How to be a good wife in the 21st century - PPD

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Sun May 12, 2013 2:31 pm

The list is long but men and women have changed and I think the list needs revising. This is a summary of how to be a good wife in todays world

1.The naive one - Protect

- It is true that men are like children so it is your responsibility to protect them from their own childish tendencies. You need to be 3 steps ahead of him in order to guide the way and protect him from the evils of the outside world and one step behind to catch him when he stumbles. Sometimes you also need to protect him from himself, it is for his own good.

2. All of them - Provide

- You need to ensure that your husband has enough available to spend on things to keep him pretty and make him feel like a man at the same time e.g. pretty shiny gadgets. It is your responsibility to buy him these things during his birthday or whenever he is feeling down. A happy husband is a happy home. You may also want to consider giving him an allowance to provide some leeway but not too much.

3. Twist et al - Discipline

- We have already discussed the fact that men are like children and it is also true that if you spare the rod you do spoil the child. Therefore in order to ensure that your husband stays in line you need to discipline him if he tries to wander outside this line. Also sometimes punish him just to surprise him and remind him how much you love him.

eliteSomali · Post by **eliteSomali** » Sun May 12, 2013 2:42 pm

Sounds a lot more like tips on how to run a childcare service. :whew:

Let me give you an advice, when the time comes, marry an adult whom you don't have to babysit.

By the way, feminism has been abandoned long ago. You're kinda late.

salool · Post by **salool** » Sun May 12, 2013 2:43 pm

discipline him? ma ilmo yar oo caruur ah

..I'm not his mother, sorry!

AgentOfChaos · Post by **AgentOfChaos** » Sun May 12, 2013 2:46 pm

*Reads the first group's description*

Well that was uncalled for.

*Goes back to reading comic books*

Tuushi · Post by **Tuushi** » Sun May 12, 2013 2:49 pm

U can just buy a finished product.

Making him is a risky investment.

AgentOfChaos · Post by **AgentOfChaos** » Sun May 12, 2013 2:52 pm

Tuushi wrote: U can just buy a finished product.

Making him is a risky investment.

No one is ever a "finished product" everyone is a work in progress. Whatever happened to accepting a person for who they are? :mindblown:

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Sun May 12, 2013 2:52 pm

Elite it is not feminism it is reality. Men today have become confused so we need to reassess our roles as wives. When you come home stressed from a long day at work, the world beating you down she needs to put on her pant suit and go kick the world's ass herself. Women now have all the tools and if you want something done right...

salool wrote:discipline him? ma ilmo yar oo caruur ah ..I'm not his mother, sorry!

I thought that would be your favourite part :steviej:

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Sun May 12, 2013 2:53 pm

AgentOfChaos wrote:
Tuushi wrote: U can just buy a finished product.

Making him is a risky investment.

No one is ever "finished product" everyone is a work in progress. Whatever happened to accepting a person for who they are?

Clearly you fall into the naive category. There there

AgentOfChaos · Post by **AgentOfChaos** » Sun May 12, 2013 2:54 pm

BlackVelvet wrote:
AgentOfChaos wrote:
Tuushi wrote: U can just buy a finished product.

Making him is a risky investment.

No one is ever "finished product" everyone is a work in progress. Whatever happened to accepting a person for who they are?
Clearly you fall into the naive category. There there

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Sun May 12, 2013 2:55 pm

Tuushi wrote: U can just buy a finished product.

Making him is a risky investment.

The ones you can buy are the second category, very expensive in the long run but that's all men in general anyway. Be prepared Tuushi

Adali · Post by **Adali** » Sun May 12, 2013 2:56 pm

PrinceDaadi · Post by **PrinceDaadi** » Sun May 12, 2013 2:57 pm

"Marwo madax adag maangaab ninkeed maqasha baa dhaanta"

Tuushi · Post by **Tuushi** » Sun May 12, 2013 2:57 pm

AgentOfChaos wrote:
Tuushi wrote: U can just buy a finished product.

Making him is a risky investment.

No one is ever a "finished product" everyone is a work in progress. Whatever happened to accepting a person for who they are?

Yeah,there are some finished products. :blessed:

Maybe we have different meanings of what that means.

BV This spring cleaning u have here is something.

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Sun May 12, 2013 2:57 pm

Agent don't worry we will help you find a strong wife who has got your back and can scare away the bad people. She will also buy you many comic books inshaAllah.

salool · Post by **salool** » Sun May 12, 2013 2:58 pm

My favorit discipline metod hadeynu galno this thread will end up in the extrem section..marka sheekada ma galayo. :whoa:

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