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For those of us who have been back home, how was the experience of stepping off the plane for the first time?

START OF MY JOURNEY

The first time I went back was 2004 (16 years after I left), I refused to go with the family the previous year thinking it would be awful, but after they described it I couldn't wait to go the next year.
Anyway, so we (my mother and younger brother) set off for the airport in the summer of '04 we flew with Daallo to Dubai - we planned to spend 2 days there - and then on to Hargeisa via Djibouti. The flight from London to Dubai was your average flight decent enough jet which they leased from another company, however the flight from Dubai to Djibouti was....er an 'experience'. We flew on an old Russian Antonov An-24* (late 50s early 60s :lol: ) aircraft, where most of the seats were either broken or didn't have seat belts maybe only a handful had seatbelts. The flight lasted about 4-5 hours but due to the bad conditions (random jolts due to turbulence) it seemed longer.

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SHORT STOP OVER IN THE FURNACE

We arrived at Djibout Ambouli airport very early in the morning (8am local time), I immediately noticed the searing heat. We all rushed into the terminal building which had some sort of air con. The building was small, however the landside area of the airport was quite large. The staff quickly directed us onto the next flight which was due to leave very soon - only those heading to hargeisa were to board this flight, all other destinations had to wait for the next one. Oh and I noticed they sold alchohol in the airport :?

We boarded the plane and waited for the old engines to start up, meanwhile we were being roasted in 50°C/122°F temperatures and the annoyed russian flight crew gave out bottles of water to us. There was a white dude on board, I tried to imagine how hot he must have felt if we did - maybe hell lol.

BACK IN THE MOTHERLAND

After another bumpy flight we reached hargeisa 45mins later. I noticed from the sky how dry and vast the land was. This was it I had landed back in the place were I fled 16 years ago, I didn't remember anything from this place and yet the inner bushman in me felt familiar with it. As soon as I stepped out of the aircraft, a strange smell filled my nostrils (along with face full of dust :) ). This strange smell smelt like I was on a farm, like the goat droppings.
As I surveyed the vast emptiness of the landscape I was ushered into the building and relocated with my baggage. Inside the building was very loud, you had 10 or so men shouting on the top of their lungs I couldn't decipher what they were saying. As soon as I payed my entrance fee ($20) we grabbed our luggage and located our escort (a friend of a family member from london). We then made our way out of the building and what I saw startled me: I had seen a long fence surrounding the building with a large group of people (50 or so) on the other side shouting - it looked like a zoo with caged animals, whereas the reality was those were the locals trying to call out their arriving relatives :lol:

Our escort drove us to a nearby hotel (star) to spend a couple of days there just to get some rest before meeting the family. My mother insisted we did this because she found out a year before it was unwise to let the family know you were coming beforehand - imagine being jetlagged and all the extended family turn up to see you (or in real terms: to get their entitled $$)...........

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I left in the late 80's and went back for the first (and last) time in July 1997. The trip was nothing special, I was sick the entire way…We went on KLM to Amsterdam for a short stop and then to Dubai. A random thing I remember from that flight was the bee-gees album they had on a loop. From Dubai, we took a taxi to Sharjah and caught Daalo (with the same russian flight crew) to Djibouti. We landed early in the morning on a friday and found ourselves being backbitten in french by the skinny djiboutian agents at the airport (They saw "Gabiley" listed as place of birth on the passport and figured us for Lalis). The place was crowded and disorganized. We got picked up by a cousin with whom we were staying and we headed uptown to her place. I was still feeling the effect of my flight sickness yet too excited to sit still. I took a quick shower, put on a macawiis and a T-shirt and headed out to the masjid at my old neighborhood for friday prayer…I got to the masjid early and didn't think anybody would recognize me since I'd gained in both weight and height but the first person that I came across picked me out and greeted me with "maanto dhan baan ku sugayey" (No idea how he found out I was in town). I spent a month there. My daily routine consisted of swimming, playing ball, visiting family or hanging out with some of the kids I grew up with.

High points

+ Re-connecting one last time with one of my best buddies, who would pass away a few years later (Allah yarxamuh)
+ The fresh food
+ The atmosphere and the feeling of belonging
+ The masjids at every corner

Low points

- The busaarad that afflicts the majority of the people and the struggle they go through;
- The cimri dagdag caused by disease and/or balwad
- The xagaxasho (hustle) from khat fiends (asking you for money for their daily fix)
- The heat…

Overall, it was one of the best summer I've had. Insha'Allah, I hope to finally make it back this coming year.
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cool story skip, I too enjoyed the masjids at every corner but recognised the real poverty.

:lol: @being recognised after many years gone

btw, 97 is a long ago bro I hope you do go insha'allah :up:
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For me it was July 2009 when I ended being a hostage in our house with 47 displaced members of my Family who fled to our Home when Al Shabab invaded North Mogadishu which we thought could never happen and people fled to our home in Liido only for Al shabab to come to Liidoo and set up base right infront of our house. imagine eating canjeero Ito saliid with shaah for breakfast, lunch and Dinner for 12 days until one day they let use go but kept my father for another day. Before that event I had never experienced War in my life since I was already out of the country during the Civil War. inshallah next year I will make it to Xamar again. My highlights was eating fresh sea food especially Lobster, Canjeero Iyo beer fresh every morning, munching in sparmuuto Iyo canuuni. Inshallah if everything goes to plan I will be in Xamar Cadaaye come January 2013 :mrgreen:
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2000 was my first time going bck home ... ooh god it was a nightmare from flying out from sharjah on star and landing in HRG airport which was nothing but two rooms me and my brother just sat dnw on the bench thinking wtf hve we come too.. when we came out i saw buulo yar yar which sold tea to the workers i turned to my mum and said if my so called uncle lives in that im going bk to the uk the next day ..

ppl that know HRG airport is located on top of a hill so u dont see the magaalo until ur coming dwn that hill .. then it was just miyi with ambassdor being bulit .. we spent the next hr looking for my uncles houses as my mum hadnt informed anyone that we were arriving... when we finally get there it was a normal built house thnx god ... worst part was getting lost in HRG at the time i was 14 yrs old didnt knw anything bout tribes and didnt knw the name of my tribe the xafaad or anything so i asked some man that was selling qaad im lost adeer i need some help he asked me wat my tribe was i said my mums tribe coz i over heard my mum disscuss it so said that ... basically ended staying with a family of that tribe night and ended up on the bafiin on the radio the next day :lol: :lol:

best believe after that i learnt my abtrisiin and the name of the xafaad :lol:
first time in somaliland was embrassing :oops: :oops:
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Markii ugu horeysay aan tagey soomalia waxey aheed, 1998, aniga iyo hooyo,
Waxaan ka duulney Copenhagen, transit waaxanu ku noqoney Dubai iyo Jabuuti.
Bosaaso airport markuu diyaarada cagta soo dhigatey, oo ay dadku ka dagayeen diyaarada, aniga dhib bey igu noqotey inaan ka degto diyaarada sababtoo ah, kuleel daraadeed , waan neefsan kari waayey diyaarada ayaan ku noqdey ilaa markii dambe aan ka soo degtey si orod ah waliba baaburka ayaan ku cararey. Markaasna waxey aheed July.

Yaa hadal nigu daalin... waxa ugu yaab miirnaa aan arko..waxey aheed anigoo bosaaso joogo habeen habeenada ka mid ah...waxaan dhahey casho yaan rabaa, nin tolka ayaa soo boodey oo igu yiri,, hamburger ma rabtaa...anigoo yaaban baa haa iri.
waxaan moodey.....ineysanba Burger Bosaaso laga aqoon. Aqoon daro baa saas iigeysey inaan u fakaro lakiinse nin yar baan ahaa 12sano jir ah.

Tankale waxey aheed,, wakti habeen ah ayaanu waxaan soo galney magaalada Gaalkacyo waxaanu seexaney xadka cagaaran guri u dhow 20 meter u jirta qiyaastii anagoo barxada fadhin na oo bbc da dhaageysaney oo waliba aan casheeney......ayaa ninkii tolka ahaa barxada iska seexdey intuu qolka aadi lahaa.....anigoo ciil i haya oo islahadlaya muxuu ninkaan damacsanyahey...... muu qolka isoo tuso sidaan u seexdo haduu nin tolyahey....... ayaa hal mar waxaan maqley Waryaa Waryaa qoriga soo qabo.....ileen waa dhiman dhufeys ku jira...ileen anigu war ma u hayo inaan hurdo xadka Cagaaaran, habeenkaas oo dhan waan soo jeedey baqdin daraadeed.......War Zone AREA.

Tan kale waxey aheed.....Anigoo socda magaalada Gaalkacyo ayaa waxaa is qabsadey labo dhin....labada nin midkooda Ak47 buu la soo boodey...kii kale na waxuu la soo baxey Toorey.....anigoo oo yaaban oo isla hadlayo sidey ku dhaci kartaa sheekadaan ileen dadkaan waa Reer Mudug taas ayaan iloobey.......markii dambe ninkii intey miirka ku soo noqotey buu hotel u dhow meesha ayuu ak47 ka soo qabsadey.........lakiinse labadii dhin waala kale qabtey......ugu dambeyn
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I have never gone back. :)
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First time I went to Somalia was actually this summer. Living in qurbo since the age of two I was really excited to finally see my country for the first time. So me and my mother take Jubba Airways from Nairobi to Mogadishu. It was an alright flight everything went smooth alhamdulillah. Unaware that Somali flights were off schedule we were planning on leaving to Galkacyo at 10:00 am as it had said on our tickets. To our surprise we sat at Aden Cadde Airport for 6 hours. They moved us from outside after 30 minutes realizing that our plane wouldn't come until 4 pm. They then made us go through departure screening as if we could have something on us knowing we just got off an airplane 40 minutes ago. They than put us in the waiting rooms which the air conditioning was not working and everytime we step outside to get some cool air we would get yelled at and told to get back inside. (Rude workers)
Finally when our plane should up it turned out it was a jet that seated 40 people. There was no way that it could take the amount of 63 people and their luggage that were going to Galkacyo. Wallahi I was disappointed when I say that the jet had no ac water was just dripping the seats were broken no seat belt. My seat would push back to the person sitting behind me. The luggage didn't fit on the bottom so 63 of us plus luggage was on the top. Russian pilots didnt expect that much people but they were given their bribe money.
Came to Galkacyo to realize I have no idea who uses such a weird building as an airport. It was small with hundreds of people yelling.
I was disappointed by Galkacyos airport but when I went out to the city I liked it a lot better. Although I was also disappointed in Somalia's overall urban planning I thought how do such individuals live in this kind of situation. The goats roaming the streets in Galkacyo, Bosaso, and Garowe was really weird knowing it was a city and not a badiyo town.
Going through the major cities in Puntland - Galkacyo, Burtinle, Garowe, and Bosaso.
I absolutely loved Garowe becasue it was beautiful compared to the other cities. Burtinle was my families town and was pretty interesting. I tried to blend in with the locals but unaware the Somalis know how to distinguish qurbo joog from the locals I was astonished. They would ask me about America and how I liked it I guess it was because I was a lot lighter than the locals. Galkacyo my tribal hometown I stayed for two days and I'm sad I didn;t get to explore my city. I was afraid of those random explosions. Bosaso was huge and mashallah way too hot. Their beach was littered with hilib ari malawax and bones and bags. Disgusting I still enjoyed the multiclan city.
Going to Mogadishu was actually the highlight of my trip Mashallah I actually fell in love with Somalia because of that city. I was in shock to the point where I was actually standing in the city that my family had run away from decades ago. It was beautiful and I loved that it was rebuilding so quickly.
Overall first time going to Somalia I loved it and inshallah after college I know I'm going to help my people. The one thing that was annoying was the flies I actually have bite marks all over my arms and legs and no they were not mosquitoes. The other thing was the nasty bathrooms ugh. I loved the camel meat and camel milk surprisingly as a picky eater.
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Very interesting stories guys :up:
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my first time going back to Somalia was summer 02. From Toronto to london I had flown with Air Canada(I remember I had great anticipation for this airline) but I was effing floored to say the least. Then from London to Dubai I had flown with Emirates(the best best best airline in the world hands down) and since then I havent had such a wonderful experience with an airline. From Dubai we took Daalo airlines. I remember when boarding that plane it still had that TAJIKISTAN label still on it omg. I remember black garbage bags where stored in the back of the airlines where seats use to be. We spend 2 hours in Djibouti airport. One thing I remember at the time was that I asked for a bottle of soda at the bar(they had alcohol as well) and the waitress said "$5", and I just walked away.

When we landed in Hargeisa airport the first thing ive experienced was the the nice weather. I came out of the cockpit and stood at the top of the stairs and took a deep breath. I had a lot of excitement and I was innocent, I just wanted to get to know my uncles, cousins and my qabiil. I saw this fence connected to this small building and at that fence stood so many screaming relatives of the passengers. It was absolute chaos, a situation not for the faint at heart. No sooner have I got to the building was I approached by two dudes asking me was "ina libaax sankataabte". I immediately assumed these were my cousins and I give them a huge hug only to realize later that they were plain clothed airport workers who were asked to retrieve me out of that airport.

As soon as I stepped outside that airport I saw someone who like identical to my father. I knew it was my uncle who I have never seen in my life. He gave me that warm fatherly/uncley forehead kiss and stuff. Then behind him I noticed there was a line of guys as if they were welcoming a head of state. My uncle leading the way he introduce me one by one to these strangers(at the time). I remember thinking "what da fuck is this, one dude is uglier than the other with messed up teeths and stuff"(that was my immeature thinking at the time, caruurnimo dee). Funny think is that I will end up been very close to the ugliest of them all. He turned out to be the realist cousin of them all. Till this day we keep in touch. I even paid for his recent wedding. Cant imagine how many fights he get in for me. One time this berber was trying to rip me off, he didnt know the dude sitting there was my cousin, he just assumed i was by myself so when he was done he said "$1". My cousin got up and cuss the shit out of him. And he threw 2k shillings at him.

Another interesting thing that happened was that one day I was left alone to keep sleeping in the morning in my uncles house. I woke up and noticed theres was nobody in the house. I just sat in the courtyard and I was brushing my teeth when the neighbor girl knocked at the door. I invited her in, she was looking for my cousin. I somehow led her to my room, only to be stopped at the last minute bc she was on her period. We made plans that on Wednesday night she gona sneak into my room. That really eventually happened. I remember busting inside her(a year later my cousin calls me and tells me the chick had a baby. She actually claimed another man who was force to marry her. btw this year I went back. Me and my cousin were sitting at a cafe shop when he reminded me this incident. I asked him if he thought I was the father and he laughed so hard. He asked me if I wanted to see the little girl because uncle still lives there you know. So one day while I was visiting them and as I was driving he made me stop and look at this girl walking, he said "dont she look like you". What an effing experience. she is 8 yrs old now).

That time in Somaliland made me fall in love with the place. I learned who I was and where I belong to. I got to know all my uncles and cousins. I fell in love with hilib geel. I saw the most beautiful females ever. Back then it had little of things that we are use to. It didnt have special hotels and restaurants that cater to us now. It didnt have 24hrs electricity and running water. it didnt have Pizza restaurants like we have now. It didnt have the Crown hotel where people can smoke shisha. been there this summer I was extremely shocked to see the progress. The difference is like day and night.
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That's waz up
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:shock:

was she your daughter

you gotta do a dna test bro.

for the daughter bro.
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DonCorleone wrote::shock:

was she your daughter

you gotta do a dna test bro.

for the daughter bro.
Bfore I do that I need to take a DNA for the one here
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MenaceToSociety wrote:
DonCorleone wrote::shock:

was she your daughter

you gotta do a dna test bro.

for the daughter bro.
Bfore I do that I need to take a DNA for the one here

for real?.....

And i thought you were cool man!
I feel sorry for the kids wallahi
I can't respect that..

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Well, I can share my most recent trip.

I flew from Nairobi early in the morning to Galkacyo, Somalia. It was a thrilling flight, my first commercial flight (not the khat ones) to Xamar airport. The Jubba Airlines pilot, a tall Ukranian, was a fast pilot, doing the journey in 1hr15 instead of the usual 1hr45. As we circled around the city, we approached the runway from Northern suburbs in Xamar. The 737 made a quick swoop dropping rapidly in a classic evasive approach and we screeched to a quick landing. My cousin whom I last saw in 1990 came to the airport to greet me. He looked much younger than me though he was my senior. He got on the plane and said hello. We hugged and caught up for the 45 minutes the plane was on the ground. ONly a handful of people got off the plane which was then heading to Berbera. I stepped out and took a view of the beautiful ocean, the sand dunes and glimpses of the airport which had changed since my last visit. No more photos of the SSRC leadership or signs welcoming you to the Somali Democratic Republic. Little did I know but half of the workers at the airport were my clan mates and I got introduced to a stream of relatives: head of police, army commander, immigration officer and all begged me to stay for a while. It was a touching moment to finally reconnect with so many relatives.

The plane took off towards Berbera and flew fast into a steep incline (I guess to avoid gunfire). We arrived in Berbera after 45 minutes. Berbera is a desert and the sand blinded my view of the white landscape. As the plane touched the runway, I could not help but wonder how great this landing once was. It was a very long runway built to become one of the alternative landing sites for the NASA Space Shuttle should it not be able to land in the US. The old Soviet era buildings and missile silos along with other decript buildings spoke to a different era, when Somalia was important and the world came running to court our favor. The Jubba people herded us into a small garage type building which I suspected used to be used as a parking garage for vehicles where we sat waiting for the Galkacyo plane. The temperature was hot and I couldn't wait to leave for Galkayo. After about 1 hour, we were put on the shuttle bus back on to an old Soviet Antonov plane which was hot, and had no AC. It took off for Galkacyo and I nearly fainted from the heat but it got better when we got into the air. The plane was filled with people and I happened to be seated next to a guy who kept on talking about politics and one mentioned that there was fighting in Galkacyo.

Galkacyo looked like a small town. Nothing great nor fearsome about the town that produced more troublemakers than any other SOmali town. The old airfield which housed the Somali airforce was a wreck. The buildings were pot marked from the war, no fencing, and runway was shabby. My cousin whom I never met but could recognize from his passing resemblance to me met me at the airstrip. He whisked me into his old Mark2 and took me to South Galkacyo and put me up at the Embassy Hotel. I started my work and got to meet the who's who in Galkacyo. I went to visit all of the sites I heard about. The atmosphere was relaxed and quite peaceful. Everyone carried guns but there were a few killings. It felt great to walk around in my macawiis, cimamaad, and tusbax.
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