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PEOPLE ASSUME THE WORST: when..

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they see a solo male traveling with a young child alone without the company of a female companion. been doing bit of traveling, still am and what can I say. At pretty much every stop where passport clearance is necessary they question you and almost look at you like a criminal without any benefit of a doubt. I would be surprised if this is the same for female solo parents.

I know and I understand the concerns about child abductions have made governments around the world very cautious when one parent is traveling with a minor child to a foreign destination but the predetermined judgement towards fathers is shocking. Its hard having to explain how this is your child and show papers.. and then the questions about the mother.

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Re: PEOPLE ASSUME THE WORST: when..

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Salaam 1neman.

How old is your son? :)
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Discrimination against single fathers is common. Sucks that you're a victim of it though :down:
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Gotta admit tho, its a tidbit unusual, more power to you if you can manage travelling with a toddler.
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Not trying to justify it but parents abducting is pretty common esp. if battling nasty custody.

But yes,unfortunately the system punshines the fathers more.
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Re: PEOPLE ASSUME THE WORST: when..

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I've gotten weird looks sitting in parks alone, walking with my nephew, and even buying my niece a gift.

I don't look twice at strange kids. Even when they smile and wave.

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