Apperantly many of them read my thread and became furious & angry! To them this was a way of proof that somalis have Something called Qoute on Qoute ''Ceeb Culture''
According to her made up ceeb culture , it means we shame & Silence victims of abuse & violence! So they dont come forward
But how true is this? considering that somalis in the past & present would death sentence rapist & abusers! Our culture doesnt tolerate it!
As i have myself witnessed in person myself a guy attacked by the community & demoralized for it
i think that nonsense ceeb culture she is trying to push is human problem where the victims of domestic abuse and rape dont speak out regardless!
although make no mistake the victims of abuse are not in the fault never at fault, but it makes it rather difficult to process justice and to catch & sentence the perpretator if the victims doesnt come forward due to embarrasment , shame, resentfulness on both parts etc which is common human response to this and not becuz of a culture of shaming or silencing them!
No culture endorse rape or violence against women
Police and govt institutions are doing all they can to get people to actually report such cases but despite of that we still see a huge number of under reporting becuz people are not coming forward!
So here is an example from understanding violence against women
As you can see violence against women are common in any culture race country and so is the reluctance to speak out about it when it comes to both women & men regardless culture race religion! Violence against women are called hidden problem for many reasons not becuz of culture or religion!
But cause of both men and women dont come forward with this issues because human feelings like embarassment, shame,resentfulness Not becuz of being silenced or shamed by ones culture or religion! Which is a very misinformed assumption!
In turn many are ambvialent & unaware about it as a effect!
So to blame Someting that should be everyones responsibility on culture or men in particular is wrong it is more likely just another way for you to project a female Victimhood complex!
Not only that but in many ways it very much shows ur lack of knowledge about such cases and show how the brain washing of young western grown women with this Radical feminist ideology does not help the victim of such cases nor does it address or solve the issues pertaining to violence against women!
My thread the other day wasnt so much to undermine the violence she suffered or to blame her for it but to critic the propaganda she was spewing & the fact that she was trying to tie her alleged incident to somali culture although her alleged incident is grusome and awful & she deserves justice and in now way was it her fault, it serves no reason or justification to be used for ur own self righteousness and victim propaganda!
Falsely mislead people!
Women who are plagued by work place injustice , sexual violence will be best helped by Truth and solid research - not by hysteria and hype!
