Social Media

[Lillaahiya]

What are your opinions surrounding social media and relationships? By social media, I'm mainly talking about FB/IG/Twitter, as well as whatsapp/keek/bbm/snapchat, and other messaging apps where you may not personally know everyone on your list. Are you comfortable with the idea of your significant other keeping their pages/pins after marriage? Would you monitor these accounts? Change their settings (i.e. make private, disable friend adds, disable search option, etc)? Go on a deleting spree? And for those who don't have any accounts, are you fine with your spouse keeping theirs active? I ask this because I find many people use these apps/pages to meet people and link up, whether they'd like to admit it or not.

[Rabshoole]

Without trust, their is no US. It's that simple, I'd trust her to do the right thing. Although Lillaahiya on the other hand

[Lillaahiya]

So you're cool w/ her having 550 friends, 65% prolly male, less than 10% family, with at least 5 pms/week if she's at least a 6/10

MashaAllah

[SultanOrder]

Hi

Which ones do you have lily?

[Lillaahiya]

Whatsapp, snapchat, bbm, google +

[Rabshoole]

So you're cool w/ her having 550 friends, 65% prolly male, less than 10% family, with at least 5 pms/week if she's at least a 6/10

MashaAllah

All that should've been sorted out long before marriage, and if she decides to proceed with her baggages I'm afraid the thought of marriage would be on hold, any longer than that, she'd be someone else's problem.

[SultanOrder]

Does anybody use Google+? Wallahi your the first person I know who does and I don't even know you.

Personally, I dislike the girls that put their business out there, especially our relationship, then I would feel my privacy was violated.

Lilly, we are all going to cheat because we will all be in unhappy marriages. Does it matter what we used to meet our fellow cheaters?

[Lillaahiya]

So you're cool w/ her having 550 friends, 65% prolly male, less than 10% family, with at least 5 pms/week if she's at least a 6/10

MashaAllah

All that should've been sorted out long before marriage, and if she decides to proceed with her baggages I'm afraid the thought of marriage would be on hold, any longer than that, she'd be someone else's problem.

So..you're not okay with her having these accounts open?

PO:I have google+ but I don't use it. Google forced me to get it

[Methylamine]

I'd expect her to be more discreet with what she puts out on social media, but I won't demand her to delete her pages nor would I take over those accounts

[Rabshoole]

Best way I can put it, out of sight out of mind, as long as she doesn't give me a reason or doubt, I'm okay with it.

[Lillaahiya]

[SultanOrder]

Lilly, would you give him your passwords?

[Lillaahiya]

^ Yeah

[SultanOrder]

Would you?

Access to your txts
Your whereabouts
Your emails
Your credit history
Your fiends numbers
Your car
Would you work at the same job
Give him now kids you want
Your bank accounts
Let him write everything in his name, houses, cars, etc
A prenuptial

[grandpakhalif]

I'm not letting my wife have any social network accounts, especially NOT snapchat, she'll be under my watch when shes espousing her naked awrah for thirsty guys to like.

Hell to the muthaf!@#$ing anjeero no!