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Can you deny yourself something you want?

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:05 pm
by BlackVelvet
I can argue to myself why it's infact something I shouldn't want and then possibly stop wanting it so there's no denying involved.

But if I want it and the arguments against it are insufficient I can't just acknowledge that I want it and then accept that I can't have it.


Am I the only one?

Re: Can you deny yourself something you want?

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:13 pm
by Hyperactive
I always "try" to deny "myself" what my "self "likes it. naftu wey edeb daran tahay. in mar walba in check laku sameeyo weeye. Allaho hanaku so deynin, naftan baas.

God said in behalf od yusus AS:

وَمَا أُبَرِّئُ نَفْسِي إِنَّ النَّفْسَ لَأَمَّارَةٌ بِالسُّوءِ إِلَّا مَا رَحِمَ رَبِّي إِنَّ رَبِّي غَفُورٌ رَحِيمٌ


"Nor do I absolve my own self (of blame): the (human) soul is certainly prone to evil, unless my Lord do bestow His Mercy: but surely my Lord is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful."

Re: Can you deny yourself something you want?

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:17 pm
by salool
Yes, esp if a sin is involved.

Re: Can you deny yourself something you want?

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:24 pm
by BlackVelvet
:MJ:


What are all these dambi you people are denying yourselves

Re: Can you deny yourself something you want?

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:27 pm
by salool
:lol: :lol: temptationsku wuu badan yahy yaasminay, dont play saint now.

Re: Can you deny yourself something you want?

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:32 pm
by GeoSeven
Unless it's detrimental to me, nope.

Re: Can you deny yourself something you want?

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:36 pm
by AbkoowDhiblaawe
a daily struggle. am always loosing the battle. my iimaan is weak. :snoop:

Re: Can you deny yourself something you want?

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:38 pm
by Basra-
Jas@loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool


:dj: Forgive Hyper and Salool--- they are both suffering from lesbian attractions! :dj: Thank God-- Islam is helping control their sexual urges and their mental capacity to influenced by 'Jinn voices'! LOL




Dear Jas,

Go ahead and indulge yourself dear! U deserve that NEW expensive IPHONE!! Treat yourself! :stylin:

Re: Can you deny yourself something you want?

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:39 pm
by BlackVelvet
salool wrote::lol: :lol: temptationsku wuu badan yahy yaasminay, dont play saint now.
I don't get temptations of that kind :lol: :lol:




But if it's not necessarily a sin (or if it's a grey area :oops: ) then there's no reason why I shouldn't necessarily want it and if all the reasons against are insufficient, then Ilahey amarkiis I don't have it in me to cadaan myself.


Like hada there is something I really want, like really really want and I've been arguing with myself for the past couple of months. I am not going to go out to look for it but next time the opportunity presents itself I have given myself the okay. Break a leg, waa la kaba. 2 months of torturing myself is more than enough.

Re: Can you deny yourself something you want?

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:44 pm
by BlackVelvet
Basra :lol: lesbian attractions sounds like the title of a movie

I wish it were just a phone, I wouldn't spend that much time thinking about it.

Re: Can you deny yourself something you want?

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:46 pm
by Basra-
Jas :o Well, I figured u r in the UK, there iphones are a novelty. :dj:


OK, then u have had me curious. What is it that u want? A New Car? It cant be that, UK people don't drive. lol It cant be a house, u certainly cant afford it. Hand bags? Maybe. It has to be something that is not a necessity, a luxury which u can do without but feel the urge to have it. Go ahead-- tell us. :stylin:

Re: Can you deny yourself something you want?

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:47 pm
by salool
If there's no sin in the pic, then go for it.Aduunko wa labo cisho. :up: :lol:

Basraay adigu hadaad naagaha ka heshid dee dadka dhan sidaada ha moodin. :roll:

Re: Can you deny yourself something you want?

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:50 pm
by Basra-
salool wrote:If there's no sin in the pic, then go for it.Aduunko wa labo cisho. :up: :lol:

Basraay adigu hadaad naagaha ka heshid dee dadka dhan sidaada ha moodin. :roll:

Salool

Walaal, with u all due respect-- I can swear Walaahi oo bilaahi oo tolaaii---- u have LESBIAN attractions. You and hyper-- that is --if u r not the same person. :stylin:

Re: Can you deny yourself something you want?

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:50 pm
by GeoSeven
You won't go looking for it but you'll buy it if you see it? Flirting with your temptations :lol:

Re: Can you deny yourself something you want?

Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:53 pm
by BlackVelvet
So Hyper and Salool have a sin problem and Basra and GeoS have a spending problem :lol:



I don't know if this makes me feel better or worse