I don't want to waste her time for more than 4yrs. I Love my wife so much but I have no choice. So Pray for me so that Allah bless me with a healthy and salih baby.

I am asking for genuine Prayers and That is why I am telling you My private Secret. There would be no Insult or disrespect in this topic. Its like being in a mosque and a brother asks for prayer.

Jzk.

Ilahey ilmo hakusiiyo haduu qeyr kugu jiro and look in to adoption maybe ilaheey woxo kugu talagalay cunug already dhibato heysato inaa korisid.

greenday wrote:Ilahey ilmo hakusiiyo haduu qeyr kugu jiro and look in to adoption maybe ilaheey woxo kugu talagalay cunug already dhibato heysato inaa korisid.

Aamiin. Jzk.

I don't think you can find a somali baby without a family. Even Somali Orphans have eedo, ayeeyo, awoowe. If you adopt today, The family would come after you in months.

did your wife ask for a divorce?

They dont have to be Somali, you cam make them Somali, think of this hadii ee iyada dhibka ahalaa naag kale mala aroosi laheed? if yes then iska fur hadii kale ask her what she wants to do, i had awoowe who never had children and him and his wife lived together alone and happy intee ka dhinteen so haka walwalin too much.

gemini07 wrote:did your wife ask for a divorce?

I was asking for Prayers walaal not an Interview.

thanks,

Why don't you consider to be a foster family? There're lots of Somali kids at the hands of gaalo. It also comes with a nice financial compensation

i'm just saying, if your wife hasn't asked for a divorce than maybe she doesn't want to get divorced. your infertility is not an issue to her so stop stressing out. if it happens, it happens.

greenday wrote:They dont have to be Somali, you cam make them Somali, think of this hadii ee iyada dhibka ahalaa naag kale mala aroosi laheed? if yes then iska fur hadii kale ask her what she wants to do, i had awoowe who never had children and him and his wife lived together alone and happy intee ka dhinteen so haka walwalin too much.

one of the few times i agree i with greenday.

gemini07 wrote:i'm just saying, if your wife hasn't asked for a divorce than maybe she doesn't want to get divorced. your infertility is not an issue to her so stop stressing out. if it happens, it happens.

greenday wrote:They dont have to be Somali, you cam make them Somali, think of this hadii ee iyada dhibka ahalaa naag kale mala aroosi laheed? if yes then iska fur hadii kale ask her what she wants to do, i had awoowe who never had children and him and his wife lived together alone and happy intee ka dhinteen so haka walwalin too much.

one of the few times i agree i with greenday.

How come No one is praying for me. People are only advising me. I thought I asked for Prayers. Subxaanallaah.

caburiye1 wrote:How come No one is praying for me. People are only advising me. I thought I asked for Prayers. Subxaanallaah.

because you're being selfish. you care more about your own ego than you do your wife.

First, may Allah give you shifaa & pious children & make your marriage a blessed one.

Secondly, as some sisters mentioned above, if the infertility lies with you & your current wife is happy to stay with you then I don't think it's a good idea to rush into letting her go. Imagine if you find either a cure through modern medicine, or by Allah's will you become OK after you divorced her how do you feel? Until you exhaust all the other possible options don't take the ultimate step, brother.

And everything is in the Almighty's hand by the end of the day so khair Insha Allah.

When I read your name I was thinking "balaayo haku caburiso" but when I read the topic I felt so saaaaaaaaaaaaaaad!!


All jokes aside, your problem is normal. Allah baby hakuu sahlo but hadaadan helin baby it's not gonna be the end of the world. It's not like you're suffering from some terminal disease. You're not a vegitable, Alhamdulilaah dheh you're healthy. I understand you want to leave your own seed in this earth when you leave but u know, SHIT HAPPENS. If you can't produce kids ma khasbi kartid. Like our co-forumers said, look into adoption. I'm sure you've always wanted to adopt a little Cambodian boy and teach him Somali.

Hope I wasn't too tough!

Huuno Ilaahay sidii khayrku kuugu jiro hakuu sahlo. Maaha sidii aad adigu jeceshahay ee waa sida khayrku kuugu jiro. Taasna Allaah keliya ayaa og. Markaa Ilaahay sida khayrka ah hakuu sahlo

Have you considered cuckolding?