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Without giving away the identities of the persons concerned....the situation is thus.

Wife receives the terrible news that she has breast cancer.
Understandably, she is devastated and is in emotional turmoil.

Arguments abound...as husband regularly chats up local Somali's.
Husband divorces wife...a few weeks later he announces marriage.
wife has breakdown can't manage kids, social get involved... former husband on honeymoon.

This is more or less a true situation..My question is, " Why are we Somali's so callous"?
I'm not just referring to these deplorable events...but generally....Somali's act with total disregard to anybody around them, family, friends or otherwise.
Surely a clue to our lamentable position in the world can be traced back to such apathy.

wax wanaagsan afkeyga kama so baxayan marka i will keep my opinion to myself.

Scratch that..i hope someone chop off his irbad.

The wife has started her treatment and the local women/relatives are looking after the children.
Meanwhile the father hasn't returned once since he divorced.

Well Ilaahy wa caadil, he will suffer one day too.The woman spened half of her life with that idiot, gave him children and took care of him.Nin somali abaal ma leh.

Ilaahy gabadha caafimad ha siiyo awlaadeda ha korsate.

Life goes on, and we all have to make tough dissions and prioritise on our next move. I would probably have done the same if I was in his shoes.

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R u sure, it is NOT AIDS but 'breast cancer'? I have yet to see a single Somali woman suffering from breast cancer. It is generally unheard of - unless I need to call some contacts who work in the Social health care work and do some dirty job for me and dig some files.


To your question: Yes, Somalis--generally are heartless, backward society. We are not very far from the adoon gene. The adoon gene is a very selfish gene. It is directly connected to the natural zoo world where survival of the fittest is paramount. Civilization brings us close to humanity. Somalis and the African Americans are almost identical. Its just that one is a dumb wild animal and the other is a clever wild animal. Its a difference between a lion and a monkey. (the monkey being the most intelligent wild animal representing Somalis, very tricky and conniving specie-- and the lion- smarter than the rest with stamina hence a real adoon bantu) They both live in the wild but technically one has some brain cells over the other.


The context of your story seems fishy. I think there is something underlining in this story that u DONT know or u r NOT sharing. Go dig deep and bring us ---or bring--me more info so I may---functionally analyze completely.

Off with his head.

You know i've heard something similar from my mum when she was on the phone to somebody.

Nacala! Damiir iyo naxriis inowsan mindna laheyn ee Allow caafi gabarta, Illahow eykabooda.

qofku marka una waxba xeerinayn wa iska xayawan oo kale.

haduna ilahay ama cuqubo ka baqayn mu ceeb un iska ilaaliyo

Damn that's ice cold

So in his morally depraved reasoning, it was time to find a new play toy now that the old one is broken. Wouldn't be surprised if he was raised around a father who had a glacial disregard for his mother and females in generals.

The man is foolish, but his action is understandable, I myself would have done the same thing but with timing.

The man is only weighing his option's, bear in mind the children will need a mother one way or the other.

Even123 wrote:The man is foolish, but his action is understandable, I myself would have done the same thing but with timing.

The man is only weighing his option's, bear in mind the children will need a mother one way or the other.

A step mother for your children? That's classic.

man that's cold walahi.