Arguments btw couples

[SelfD]

What are the common things that men and women in relationships fight about? what have you fought about in your past relationships. Did they keep reoccurring and how did u solve it?

[Lillaahiya]

In marriages, couples usually fight and divorce because of money/finances. Don't know about other relationships.

[Jax]

It's caused by the evil eye, many jealous women cast it upon the wife and she abnormally starts resenting the husband. Don't forget Satan, he loves sowing discontent b/ couples, so they divorce.

[SultanOrder]

Jax, how you going to have your excuses lined up before you are even married? :huh:

Couples happiness goes way down after they have kids. Also, if they don't have enough money, not being home enough together. Lack of sex. Honestly, don't know, not married.

BF/GF, atleast the girls complain about not enough attention for them, and other girls flirting. If they are about to get married, those issues. Once arguments start, every little thing is fair game, those little things that you kept your mouth shut cuz it wasn't a big deal then, but now...

[SelfD]

Jax, how you going to have your excuses lined up before you are even married? :huh:

Couples happiness goes way down after they have kids. Also, if they don't have enough money, not being home enough together. Lack of sex. Honestly, don't know, not married.

BF/GF, atleast the girls complain about not enough attention for them, and other girls flirting. If they are about to get married, those issues. Once arguments start, every little thing is fair game, those little things that you kept your mouth shut cuz it wasn't a big deal then, but now...

I agree, after the first argument everything...all the problems comes out.

Ladies, what arguments has your bf/husband ever started? Or is only women that start fights?

[Xaawoley]

1 Money
2 HIS interfering family (It's ALWAYS the mans family who bring drama, that's why I advice marrying nin hooyadi ay dhimatay and one with preferably one sister ONLY and even then taas sharkeeda ka ducaysta )
3 Beerka laagis aka the good stuff
4 After the top 3 become a regular topic then it's probably dirty dishes/ leaving his clothes all over the floor etc

[MenaceToSociety]

Communication ...girls fcuking wanna talk all the time and they don't give the man any breathing space...2nd..jealousy, where she caught u once and now you locations are monitored..3rd social media

[SelfD]

Communication ...girls fcuking wanna talk all the time and they don't give the man any breathing space...2nd..jealousy, where she caught u once and now you locations are monitored..3rd social media

that girl is weak, if id caught u once...they'd be no other chance.

[MenaceToSociety]

Communication ...girls fcuking wanna talk all the time and they don't give the man any breathing space...2nd..jealousy, where she caught u once and now you locations are monitored..3rd social media

that girl is weak, if id caught u once...they'd be no other chance.

But I've never made love to you , haven't u ever heard the Somali proverb " Naago Ninkii qaawiyey Kama harto"

[sahal80]

I think each problem between two couples can have a different background because of their way of life.

For the guys of my social level, they have 4 problems

1-the intervention of their families and not considering them only as guests

2-financially; when he can't afford and wants her time too or he doesn't offer a time

3- the new wives not acting like a macqoul wives

4- the irresponsibility; there is no commitment.

[SelfD]

Communication ...girls fcuking wanna talk all the time and they don't give the man any breathing space...2nd..jealousy, where she caught u once and now you locations are monitored..3rd social media

that girl is weak, if id caught u once...they'd be no other chance.

But I've never made love to you , haven't u ever heard the Somali proverb " Naago Ninkii qaawiyey Kama harto"

That shit is too scary. Id rather be single.

[Lillaahiya]

2 HIS interfering family (It's ALWAYS the mans family who bring drama, that's why I advice marrying nin hooyadi ay dhimatay and one with preferably one sister ONLY and even then taas sharkeeda ka ducaysta )

False. I'm a good sister-in-law. Afarhooda ma galo. My mom isn't a witch either.

[SelfD]

2 HIS interfering family (It's ALWAYS the mans family who bring drama, that's why I advice marrying nin hooyadi ay dhimatay and one with preferably one sister ONLY and even then taas sharkeeda ka ducaysta )

False. I'm a good sister-in-law. Afarhooda ma galo. My mom isn't a witch either.

No one is my famz been married yet but im pretty sure we wouldn't interfere.
The problem I had previously was friends interfering...now im friendless

[Lillaahiya]

Friends interfering cause they're jelly or bitter or because he's a deadbeat?

[SelfD]

Friends interfering cause they're jelly or bitter or because he's a deadbeat?

Jelly....

One incident, she introduced, then set him up with someone else, then came running to tell me he's seeing someone else.
Second incident, chats with him on fb then comes to me telling me things.
Third incident, Fourth incident..finally I walk away.