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Is it haraam to mentally date someone?

Posted: Fri Aug 09, 2013 11:45 pm
by hydrogen
Like if you're not physically dating and the other person is not actually aware, so mental. Is that allowed in Islam?

Re: Is it haraam to mentally date someone?

Posted: Sat Aug 10, 2013 12:47 am
by GeoSeven
Dating someone mentally while they don't know it....the heck does that even mean?

Re: Is it haraam to mentally date someone?

Posted: Sat Aug 10, 2013 12:49 am
by hydrogen
GeoSeven wrote:Dating someone mentally while they don't know it....the heck does that even mean?
So you're like "that's my girlfriend/boyfriend and if anyone else goes near them I will get angry" and your close friends know but the person you like/dating mentally doesn't.

Re: Is it haraam to mentally date someone?

Posted: Fri Aug 30, 2013 1:43 pm
by sahal80
hydrogen wrote:
GeoSeven wrote:Dating someone mentally while they don't know it....the heck does that even mean?
So you're like "that's my girlfriend/boyfriend and if anyone else goes near them I will get angry" and your close friends know but the person you like/dating mentally doesn't.
:lol: just that? When I saw the title I thought about fantasizing woman oops yeah hydrogen your still kid(though musiba :roll:) I meant...you know caucasian...I get what you mean, I think it depends on your feelings if you really care about her than no problem but if you just are jealous or keep spoiling it than it will be an ethical problem and a lie wich is haram.

Generally its not wise to ask about what its not stated in the quran and sunnah, allah said laa tasaloo can ashyaa in tubda lakum tasukum=dont ask things that if it was answered back to you, you may dislike it.

Hadaa wallahu aclam.

Re: Is it haraam to mentally date someone?

Posted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 11:53 pm
by zulaika
wow that's kinda creepy..someone dating you mentally and considering u their girlfriend/boyfriend. people fantasize about a crush but to get territorial? all while the other is oblivious... very creepy :)

it's unhealthy at the very least and I hope it's haram.

Re: Is it haraam to mentally date someone?

Posted: Fri Sep 20, 2013 11:57 pm
by Xaawoley
hydrogen wrote:Like if you're not physically dating and the other person is not actually aware, so mental. Is that allowed in Islam?
Cilaaj baad u baahan tahay walaal.